Hi guys, please I beg u kindly go through the whole write up and drop your advice or opinion or what you think etc.
I have a female friend ,who's a lady named Jennifer, she has been dating and courting with Michael since her 300level days..they so much like and love themselves to the point they have done their introduction and court wedding and also have a beautiful daughter.. they both plan to do the main marriage when their daughter tessy clock 1yr...but due to the guy's work he travel a lot (he works in abuja in a big firm,as a matter of fact the guy is relatively rich) and gives excuse that his work is really making him not to be around....Michael works in abuja meanwhile Jennifer is in lagos with her family faithfully waiting for Michael and complete the whole thing......yes she's in lagos with her family not with Michael because her family is observing their tradition which is, she's not to stay in Michael house until the bride price is paid in the main marriage...like I said money isn't the problem for Michael , as a matter of fact Michael asked Jennifer to stop her work that he will be paying her salary with extra allowances....but the problem now is...Michael had a one night stand with magret a female colleague of his who has been liking him,without condom...and the one night stand turned to a pregnancy and a matter of fact magret gave birth to a boy....Michael has been remorseful ,crying and apologizing saying they were liking themselves but he never thought of such but by and large they did it and behold it turned to a baby...I suspect magret is one of those desperate ladies because she's older than Michael according to Jennifer who told me...guess Michael is 38 and magret like 42...now Jennifer is at a state of dilemma , saying its over between she and Michael...meanwhile they both so love themselves until the devilish magret came into the picture...so now she's confuse whether to forgive and let go of Michael cause she will not trust and love him again like before....or forgive and go back to Michael hoping all will be fine again....mind u the devil magret is even saying to Jennifer that Michael is her man......when I was talked to , I don't no what to say to her so I told her I'll think about it and answer her tomorrow... so please guys am putting this to you guys, your sincere and mature advice will help a soul here...thank and go bless you all...!!!

Seriously?

Sounds a bit like Nollywood..
Michael - 38
Margaret - 42(This Bi*ch aint Loyal)
Jennifer's age - Unknown..

Lol.. Dont mind me, Just Trolling..

Jenny should accept if she feels Michael is Truly remorseful of what he's done.. Meanwhile, Michael should tie up loose ends by getting Married to Jenny Asap inorder to make their Union Legit Cuz Michael's Prolly turning to a 2face-in-the-making(Baby Mamas erywhere)..

I feel Margaret wont give up without a fight tho...

Crocz:
Seriously?

Yes seriously, guy ur advice is needed pls

Rexnegro:

Yes seriously, guy ur advice is needed pls

click on my signature,we'l table it out dere,trust me u wont regret it.

Djangocode:
Sounds a bit like Nollywood..
Michael - 38
Margaret - 42(This Bi*ch aint Loyal)
Jennifer's age - Unknown..

Lol.. Dont mind me, Just Trolling..

Jenny should accept if she feels Michael is Truly remorseful of what he's done.. Meanwhile, Michael should tie up loose ends by getting Married to Jenny Asap inorder to make their Union Legit Cuz Michael's Prolly turning to a 2face-in-the-making(Baby Mamas erywhere)..

I feel Margaret wont give up without a fight tho...

God bless u bro... Ur point n advice are noted.

Rexnegro:

Yes seriously, guy ur advice is needed pls

Ok...brb

@poster....

why are you calling Margaret a devil, or did she force ur friend to have a one-night stand with her....?

i think the devil here is ur friend who goes around fvckin every woman he lays hands on without protection.

Ab025:
@poster....

why are you calling Margaret a devil, or did she force ur friend to have a one-night stand with her....?

i think the devil here is ur friend who goes around fvckin every woman he lays hands on without protection.

Bro Michael isn't my friend but my friend Jennifer man...well am sorry bro if the devil word got at u...but pls bro what do u have for Jennifer ?

*coughs*...hmmm are u sure this happened for real Well this case looks like a spider web. When micheal got the magareth pregnant why didn't he tell Jenifer ? Then I don't understand this jenifer family sef? They have done introduction and courth marraige and they are still keeping their daughter all because of some silly bride price? Were dey in a trance when the courth wedding was conducted if this trully happened then their is a big problem here cos magaret won't just give up and she stands a better chance of hooking micheal down cos she is closer to him considering the fact that they work together in thesame area under thesame roof.

cbrass:
*coughs*...hmmm are u sure this happened for real Well this case looks like a spider web. When micheal got the magareth pregnant why didn't he tell Jenifer ? Then I don't understand this jenifer family sef? They have done introduction and courth marraige and they are still keeping their daughter all because of some silly bride price? Where dey in a trance when the courth wedding was conducted if this trully happened then their is a big problem here cos magaret won't just give up and she stands a better chance of hooking micheal down cos she is closer to him considering the fact that they work together in thesame area under thesame roof.

Bro pls what do u tink Jennifer should do now...fine Michael misdeed has happened but wat do u tink Jennifer should decide on ? God forbid for u but pls put ursef in her position...wat will u do or decides

I have a female friend ,who's a lady named Jennifer, she has been dating and courting with Michael since her 300level days..they so much like and love themselves to the point they have done their introduction and court wedding and also have a beautiful daughter.. they both plan to do the main marriage when their daughter tessy clock 1yr.
Your write up begs for more questions than answers.
Firstly, why was she so comfortable in having a child outside wedlock(including her family).
Don't wanna ask many other questions since u are looking for answers.
There is a reason why they are not married and not the one u gave us. Distance and work was never an issue.
The best advice should be from her immediate family. she should talk to her mum or any of her aunties. I could have proffered a nice advice if knew the kind of family and tribe she came from.

Rexnegro:


Bro pls what do u tink Jennifer should do now...fine Michael misdeed has happened but wat do u tink Jennifer should decide on ? God forbid for u but pls put ursef in her position...wat will u do or decides

Hmmm, I will advice she moves with immediate effect into micheal's home and claim her right cause she is the legal wife, its not micheal's fault, its her fault and her family's and she should correct that by moving in asap

cbrass:


Hmmm, I will advice she moves with immediate effect into micheal's home and claim her right cause she is the legal wife, its not micheal's fault, its her fault and her family's and she should correct that by moving in asap

Tanx bro I appreciate ur advice, its well noted ...

Rexnegro:

Tanx bro I appreciate ur advice, its well noted ...

You are welcomed Bro

Lincolnburrows:
I have a female friend ,who's a lady named Jennifer, she has been dating and courting with Michael since her 300level days..they so much like and love themselves to the point they have done their introduction and court wedding and also have a beautiful daughter.. they both plan to do the main marriage when their daughter tessy clock 1yr.
Your write up begs for more questions than answers.
Firstly, why was she so comfortable in having a child outside wedlock(including her family).
Don't wanna ask many other questions since u are looking for answers.
There is a reason why they are not married and not the one u gave us. Distance and work was never an issue.
The best advice should be from her immediate family. she should talk to her mum or any of her aunties. I could have proffered a nice advice if knew the kind of family and tribe she came from.

Bro tanx for ur long comment...I will quote u tomoro I promise when I get well details info from her abt her family and her tribe..all I no is that they re from the same place in delta state she and Michael..but I don't no wich tribe in delta state...pls I'll quote after I get all what u asked for...pls ur advice before then is welcome anyway ...

Tried to read and my eyes pained me....

From her options, Jennifer must be a really nice person: 1. Forgive & let go of michael; 2. Forgive and continue... Both options come with the forgive clause lol

Michael isn't ready to marry her. Every guy reading the story just knows it deep down somewhere that Michael just isn't into this marriage thing with her.

When I read to the point he asked her to stop working that he'd pay her salary, I just knew he only meant to compensate for something. And you can only wish its not for the marriage.

His actions are not the likely actions of man who wants his family, nor of a man who's into his woman.


She had better looked for a good ladder if she can't see while sitting down.

OP... Forget dis corner corner... Jus tell me you are Micheal

valdes00:
OP... Forget dis corner corner... Jus tell me you are Micheal

Lolz am not Michael ,tho I wich to be rich also and don't misbehave or be a reason why women are saying men are wicked and the same...

bknight:
From her options, Jennifer must be a really nice person: 1. Forgive & let go of michael; 2. Forgive and continue... Both options come with the forgive clause lol

Michael isn't ready to marry her. Every guy reading the story just knows it deep down somewhere that Michael just isn't into this marriage thing with her.

When I read to the point he asked her to stop working that he'd pay her salary, I just knew he only meant to compensate for something. And you can only wish its not for the marriage.

His actions are not the likely actions of man who wants his family, nor of a man who's into his woman.


She had better looked for a good ladder if she can't see while sitting down.

Tanx bro for ur comment, they re noted ...and she will be told as said...tanx once again bro

Abeg which channel you watch this film? Dem go still show am?

.....According to your story, Jennifer and Michael are legally married couples since they have done their court wedding....

..Jennifer's parent made a big mistake of not allowing their daughter stay with her husband.....Perhaps, if she stays with him....He might have paid the said 'bride price'.......Jennifer on the other hand has no fault whatsoever.....She is simply following and respecting her parents decision.....

....Since Michael is a rich nigga or a relatively rich nigga, I see no reason why he cant pay her bride price....hmmmm....maybe it is expensive....Maybe Jenny's parent are demanding for something big and expensive....I really dont blame him too....He might be saving his hard earned money just to pay a single woman's bride price......

....Depending on how truly remorseful Michael is, depending on the level of love he has for Jenny, I think Jenny should learn and grow to forgive her man.....Although, it ll take years, it ll pass.....

Rexnegro:
....Michael has been remorseful ,crying and apologizing saying they were liking themselves but he never thought of such....

This got me Lmao. He's already been liking Magaret but never thought of sex and getting her pregnant? Doesn't sound to me like he still that much in love with Jenny. But then, if she can forgive and learn to love and share her husband with another woman and her child, it's her call. Because the way I see this, single 42 year old Magaret reeks of desperation. And that child is bond enough with Michael now. So if she can bear the sight of Magaret meeting and calling up her husband from time to time, then why not? Forgive and get ready for series of crying sessions in the years to come.

temigracie:
.....According to your story, Jennifer and Michael are legally married couples since they have done their court wedding....

..Jennifer's parent made a big mistake of not allowing their daughter stay with her husband.....Perhaps, if she stays with him....He might have paid the said 'bride price'.......Jennifer on the other hand has no fault whatsoever.....She is simply following and respecting her parents decision.....

....Since Michael is a rich nigga or a relatively rich nigga, I see no reason why he cant pay her bride price....hmmmm....maybe it is expensive....Maybe Jenny's parent are demanding for something big and expensive....I really dont blame him too....He might be saving his hard earned money just to pay a single woman's bride price......

....Depending on how truly remorseful Michael is, depending on the level of love he has for Jenny, I think Jenny should learn and grow to forgive her man.....Although, it ll take years, it ll pass.....

God bless u,ur advice will get across to Jennifer..I really appreciate u a lot ..tanx

MzPreshie:
This got me Lmao. He's already been liking Magaret but never thought of sex and getting her pregnant? Doesn't sound to me like he still that much in love with Jenny. But then, if she can forgive and learn to love and share her husband with another woman and her child, it's her call. Because the way I see this, single 42 year old Magaret reeks of desperation. And that child is bond enough with Michael now. So if she can bear the sight of Magaret meeting and calling up her husband from time to time, then why not? Forgive and get ready for series of crying sessions in the years to come.

Hmmm tanx for ur comment she did be told accordingly

Rexnegro:

God bless u,ur advice will get across to Jennifer..I really appreciate u a lot ..tanx

...You are welcome, Sir....

MisterLongman:
There are so many unanswered questions in your write-up..... Advising her when I don't really much about will be like adding petrol to the fire....
From your write-up, I doubt if Jennifer knows much about margaret and how she ended up with micheal..
I can't advise her to quit or stay when the antics of Micheal and Margaret cannot be ascertained

Hmmm that's true bro...but pls what do u tink will be the best decision for her...like we all know that such happens ....

in this life if anything happens we have to take it as fate she have to forgive and forgrt what has happen cant be reversed.......she should just try to plead to michael to be fair with them he should seek advice from a sensible religious leader.....if he was to be a mulim there are conditions for marrying more than one wife
1.he mist be fair with them
2.he should not marry 2 wife of he is nt financially okay......i think micjhael is financially okay

i cant list everything here she should just try to take michael and the second wife to a pastor or alfa pls not the endtime religious leader who preach hatred who only care for their pocket

having two wife is not a big deal the prime importance is fairness and jenifer dont try to be jealous you should understand that michael is not for you alone again


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Vry dicey situation,I must say. D decision llies in ha hands, dere are so many tinz to tk into consideration. Its a gud tin she's wilin 2 4giv.
1. How strong is deir love 4 each oda cos dey are bound to face storms if dey eventualy get 2gda. D fact dt margaret hs a child alrdy is complicatin isues
2. Is she willin to kip up wit margaret nd d child as d child is a bond btw maggi nd ha husband, d child may b visitin e.t.c
3. If she eventualy dcides 2 move on wat abt ha own child, wil she alao him 2 grow up witout d dad
D situation rily nids a lot of patience I must say, I can imagine hw annie idibia coped wit hers

I have always maintained that long distance relationships can't work , no Mata d type of love u share or how good u are, it's human nature. They must b someone else out dr with him or her . Don't Eva take long distance relationships srs , u will only b dcivin urselves