destante:
ayam shocked. That's interesting
hehe and you learned all these through him?

softsparkyy:

Valmunich know say I no dey lie.

Introverts aren't shy but they are reserved. Just because they are quiet in nature and enjoy being alone doesn't means that they are shy.

hehehehehehehhehehehe

Laughing my asss off.

OP congratz o. You don get bobo be dat. Your post just touched the hearts of 90% of active NL guys (they are introverts)






















They'd bore me to death!

Arva...thanks for this post...wanted to change myself but m not gonna anymore..u just described me!

does any guy know amakajewel

plaetton:

Yes, I am an introvert. I get dizzy in a crowded and noisy place.
And yeas, I would rather play a mentally-tasking video game than to talk or listen to someone talk about a celebrity this or nollywood that.
And yes, this aspect of our lives, our short attention span for vain and ephemeral things, makes us seem boring to others.


Most of all you said above is true, except the confidence part.
Introverts are very sensitive and empathic to the moods, gestures and feelings of others.

An introvert is less likely to stop a cute babe on the street and start toasting her. To him , this would be disrespectful and might convey misleading message about his character. He would prefer to first of all get the green light, then strike up a conversation with a lady in a much more friendly atmosphere in a less threatening and more respectful way.
To others, this sensible and rational approach might seem like a lack of confidence.

In my clubbing days, my extrovert friends would toast like 5 or 6 girls in any given night, with only a less than 10% chance of hitting a homerun with one.
On the other hand, I would probably zero in on only one, whom also, I was sure had an interest in me ( smart women seek out introverted men )
So statistically, my scoring average was way better than my extroverted friends.

Hmmm! I gbadun u. You're partly right though. But me I like my life o.
Extrovert with correct sense of appeal.

But these natures are appendable to bring out the best if people

ifeoluwa05:
#Op, do shy nd introverted guys like shy and introverted girls? Am kinda like one...

Yep.

A shy & introverted girl is better of with an extroverted introvert [or at least an introvert (who isn't really shy)].

A complete extrovert - guy will take advantage of a shy/introverted lady. In some cases, the shy introverted lady may mis-interprete the actions, frankness and outspokenness of her extroverted boo as flirting. This ultimately will lead to distrust.

ggirl4real:
I hate introverted guys with so much passion. I can't stand a guy who can't initiate communication, cannot defend himself all in d name of being peaceful. I can tell u dat most of these introverted guys r just pretenders (they r wolves in sheep clothing). They look gentle, calm and walk as if they can't hurt a fly, wen u go near dem, u discover dey r worst dan d extroverted ones. I hate introverted guys o.

#talking from experience#

nwanyi oma, can you please tell us how it happened. i want to share the experience with u

i may be an intrivert but am a funnyguy, u wunt be bored if u marry me

Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners.

That you don't smoke, party or do alcohol isn't enough reason to tag it bad manners. that your favorite jellof rice might be my worst food. Respect peoples way of life so far don't infringe on your own fundamental right.

Acidosis:
Yep.

A shy & introverted girl is better of with an extroverted introvert [or atleast an introvert (who isn't really shy)].

A complete extrovert - guy will take advantage of a shy/introverted lady. In some cases, the shy introverted lady may mis-interprete the actions, frankness and outspokenness of her extroverted boo as flirting. This ultimately will lead to distrust.

if an introvert guy marry an introvert gal u ar going to av an extrovert kid, coz minus x minus is plus, nd u know wat ur kid wil giv u more problem

OliverPin:
So if them tell you to marry either a shy-rich guy(introvert) or marry basket mouth(extrovert) you will choose the introvert Hahahahaha Naija girls confused since 206BC

Not only naija girls bro. Women want everything in their man

Good + Bad
Shy + Bold
Introverted + extroverted
Out going + Reserved
Rich+Romantic
Strong +Caring
Hardworking +Sensitive
God fearing + Club banging
Fanatic + Carnal

They just want everything. And everything is nothing

Pple, I shy die!! Infact! Shyness is my middle name

Church location
Nysc location
Lecture hall location / NFF angle
100% correct

You dont remember to include shy ladies. Do you think they can also be recommended to guys?

Sweetlemon:
hehehehehehehhehehehe

Laughing my asss off.

OP congratz o. You don get bobo be dat. Your post just touched the hearts of 90% of active NL guys (they are introverts)






















They'd bore me to death!

This is the problem- its not a guy's duty to always entertain you

Arva:

Of course many of them do..but its always a different case when an extrovert guy dates an introvert girl. They see it as an opportunity to rule your life, give you no freedom and no breathing space.

I like shy and introverted guys. I only admire dem frm a distance. People say am jxt too timid and so am not approaciable Have lots of extrovert guys as frnds tho' bt if only.... Is being Timid a put off for shy and introverted guys?

Missmossy:


Hmmm you aint introverted jooor! Or are you offline?

Like i said earlier,some of these guys pretend. Whatever rocks any lady's boat.

don't mind my e-person... he's a lousy dude...but the real me is very reserved

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I'm a bit of an introvert. Not all introverts are intelligent and confident o. Some were forced to become introverts 'cos of the fear of being made jest of. I love mini-extroverts.

[quote author=Arva post=27078918]I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance.

Yea.... And the worse part is they become friendzoned while em girls chase em weedsmoking night crawler party bangers around

philtrum:


From a Nerdy point of view( when I say nerdy I mean the kind of nerd who doesn't sleep becos he needs to find a way to create free energy that's constant enough to power all the gadgets in his room.24/7..) I think you have not searched in the right places....
A lot of guys on nairaland are nerds, literature section(poets), programming section or science and technology...

I wasn't talking about online relationships....I'm talking about someone I could see, feel and touch.( no dirty minds).

God! Am so shy. ladies sign me up.

na wa oo

Acidosis:
Yep.

A shy & introverted girl is better of with an extroverted introvert [or atleast an introvert (who isn't really shy)].

A complete extrovert - guy will take advantage of a shy/introverted lady. In some cases, the shy introverted lady may mis-interprete the actions, frankness and outspokenness of her extroverted boo as flirting. This ultimately will lead to distrust.

Very interesting indeed... Are yu a shy and introverted guy?

GlorifiedTunde:



Not only naija girls bro. Women want everything in their man

Good + Bad
Shy + Bold
Introverted + extroverted
Out going + Reserved
Rich+Romantic
Strong +Caring
Hardworking +Sensitive
God fearing + Club banging
Fanatic + Carnal

They just want everything. And everything is nothing

the other day they had a thread where they were all saying they like funny guys. They want guys that make them laff now na introvert them want. Tomoro na slowpoke. I just dey look they laff *expecting a counter thread**

Juicy@ extro + extro

I'm shy... I don't even know how to approach a lady

Welcome to Nairaland

Esttyconnect:
I'm a bit of an introvert. Not all introverts are intelligent and confident o. Some were forced to become introverts 'cos of the fear of being made jest of. I love mini-extroverts.

sameer1212:

Happy Sunday luv!...Why the sad face?

OliverPin:
the other day they had a thread where they were all saying they like funny guys. They want guys that make them laff now na introvert them want. Tomoro na slowpoke. I just dey look they laff *expecting a counter thread**

lmao

girls want everything i swear

its part of their jealous nature when they see other girls with what they don't have

it almost true about dose dat r shy