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Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 7:30pm On Oct 09, 2014

Okay this is a chat converso between Andre and Pam.

Pam thinks Andre's being a douchebag for wasting three years of her life and just calling it quits.
Andre on the hand thinks Pam is such a manipulative lipsrsealed

who is only interested in self.

These duo used to seem sooo in love. (Sigh)

I was able to get a first hand glimpse into their discussion and at that moment, a thought hit me.
"This is a sad reality for both sides of the divide as it pertains relationships in our society today."

The quoted:

Andre: I’m done.

Pam: Hey Sweetee , good to see you!

Pam: Done? With work, I guess?

Andre: No!

Andre: I’m done with us.

Pam: Huh? I don’t quite follow

Pam: Who’s “us”?

Andre: You and I

Pam: OmiGosh!!

Pam: Are you jilting me!?

Pam: What, Why?, OMG, This is so o not happening?

Andre: I wasn’t mincing words, was I?

Pam: I demand an explanation. WHY!?

Was what I could gather, so I thought to self:
"What really is the cause of strife and contention between these two, these fine couple."

I shared my concerns with Lief ~~Apatheist~~ and we decided to put ourselves in their shoes respectively, to try and figure out what went wrong. (From the girl's and guy's perspective).

So, for the next two days or so, He'll be my boyfriend who called it quits with me, for reasons that elude me still.

This is a serious matter and we hope that viewers would treat as such.
No derailing or comments for now, please.

Thanks in anticipation of your cooperation.

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Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 7:31pm On Oct 09, 2014

~~Apatheist~~ Lief, here.

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 7:32pm On Oct 09, 2014

I demand an explanation, WHY!?

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 7:48pm On Oct 09, 2014

Girl i know what it's like...but it my case, the relationship was just about to begin...I guess she developed a cold feet after i let her see the bad side of me...I guess she's the biggest loser because that was the moment i'm about to reveal the sweet side of moi! grin

Re: Heart-broken by Dygeasy(m): 8:20pm On Oct 09, 2014

Sorry I commented o but is it just me that finds this funny and weird at the same time?

So MizMyColi and Apatheist are gonna put up some scripted drama here for the next two days? I don't gerrit. lipsrsealed

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Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 10:29pm On Oct 09, 2014

Ok,

MizMyColi am so so so sorry for commenting, pls accept my apology but can you explain this to me Cuz i dont understand the whole write up embarassed

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 6:22am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:
~~Apatheist~~ Lief, here.

Missy, I might be busy so my replies may come slowly.
Maybe the others here can help, they seem eager enough.

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 6:41am On Oct 10, 2014

Andre: Forgive me, I am not ready for commitment.
Besides, you treat me like a prisoner: always wanting to know where I've been, who I've been with. Is this how we're going to be for the rest of our lives?

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 8:02am On Oct 10, 2014

Apatheist:

Missy, I might be busy so my replies may come slowly.
Maybe the others here can help, they seem eager enough.

LoL

You led me on.
I kinda expected you'd stand me up tho'........

Stay happy.

kiss

Re: Heart-broken by chibwike(m): 8:04am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

LoL

You led me on.
I kinda expected you'd stand me up tho'........

Stay happy.

hehehe

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 8:06am On Oct 10, 2014

Mizmycoli: Apatheist, Dunno If I should reply that, given your recent declaration?

Re: Heart-broken by priscaoge(f): 8:07am On Oct 10, 2014

Whose heart is broken here? angry

I have Superglue wink

Ama give it to u free of charge grin

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:
Mizmycoli: Apatheist, Dunno If I should reply that, given your recent declaration?

"Recent Declaration"?

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

LoL

You led me on.
I kinda expected you'd stand me up tho'........

Stay happy.

Is it bad that I'm confused?

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 8:21am On Oct 10, 2014

Apatheist:

Is it bad that I'm confused?

Confused?

Why?

Wanna share?

I thought we covered confusing spots on the other thread.

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 8:24am On Oct 10, 2014

LoLest.

PriscaOge, please get two cartons, one for fiction, another for real life, just incase.

Nne, today is friday, My Pinshures angry

Re: Heart-broken by priscaoge(f): 8:29am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

LoLest.

PriscaOge, please get two cartons, one for fiction, another for real life, just incase.

Nne, today is friday, My Pinshures

Lmao

...Don't worry ama do it warebill now grin

Oh Sorry dear I forgot. Check your PM! wink

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

Confused?

Why?

Wanna share?

I thought we covered confusing spots on the other thread.

Never mind. Think I get it.
You didn't reply.
What did you mean by "recent declaration"?

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 9:57am On Oct 10, 2014

Apatheist:

Never mind. Think I get it.
You didn't reply.
What did you mean by "recent declaration"?

Being Busy, you never really mentioned that yday.

and

Maybe the others here can help, they seem eager enough.

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 10:02am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

Being Busy, you never really mentioned that yday.

and

Maybe the others here can help, they seem eager enough.

Sorry.
I meant others could come up with ideas, so you wouldn't have only my input.

Re: Heart-broken by Rapsainot(m): 10:05am On Oct 10, 2014

5naira:
[size=60]Ok,

MizMyColi am so so so sorry for commenting, pls accept my apology but can you explain this to me Cuz i dont understand the whole write up [/size]

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Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 10:09am On Oct 10, 2014

Apatheist:

Sorry.
I meant others could come up with ideas, so you wouldn't have only my input.

Hmmmmm......

It's Okay.......
kiss

So you still game?

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 10:17am On Oct 10, 2014

MizMyColi:

Hmmmmm......

It's Okay.......

So you still game?

Always was.

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 10:32am On Oct 10, 2014

Apatheist:

Always was.

Pam:
This is a serious allegation.
All of I've ever done was love you and desire the best for you, even more than self.

Pam: I may have called you a few times to inquire where you were and what you were upto, but that's because I felt we were drifting apart from eachother, like, that bond, that attraction we shared in the beginning was missing.

Pam:

And you waited until three years to bring this to my notice?

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 10, 2014

Andre: Don't try to guilt trip me.
You know you called more than a "few times".
You called even when you know where I am.
It's like you're paranoid
Or maybe you think I'm cheating on you.
What's up with going through my phone and laptop?
How can I be with someone who doesn't respect my privacy?

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 11:13am On Oct 10, 2014

Pam: I'm talking about how three years of my life with you just went down the drain and all you can think of is me, guilt tripping you?
Have you no feelings at all?
Am I that bad in your eyes now?

Re: Heart-broken by MizMyColi(f): 11:26am On Oct 10, 2014

Pam: Moreover, I began acting that way even though I hated myself for it because, you became reticent all of a sudden.
That made me feel unwanted and unloved, I became anxious.
Your inactions made me become talkative and curious, always questioning you.

Re: Heart-broken by daveP(m): 11:48am On Oct 10, 2014

(opens door secretly, peeps. Jots a thing or two)

Re: Heart-broken by ShirelleBaby: 12:00pm On Oct 10, 2014

am lost in SAMBISA FOREZT OH-can someone rescue me so I can know what's happening here

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 10, 2014

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 12:33pm On Oct 10, 2014

Coli check your mail.

Re: Heart-broken by Nobody: 8:42am On Oct 11, 2014

[quote author=MizMyColi post=27021119][/quote]
I'm sorry.
I feel like a bad person.
I didn't follow the thread and was waiting for your mention.
Forgive me. sad

Continuing...

Andre:
I'm sorry if I came off as heartless.
I still love you.
I'm also sorry for not telling you all this time; I was afraid of this: that I'd break your heart and you'll hurt.

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