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3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 1:10pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Here are the few things I've learned that can definitely help you to keep the fighting in your relationship to a minimum. 1. Don't TAKE COMPLAINTS SERIOUSLY: In the moments when a guy(gal) is grouchy due to something else going on,it's easy for them 2 find fault with everything around them. i.e You! maybe you forgot to wash d dishes or left the cap off the toothpaste for the 90th time. Regardless of the reasons,he is yelling at something u did and his Huber moodiness is directed to you. Although the natural human reaction is to fight yelling to yelling,but it will only escalate the fight to the next level(or five levels depending on how loud you are. Just remain calm and realize that you are not the cause of his anger and frustration. Keep yourself disengaged from the argument and you'll bring your partner back to a composed state. Its easier said than done but if you practice not taking certain complaints personally you'll find yourself arguing a lot less. 2. FORGET PLAYING DEFENSE: Trying to make yourself right in a fight,has a huge down side. You can make the other person fell not only wrong but stupid,unimportant, unloved,and fearful of speaking their mind again. Do that enough and your relationship will be irreparable. If your partner is genuinely upset at something you did,don't start attacking them back to invalidate their point. Be humble enough to listen to what he/she is trying to tell you because it bothers him/her. Because no one is perfect and you can always improve yourself. If u show your other half that you are always willing to try to do better, he will follow your example when you ask the same of him. 3. SAY THANK YOU EVERYDAY: Most of the times,the really bad fights happen because one person begins feel unappreciated, and their feeling of being taken for granted comes to a head. You can stop a fight before it starts brewing just by telling your boy/girlfriend or spouse "Thank You Everyday". If u make saying thank you a religious practice, you'll never need divine intervention to save your relationship. wish y'all a happy relationship/marriage with these few points! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by djeezy(m): 1:13pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
One person always controls the relationship. The person who loves less. When you dont let them have their way, bickering occurs. Nice thread btw. |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Nobody: 1:15pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
There's always somebody that love more in a relationship. And that person should be the one saying this. ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 1:17pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
djeezy:yea,true. thanks |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 1:20pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
TrollMan: ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by braine(m): 1:54pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
You forgot to include sincere apology. |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 4:51pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
braine:thanks 4 adding 2 d list 1 Like |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by decode55(m): 11:14pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Mirexxx Mirexxx ![]() ![]() it seems you're an expert on dating issues & all things related ![]() ![]() Nice tips ![]() ![]() Keep it up |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 10:44am On Oct 12, 2014 |
decode55:thanks 1 Like |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 11:59pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
braine:oh yea ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Enegod(m): 12:03am On Feb 23, 2015 |
smh |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 12:15am On Feb 23, 2015 |
shake it off ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Enegod(m): 12:19am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 12:23am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Enegod:lol was going thru my topics and i saw his post ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Enegod(m): 12:31am On Feb 23, 2015 |
mirexxx:so, are we supposed to be happy because of it? ![]() Why don't we allow a dead thread to remain dead ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 12:34am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Enegod:don't make me slap u ![]() mind ur damn business ![]() |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Enegod(m): 12:37am On Feb 23, 2015 |
mirexxx:attitude!!
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Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 12:40am On Feb 23, 2015 |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Enegod(m): 12:47am On Feb 23, 2015 |
mirexxx:You too |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by khassy(m): 1:54am On Feb 23, 2015 |
OK we don here ..... NEXT GEJ TILL 2019 |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by Elinob(m): 7:29am On Feb 23, 2015 |
But why some of us always take complaint seriously; |
Re: 3 Simple Ways 2 End Constant Bickering In Your Relationship by mirexxx(f): 8:21am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Elinob:I dunno oooo 1 Like |
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