And all the confident niggaz i know suddenly forming the am-too-shy-and-an-introvert Guy cuz the thread is created by a Lady...
NL Guys ehh - Switching Lanes since Inception..

The that means I can be luck enough to get a passionate girlfriend

Right on track @op...

As an introvert, i dont smoke or party a lot bt i drink(though am not obssess with drinking).

With cheating or not, i think its a personal decision though its harder for an introvert to cheat unlike an extrovert bt if u wanna cheat, u will, introvert or not.

Nice write up, its a wonderful feeling for ladies when dey date an introvert(experiece thought me that)...av experienced some of my ex calling me to confess they still cherish the wonderful experience we shared together.

Hadizy:
You give people like my brother ( Ymodulus ) hope. Lol!!!! U r right. But u forget to add that these set of people are. Bold online.

Exactly!!!!!!!They are the best husbands...... Problem is, I can't seem to find them.

write2obi:
Am a shy guy, op is correct except for No.3 i cheat like hell

Nairaland...Home of crazy people!

haibe:
lol you simply met the pretenders

Forget it o. An extroverted guy may b very perverse in his words but may not be as bad as talks. An introverted guy wil rarely talk but his deeds r worse. As far as pretense is concerned, introverted guys tk d lead

Aww..I love dis @Op...

cupidora:
U're stubborn,I said dnt ask! Well,not his personality at all,I 'love' his personality. It was totally something else

ok... Just want to know

Joniboi:
Nairaland...Home of crazy people!

I'm not surprised

Wolison:
really?
Maybe I believe you mean dangerous in bed cos we no get joy at all!!!!!!!!
But otherwise,
You really bombed this!!!!!

No I mean they are very deceptive.

Right on track @op...

As an introvert, i dont smoke or party a lot bt i drink(though am not obssess with drinking).

With cheating or not, i think its a personal decision though its harder for an introvert to cheat unlike an extrovert bt if u wanna cheat, u will, introvert or not.

Nice write up, its a wonderful feeling for ladies when dey date an introvert(experiece thought me that)...av experienced some of my ex calling me to confess they still cherish the wonderful time we spend together.

Arva:

Long lasting £rection.

yea, i got erection for 30dayz wen i was a kid

Right on track @op...

As an introvert, i dont smoke nor do i party a lot bt i drink(though am not obssess with drinking).

With cheating or not, i think its a personal decision though its harder for an introvert to cheat unlike an extrovert bt if u wanna cheat, u will, introvert or not.

Nice write up, its a wonderful feeling for ladies when dey date an introvert(experiece thought me that)...av experienced some of my ex calling me to confess they still cherish the wonderful time we spend together.

Honestly shz ryt, I know dz 4d very fact bcoz am one doz guys, u just talk about me @op

Why do girls like dating extrovart guys who they know have bad habits,which they know that them boys will end up breaking their hearts.A guy like me,i cant be heartless dat way

I don't drink, smoke or party. Not too eager in making new friend but always appreciate any kind gesture.
My community is online in fact internet is my closest pal. Are these xtics of introverts or shynes? But i think am just reserved.

ggirl4real:

No wonder u dey look up 4 ur dp. Lol

hmm na u know ooo !

Ifystic:
Its a lie o. . Shy guys are wolves in sheep clothings. Dangerous. (Not all sha but most of them)

Thank you

@ op you are right

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys.

like seriously...if they cheat on you eh,hmm..you can easily catch an extroverted guy that's cheating on you but an introverted guy, hmm..you need skill to catch am.. IMO

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

Nice accessment but not necessarily accurate shy guys and personality differ like the cheating / wominising thing. They are more of ambush preditors since they don't go after the girls don't mean they won't use the available to calm their nerves however they really don't kiss and tell so the secreat is safe
Secondly they are not always in the back @ churches classrooms or camps this is because since they can't get the attention on their own they would enguage in activities that would make them be noticed like sitting where they can be easily seen but still feel unnoticed and act so focused to gain your endorsement

And that we listen don't mean we aren't yawning deeply in our heads its just that we really like our quite times and cutting you off in the middle of a statement will escalate the talks and extend the duration so we patiently wait till you are done and just nodd in agreement so we can be left alone.

Oh yeah! One more thing we drink and smoke too just that we keep our habbits private we hate judgements and critics however we tell you the truth especially when you ask lol

Everyother thing I believe you are right about.just my opinion oh abeg make dem fellas no vex

ycmdng:
I don't drink, smoke or party. Not too eager in making new friend but always appreciate any kind gesture.
My community is online in fact internet is my closest pal. Are these xtics of introverts or shynes? But i think am just reserved.

To me o, if u r naturally reserved, den u r an introvert o. If extroverts r reserved, it's just bcoz dey decide to be so at certain places or instances.

Wolison:
Mehn!!! My guys always complain that I don't go out or party with others but I guess they won't understand my life; even when they connived to secretly take me to an event, they never knew my instinct is always there to tell me their thoughts.....
Guy, I just love my life

beautiful.thats wt i'm stil thanking God for abt myslf.my instinct.being an introvert i usualy knew my frnds or family plan 2 publisiz me whch mak me 2 avoid dm easily

ggirl4real:

Thank you

girl why u hate shy guys like this

Ifystic:

No I mean they are very deceptive.

have you been deceived?
Or did you fell prey to pretenders?
Otherwise,
An introverted guy can't harm you emotional or otherwise.......
Check if the deceptive one you had in mind saying this is a charlatan......cos, we are amazingly lovely and enjoyable and beside, we hardly get into relationship cos of our Pattern of being always want to be free and alone.......ok?

ggirl4real:
I hate introverted guys with so much passion. I can't stand a guy who can't initiate communication, cannot defend himself all in d name of being peaceful. I can tell u dat most of these introverted guys r just pretenders (they r wolves in sheep clothing). They look gentle, calm and walk as if they can't hurt a fly, wen u go near dem, u discover dey r worst dan d extroverted ones. I hate introverted guys o.

#talking from experience#

U ve js attracted genuine love....so on point

@Arva, you are lucky.. But for me I am shy + introverted + nerdy and no lady can keep up with a nerdy guy but maybe with a shy + introverted dude... Relationship cant work for me sadly...

I too am a shy, quiet guy I'm already blushing. Quiet guys can be very sweet, but at the same time very dangerous-u can hardly tell what's in their minds. They won't tell u but would have plotted a lot against u beneath their smiles.

introvert guyz ar playboy, dey dump galz like refuse

its only God that will judge this OP for opening up my life to the public.*hides*

kechywillz:
Why do girls like dating extrovart guys who they know have bad habits,which they know that them boys will end up breaking their hearts.A guy like me,i cant be heartless dat way

Point of correction o. Extroverted guys do not have bad habits, it's just dat dey r very open, dey don't pretend abt anytin bothering dem, dey tell u wen dey r angry and all of dat. An introvert who is angry wit u may stil b smiling wit u but deep inside, he/she is boiling