iceberylin:

QÚĨŤ ĤÁŤĨŃĞ, MŶ nigga

Hey bRo don't think like a fool! I'm not hating you are not wizkid. Nor malala y should I hate on u or catch feelings guess u don't know what hate means...

wow tanx arva,, can't believe dis is coming 4rm a lady
tanx 4 appreciating me

Arva:

You can yawn forever and go and sleep forever. Shy guys are the best. If ur an extrovert, I'm sorry I might not date you because just have a look at the post where I said shy guys are willing to listen and don't disrupt conversation.. Ur actually doing the opposite. Extrovert guys like you will keep on yawning at every single converation I hold with them. Only shy guys will be willing to listen to a lady. Become a shy guy today and I might date you. Change ur status from extrovert to introvert.

Frankly I find this topic rather demeaning to all "shy" and introvert men.

What law of nature makes shy men NOT smoke, cheat and gain education? I didn't bother reading the rest of the article cos I already guessed where it was heading.

Ladies if you go seeking a shy guy thinking you'll get all what the OP promised not only will your stupidity be exposed but you will learn the lesson of generalizations being bad, firsthand.

KC out. RIP to my homie Dutchmak.

Arva

BANGERLEE1:
Hey bRo don't think like a fool! I'm not hating you are not wizkid. Nor malala y should I hate on u or catch feelings guess u don't know what hate means...

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Arva,you are 200% correct. I'm a shy guy too and I'm loving it. Let me add more points to your list. A shy guy is a lone ranger: He goes home alone. A shy guy loves his privacy: Take this away from him and he's dead. A shy guy select who will be his friend: He does this based on his interest. A shy guy is surrounded by lots of females: 99.9% of a shy guy friends are females. A shy guy takes his time before making a call to a girl: He does this by compositing his thought in his head or on paper before making a call to a girl. A shy guy rarely make phone calls: His phone can be domant for a whole year. He's not bothered though. Sometimes he make a phone call only if it is important. A shy guy sometimes or all the times hide his shyness by smiling or laughing.

I guess the OP 4got to include;
Taking advantage of the fact that one is shy nd using it to her own advantage....and of course, because of the guys temperament,he's not man enough to confront the over excessive extrovertedness of the girl

softsparkyy:

I taught him.

Lol. swirry I jealous yew o.

iceberylin:

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Mumu?? An insult? Lolz--- good nite seems this is your house......continue to live thr

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

wow such a good writer and observer.luv your write up

U just describ my husband! When we started dating,anytime he comes to my room he wil just sit dr without sayin anytin to me. I had to tell his frds b4 he change alittle. My mum stil complains dt anytime he comes to her house after greetin and few words, he wil just sit dr readin his news papers.we are almst 9yrs into our marriage but HE is the best husband/frd I can ever hope for.

kashere:
U just describ my husband! When we started dating,anytime he comes to my room he wil just sit dr without sayin anytin to me. I had to tell his frds b4 he change alittle. My mum stil complains dt anytime he comes to her house after greetin and few words, he wil just sit dr readin his news papers.we are almst 9yrs into our marriage but HE is the best husband/frd I can ever hope for.

Wow.

I love my man very confident with a bit of a rough edge. Sorry to say but I feel shy and introvert guys can't really make it in Nigeria. It's a jungle out there

Op u might be wrong watch ur back in ur marriage for introvert or shy guys as u call it.introvert and shy are separate words that are not attributed to the so called guy u are talking about,u can be introvert but not shy,shy but not introvert.
Am an introvert in nature but not so shy,I smoke marijuana occasionally and drink at will.so all these prove u mentioned may lead u astray,did I also say I fuc..k olosho at will?yes I do.

D Op is right on the cheating aspect. Introvert guys hardly toast other girls when they know they in a relationship and even if dey break up it takes dem a long time to find anoda girl but extroverts have girls around dem like flies so d possibility of cheating is high and if dey break up dey start a new relationship in no time.

Wolison:
have you been deceived?
Or did you fell prey to pretenders?
Otherwise,
An introverted guy can't harm you emotional or otherwise.......
Check if the deceptive one you had in mind saying this is a charlatan......cos, we are amazingly lovely and enjoyable and beside, we hardly get into relationship cos of our Pattern of being always want to be free and alone.......ok?

Good one Bro, you got the right word "free and alone " I so much cherish my solitary moments.

taiwolusol:
I love this thread already

The best part about being Shy is that Girl will like(Or LOVE ) you ... speaking from experience :p


OP, i'll have to DM you on this one

not every girls will like or love you.most of them will take advantage by asking too for money,food stuffs etc because they know most shy guys hardly say no.most shy guys don't know how to say no.the opposite is even mostly the case when a girl noticed you are shy,just pray she does not take advantage of it by milking them dry.

Acidosis:


Shy? I've outgrown that, but If I find myself in a wrong place, I'd surely get SHY. E.g. in a gathering of men and women drinking, smoking & partying.

Introvert? Yea, somewhat

Thot being shy and introvert are d same thing. You cant be shy and also be extrovert? I stand corrected.

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havilla:
I love my man very confident with a bit of a rough edge. Sorry to say but I feel shy and introvert guys can't really make it in Nigeria. It's a jungle out there

Adenuga is a typical introvert.

A shy guy always love having fun alone.

Shy and introvert guys get angry so easily and can be a temperamental, all i can say!!!

Toonfreak:
Arva,you are 200% correct. I'm a shy guy too and I'm loving it. Let me add more points to your list. A shy guy is a lone ranger: He goes home alone. A shy guy loves his privacy: Take this away from him and he's dead. A shy guy select who will be his friend: He does this based on his interest. A shy guy is surrounded by lots of females: 99.9% of a shy guy friends are females. A shy guy takes his time before making a call to a girl: He does this by compositing his thought in his head or on paper before making a call to a girl. A shy guy rarely make phone calls: His phone can be domant for a whole year. He's not bothered though. Sometimes he make a phone call only if it is important. A shy guy sometimes or all the times hide his shyness by smiling or laughing.

bro... na me be this o. i always spend 10-20 minute composing what to tell my girl

blakky97:

Too funny.
But don't give up! Out of 10 girls, 1 will respond positively.
Depends on what you are actually after- her companionship, her money, or her stuff... You know what I mean.
Always bear in mind- you have a right to try, because you are human, not a spider. Spiders are solitary- me to my web.

thanks for the advice bro

ha! Op are you sure that this is safe? I'm both shy and an introvert, but I've broken more than my fair share of hearts.

A shy guy hates fame.

This op na winch, how did she know all these information about a particular sect or type of men, such as shy guys,
i am a shy guy honestly and all what u have said here is true about me

Op u must be a prohet to know all these, u are morethan a deep thinker,
as for me
i love to be alone, i enjoy walking on lonely streets, i dont enjoy the company of others during my walk
i cant stand the looks of people or anyone looking directly into my eyes, most especially females and even male, adults as well, but i m not gay
i dont give testimonies in church though i have alot to share, because i cant stand the looks from the crowd
if i ever get into a relationship, i love to death, i dont know how to play games or cheat even if i try to(its just not in me)its external
when you re shy and an introvert people take advantage of you(this happens to me)
shy guys love peace unconciously
we re easily amused,
easily pleased
Yeah we blush often
We have the inability to walk up to a lady and woo her,
we are even shy in bed
shy or fear to ask a lady for sex
in most cases we end up marrying extroverts as wives, not our wish but because extrovers are smarter than we are, to be honest . they know how to get us
so much fear of being turned down by a lady


#Teamshy

papiforreal:


bro... na me be this o. i always spend 10-20 minute composing what to tell my girl

hahahaha. You are not alone bro.

iceberylin:

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Arva:

You can yawn forever and go and sleep forever. Shy guys are the best. If ur an extrovert, I'm sorry I might not date you because just have a look at the post where I said shy guys are willing to listen and don't disrupt conversation.. Ur actually doing the opposite. Extrovert guys like you will keep on yawning at every single converation I hold with them. Only shy guys will be willing to listen to a lady. Become a shy guy today and I might date you. Change ur status from extrovert to introvert.

most of your points are not valid up right.if any guy will cheat, it is not written on their face shy or no shy, a cheat will be a cheat.you said shy guys are less intimidating, ,but trust me, by the time they are chocked up to the neck, their pattern of beating will be times two.if they eventually beat you,nobody will support you even if theu caused it.if shy guy pound you, you go wish say na extrovert pound you because their own beat na slow and on point.also, shy guys, you said they don't smoke or drink.very wrong.they even smoke more than some extrovert but they hide it from public.and if some one told you they saw your shy guy smoking you will never believe the person because you feel they are shy to hold cegar.but also i guess you are not a shy girl because shy meet shy is gonna be some thing else.also for the records, shy people argues a lot especially when they are with people that understand them.they don't like attention so they are very calm but when they explode,you will be surprised at what they will pour out,telling you all the wrongs you have made since you guys meet.also for the record, your secret is safe with a shy guy because they can die with the secret without leaking it

Once you are quiet, shy and intelligent, you are an introvert abi ? I hav al d qualities mentioned above yet I'm a choleric,@OP try me i wil lead you and your FELLOW INTROVERTS OUT OF NAIRALAND.Lol