onyichick:
I met mine in nysc camp.he doesn't drink,smoke or party.he is intelligent n nice infact everytin d op said is true but d issur I hv is his inability to be romantic like call me often n send send nice msgs.d tin don tire me

maybe he doesn't like you cos we do know how to send messages well. I understand the calling part

ggirl4real:

To me o, if u r naturally reserved, den u r an introvert o. If extroverts r reserved, it's just bcoz dey decide to be so at certain places or instances.

Thanks, I most time finds it difficult to answer questions both in Church and class even when am having a vast knowledge in d topic of discussion. Thank God am ME.

Arva:

Exactly what I said shy guys do..they blush at every compliment. . Extrovert guys will never do this.

hmmm... Owk o, how bou those guys in btw. We try to keep real balance with nature. Most introverts are listeners cuz dey hav no idea what to say to u so dey prefer to listen and just chip in. So in other words u must be an extrovert else like my physics go.. 2 like charges? U knw d rest na. A̶̲̥̅♏ a good listener and also a very creative conversationist. So its never boring with us, we are rare and specially gifted. You can't find us if u look anywher, we are very far away but yet so close. You just have to pay attention, if u do find us u have absolutely no reason to leave. Fidelity

judedwriter:
I too am a shy, quiet guy I'm already blushing. Quiet guys can be very sweet, but at the same time very dangerous-u can hardly tell what's in their minds. They won't tell u but would have plotted a lot against beneath their smiles.

God bless u 4 telling d truth

bringbackdgirls:
beautiful.thats wt i'm stil thanking God for abt myslf.my instinct.being an introvert i usualy knew my frnds or family plan 2 publisiz me whch mak me 2 avoid dm easily

what a coincidence?
Guy, which month did your birthday fell into?
Are you a piscean?
Cos they are the one with this kind of lovely instinct

Hadizy:

Lol. Mizmycoli see your friend. Behaviour

Elantracey:
No way , except he's not so introverted . and talking about cheating , I guy that wants to cheat will cheat whether introvert or not.


Just imagine two conk introvert living together .






Yea am first to comment and am still trying to fathom what's so specially about it .

Titiluvly:
like seriously...if they cheat on you eh,hmm..you can easily catch an extroverted guy that's cheating on you but an introverted guy, hmm..you need skill to catch am.. IMO

Cheat? Maybe
As d quiet type, I was dating 2 gals @ once.
If u told one dat I was cheatin on her, d kind of T.H.U.N.D.A sssssslap wey she gor 1st give u ehn
Buh it's neva in my intentions 2 cheat sha, jez dat u girls eh, una sabi push pesin 2

VcStunner:
hmmm... Owk o, how bou those guys in btw. We try to keep real balance with nature. Most introverts are listeners cuz dey hav no idea what to say to u so dey prefer to listen and just chip in. So in other words u must be an extrovert else like my physics go.. 2 like charges? U knw d rest na. A̶̲̥̅♏ a good listener and also a very creative conversationist. So its never boring with us, we are rare and specially gifted. You can't find us if u look anywher, we are very far away but yet so close. You just have to pay attention, if u do find us u have absolutely no reason to leave. Fidelity

Den u must be an Ambivert

The only statement dat isnt completely true z d cheating part. Shy guys make d best cheats o. Believe me

All true except 'shy guys dont cheat' they do and most times against their wish,wen some bold gals make moves on them they are shy to say no...they hate making one feel bad and this is their weakness cos they tend to agree to so many things they wouldnt cos of 'i dont want her to feel bad'...
Shy guys are nice n some intresting

being an introvert comes with a very great burden too. you miss certain opportunities that the outgoing and extrovert gets pretty easy and fast. the smartest and most fierce dog and not the patient eats the fattest bone these days. you cannot approach the beautiful broad for fear of what she might say to you. its tough living your life in a cocoon. its like self imprisonment. however introverts are very sound conversationalists with high sense of reasoning. they read good books and watch movies ( not Africa Magic) which is their source of strength. they are also highly intelligent and lean more on the intellectual side.

Everything the OP said is true,so on point, is like she knows me, because everything she said is applicable to me

ggirl4real:

Point of correction o. Extroverted guys do not have bad habits, it's just dat dey r very open, dey don't pretend abt anytin bothering dem, dey tell u wen dey r angry and all of dat. An introvert who is angry wit u may stil b smiling wit u but deep inside, he/she is boiling

Exactly. introverts r so secretive, they do well as spys-ask james bond

Elantracey:
No way , except he's not so introverted . and talking about cheating , I guy that wants to cheat will cheat whether introvert or not.


Just imagine two conk introvert living together .






Yea am first to comment and am still trying to fathom what's so specially about it .

This school wet you go sha
Na only you waka come?





SAW

Shy guys are just the best,I must admit. #RemindsMeOfMyEx#

Op u ar right abt dat...

OP
Shey introvert no dey turn extrovert?
One more thing


Introverts are slow poisons
They kill but it takes time





SAW

THAINDIVIDUAL:

You don't even talk like one, so you might be an introvert to some people while an extrovert to other people.

Being an extrovert means you can win people from afar by your brightness, you bring life into any gathering.

If you read what she highlighted about NYSC and co, you'll see them away from the crowd.

A woman wants a leader, she wants her man to be admired by others. Not a shy, lonely guy somewhere.

Honestly, every she said described me personally. To add to what she said, we are very choosy when we talk of choosing friends but keep that friendship for lifelong. i still keep a very cordial relationship with my J.S 1 close friend(close to 2 decades now). i use to sleep in his house anytime i want before i left the country. i also have a guy from my SSS 1 days that we are forever inseparable. i love living a very quiet life.even some of my classmates dont know me. you cant say every woman wants a leader and what makes you think shy guys cant be good leaders.You seems not to understand women.What a woman want is someone who is able to live to his responsibilities as a man and not an irresponsible guy, someone who will treat and respect her very well and someone who is faithful, honest, purpose driven and diligent. one of my exs that complained that i was too quiet , gentle and use to avoid social life left me with the help of her friends and got married to an extrovert.Today, she is regretting of quitting that relationship and not being patient cos i so understand and know her more than any other guy(even than her present husband).

Op u ar right abt dis....

am shocked to say,the Op is so on point,she is exactly describing me.

Calculux95:
girl why u hate shy guys like this

Coz I'm an introvert and I can't imagine dating one again. I've neva liked anytin abt my introverted life altho so many pals do wish 2 b like me. Dem no go undastand

I can see @OP is very experienced

Arva I disagree with number 6, I'm a shy and gentle guy but I smoke like an idi-ot. You can call me Bob Marley

These set of people would ALWAYS appeal to me: Shy guys, nerds, introverts, geeks. All the o.p said is very true. *claps hands*

@Op do you know me? Have we met before?

Because I'm exactly all you've mentioned!!!


Was shocked when I was reading this.

Arva:

You can yawn forever and go and sleep forever. Shy guys are the best. If ur an extrovert, I'm sorry I might not date you because just have a look at the post where I said shy guys are willing to listen and don't disrupt conversation.. Ur actually doing the opposite. Extrovert guys like you will keep on yawning at every single converation I hold with them. Only shy guys will be willing to listen to a lady. Become a shy guy today and I might date you. Change ur status from extrovert to introvert.

Everything said about shy guys here are very very very true. I can testify because I have about three of them close to me and two are already married. I remember one"s wife saying "thank God I married him, I don't have infidelity issues" And its actually true because shy guys live a triangular life.

Home - Work - Church

I am not anyways - sanguine to the core!

But the truth is that only very serious minded, thoroughbred ladies can stand them. Most of the ladies would love a SPONTANEOUS guy, a guy who dazzles them with surprises in a romantic way - shy guys cannot give you enough of that, and you cannot force them o.

But if its OK for you to be bored, then marry them and stay faithful, because most shy guys too hurt deeply inside and can be very dangerous.

bringbackdgirls:
beautiful.thats wt i'm stil thanking God for abt myslf.my instinct.being an introvert i usualy knew my frnds or family plan 2 publisiz me whch mak me 2 avoid dm easily

mhen!!!
What a coincidence?
Which month did your birthday fell into?
Are you a piscean?
Cos it's mostly piscean that have these remarkable attributes!!!!

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

YOU ARE DAMN SO SENSITIVE

ggirl4real:

Forget it o. An extroverted guy may b very perverse in his words but may not be as bad as talks. An introverted guy wil rarely talk but his deeds r worse. As far as pretense is concerned, introverted guys tk d lead

lol well you may be right for some

I like guys that drink, party and sleep around

so no to introvert guys