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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 7:28pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
thanks
u wlc
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 7:36pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
u wlc
so where do u school?
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 7:46pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
so where do u school?
seriously? u expect me 2 say dat here?
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
seriously? u expect me 2 say dat here?
are u on bbm,or what's app or 2go or facebook?
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 8:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
are u on bbm,or what's app or 2go or facebook?
yea i am
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
yea i am
add me on bbm @ 2B74EFBB
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 8:05pm On Oct 09, 2014
MissSlimbody:
That a lady is not a virgin doesn't mean she should continue in d act. She can decide 2 stop having s.ex until marriage.

And dat a lady comes 2 visit u is not a license 2 make "moves".

Finally!! A lady responds. Good point. A lady can decide that? Seriously? Hmm...*nodding my head*

License? Let's talk about that. Depending on the nature of a guy's relationship with the lady before the visit, the license can be obtained.

Seen cases of guys being made fun of because they were not "sharp enough" (by the lady).

Also seen ladies who were engaged making fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them. Babe/mrs/miss, like I said depending on the nature of the relationship before the visit.

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 8:07pm On Oct 09, 2014
Mirexx and co, u guys should stop derailing abeg.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
add me on bbm @ 2B74EFBB
aiit
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
aiit
or what platform are u active on?
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by MissSlimbody(f): 8:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:


Finally!! A lady responds. Good point. A lady can decide that? Seriously? Hmm...*nodding my head*

License? Let's talk about that. Depending on the nature of a guy's relationship with the lady before the visit, the license can be obtained.

Seen cases of guys being made fun of because they were not "sharp enough" (by the lady).

Also seen ladies who were engaged making fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them. Babe/mrs/miss, like I said depending on the nature of the relationship before the visit.

Yes, a lady can decide dat.

Jst as you've said it all depends on d nature of d relationship.

One thing we must know is not all gals/guys are the same.

That some ladies made fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them, doesn't mean all ladies are like that.

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Mintayo(m): 8:17pm On Oct 09, 2014
Smh...
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 8:22pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
or what platform are u active on?
i alredi invited u. don't worry
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
i alredi invited u. don't worry
the invitation must have been hijacked by wizards in d air,,though,,I aint see no pings
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 8:25pm On Oct 09, 2014
CyberWolf:
but that's the first time of showing your hauz na...

Hold up, who said I was talking about me? Lol. C me c wahala!! Nairalanders no go kill person. Know a lot of people on this site. Abeg no implicate me.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 8:37pm On Oct 09, 2014
MissSlimbody:


Yes, a lady can decide dat.

Jst as you've said it all depends on d nature of d relationship.

One thing we must know is not all gals/guys are the same.

That some ladies made fun of guys who didn't take advantage of them, doesn't mean all ladies are like that.


Hmm...like the way you think. Agree with the last paragraph. So, why do some ladies pretend? If you want it, say it. Its as simple as that. Why the charade?. If a lady is cheap, she is cheap. Respect to all the ladies out there who value themselves.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 8:49pm On Oct 09, 2014
Unibenstudent:
or what platform are u active on?
I sent it more dan 3tyms
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by MissSlimbody(f): 8:51pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:



Hmm...like the way you think. Agree with the last paragraph. So, why do some ladies pretend? If you want it, say it. Its as simple as that. Why the charade?. If a lady is cheap, she is cheap. Respect to all the ladies out there who value themselves.

Why do some ladies (and some guys) pretend?

I have just one word for them

Hypocrites

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
pm me let's chat I like u

And the foolish dude will quickly PM her...she be gold?

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by nykolaax(m): 8:57pm On Oct 09, 2014
my opinion.... as a guy..... if a lady comes to your Ouse for d first time and you've not being friend zoned right from d outset.... dude cmon.... make a move.... might not be too fast and sharp bout it but den I wud..... but I feel d whole issue depends on d chemistry u are sharing b4 her visiting

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
mirexxx:
I sent it more dan 3tyms
I have added u now
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by iebanehita(m): 9:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
didadavid:


And the foolish dude will quickly PM her...she be gold?

grin Not every Nairalander is Sane. Have it at the back of your mind.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 9:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
MissSlimbody:


Why do some ladies (and some guys) pretend?

I have just one for them

Hypocrites

Seriously, the perfect word. Some guys?. Harsh, but totally agree. I believe some do it cause they don't want to feel guilty after the act. So they pretend, you fall for it, and life goes on.

Nothing is more painful than sleeping with a person who doesn't value you. It leaves a very bad taste most times. So pretending to me is like taking panadol before the headache comes.

Spoken from a guy's perspective, purpose of thread is to hear from a lady's perspective.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by MissSlimbody(f): 9:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:


Seriously, the perfect word. Some guys?. Harsh, but totally agree. I believe some do it cause they don't want to feel guilty after the act. So they pretend, you fall for it, and life goes on.

Nothing is more painful than sleeping with a person who doesn't value you. It leaves a very bad taste most times. So pretending to me is like taking panadol before the headache comes.

Spoken from a guy's perspective, purpose of thread is to hear from a lady's perspective.
smiley
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 9:16pm On Oct 09, 2014
nykolaax:
my opinion.... as a guy..... if a lady comes to your Ouse for d first time and you've not being friend zoned right from d outset.... dude cmon.... make a move.... might not be too fast and sharp bout it but den I wud..... but I feel d whole issue depends on d chemistry u are sharing b4 her visiting

Funniest thing is; at times a positive chemistry doesn't correspond to a positive response. That is what confuses me about this issue.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 9:19pm On Oct 09, 2014
MissSlimbody:

smiley

You dropped a smiley? Seriously?. Give me your perspective.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by nykolaax(m): 9:26pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:


Funniest thing is; at times a positive chemistry doesn't correspond to a positive response. That is what confuses me about this issue.

a positive chemistry doesn't mean she would dance to ur tune but just make your move regardless..... don't be afraid of losing her no matter how pretty... dere is always gonna b sum1 more cute Dan her...and u ain gonna die if she leaves.... no disrespect meant

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by MissSlimbody(f): 9:30pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:


You dropped a smiley? Seriously?. Give me your perspective.


You've modified ur post nah.

Here is it.
I don't do Pre-Marita Sex

I'll always say this b4 committing myself in2 any relationship

So, if u value me, u'll keep ur hands 2 urself.

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Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 9:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
nykolaax:


a positive chemistry doesn't mean she would dance to ur tune but just make your move regardless..... don't be afraid of losing her no matter how pretty... dere is always gonna b sum1 more cute Dan her...and u ain gonna die if she leaves.... no disrespect meant

Lol. We're not talking about me, none taken. Thanks for the advice though. The reason I cam up with thread was because I have a lot of friends who have experienced this rubbish. I've seen marriages built on this pretense. It sickens me.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by DrProf(m): 9:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
MissSlimbody:


You've modified ur post nah.

Here is it.
I don't do Pre-Marita Sex

I'll always say this b4 committing myself in2 any relationship

So, if u value me, u'll keep ur hands 2 urself.

Sorry but, I checked out your pic. You're young, hope you still have this mindset four years from now. The world needs girls like you to give hope and inspire.
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by nykolaax(m): 10:06pm On Oct 09, 2014
DrProf:


Sorry but, I checked out your pic. You're young, hope you still have this mindset four years from now. The world needs girls like you to give hope and inspire.

Lol..... bad guy....maybe sum1 wud av formatted her brain and put windows 18 bah sorry gal, no disrespect meant....just catching fun
Re: Its Just Sex, Not War. by mirexxx(f): 10:33pm On Oct 09, 2014
didadavid:


And the foolish dude will quickly PM her...she be gold?
c'mon don't b lyk dat. I am much more dan gold u hear me??

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