holysaint1:


oh bro u tink u got a prob... :/ most of my friends and family members are always saying that God should have made me a lass instead of a lad... Kus i portray every quality bout 'em.. Xcept d figures.

The one dat got me **eye rollin** was wen a friend told me (during a chat) dat i even chat like a lady in my replies..

ohh and as for the queitness and all dat.. I guess its all a part of me nw... all am tryna do now is to simply adapt to d lifestyle..

i'm going through all this too, but it had led many ladies into friendzoning me. They'd tell me how kind and gentle i am, but when i ask them out they would tell we had better remain friends. People enjoy using us

Rapzino:
i'm going through all this too, but it had led many ladies into friendzoning me. They'd tell me how kind and gentle i am, but when i ask them out they would tell we had better remain friends. People enjoy using us

so so pathetic. bliv me i knw d feeling.
its lyk am watchin a highskul movie at d end dey get d best gal.
dnt tink of d ending. d gud tin is dat u knw urslf jst try sumtin new, upgrade wit evry gathering try fr one week den two den go on even if u go OFF-KEY AS MOST EXTROVERTS DO

its difficlt bt dnt even care try raw wrds(nt too gud bt because u cnt nd always fear r feel shy) often especially indirectly to a gal nd u wld b surprised hw she sees u, chnge ur luk avoid being too gentle and care lyk u dnt. avoid xplainin urslf even wen dey c hw transparent u r jst dnt reply jst luk curiously lyk u v no clue. bliv me u wld v gals crushin on u as well as haters bt den wit tym dey wld knw. jst v fun in it nd wld do tin **coughs**
u wld lyk being an introvert wit style in it.
u cn b cul, rugged, any shadow u wish.
frm an introvert to anoda broda

Rapzino:
i'm going through all this too, but it had led many ladies into friendzoning me. They'd tell me how kind and gentle i am, but when i ask them out they would tell we had better remain friends. People enjoy using us

hmmm... So true bro.
but as for d askin out part, I seriously got no idea bout dat... #No thanks to shyness

holysaint1:


hmmm... So true bro.
but as for d askin out part, I seriously got no idea bout dat... #No thanks to shyness

i do the asking through my phone, don't have the courage to face any girl

Wheellz:



so so pathetic. bliv me i knw d feeling.
its lyk am watchin a highskul movie at d end dey get d best gal.
dnt tink of d ending. d gud tin is dat u knw urslf jst try sumtin new, upgrade wit evry gathering try fr one week den two den go on even if u go OFF-KEY AS MOST EXTROVERTS DO

its difficlt bt dnt even care try raw wrds(nt too gud bt because u cnt nd always fear r feel shy) often especially indirectly to a gal nd u wld b surprised hw she sees u, chnge ur luk avoid being too gentle and care lyk u dnt. avoid xplainin urslf even wen dey c hw transparent u r jst dnt reply jst luk curiously lyk u v no clue. bliv me u wld v gals crushin on u as well as haters bt den wit tym dey wld knw. jst v fun in it nd wld do tin **coughs**
u wld lyk being an introvert wit style in it.
u cn b cul, rugged, any shadow u wish.
frm an introvert to anoda broda

thanks bro i will it a try

Hadizy:
You give people like my brother ( Ymodulus ) hope. Lol!!!! U r right. But u forget to add that these set of people are. Bold online.

.*shy boys are super Bold online*
Girls r confused as F**k. One day they want confident and strong
Then another day they're saying shy is the new cool.. #LordHaveMercy #ConfusedSpecie

Thanks OP for voicing us out. but most ladies will really not take us serious, always saying d boring type. which exclusively not so.

Spot on...Op is so correct, unfortunately not all the points are 100% correct which is normal. Anyone can cheat, weather as an introvert or extrovert. The resolve not to is a thing of the mind.
However, introvert, good looking, smart and intelligent guys are the best to row with, if you have any doubt, then meet me lets row, you will come back here to testify.

@op , you just defined me

Handsomeemmy:

Wow! She knows about politics, I'm loving this, when will you teach me scrabble? How have you been?

teaching scrabble can be arranged
I've been good, how are you?

Rapzino:
i do the asking through my phone, don't have the courage to face any girl

nice line of thought

lol... u kinda remind me back then when i was younger. I disdain walking during the day just for people not to see my face.. Or for me not to come in contact with (beau) opposite sex.. but as time goes by i tend to find a way of surpressing my fears... (albeit, not without a trace )

onyichick:
I met mine in nysc camp.he doesn't drink,smoke or party.he is intelligent n nice infact everytin d op said is true but d issur I hv is his inability to be romantic like call me often n send send nice msgs.d tin don tire me

Then you should send the. Kinda romantic. Messages that need replies na.. Then if he doesn't reply.? that's when there's a P.

bringbackdgirls:
are u a witch or wizard?lol.u're 98%right except 4 no 19 and 21.i cnt dance 1bit.i prefer 2write a 21pages open letter 2 a 2minute dance.as 4 no:21,i jst cnt imagine myself saying all thos romantic statement.imo its jst unnecessary waste of time bt sadly dts wat mst ladies wnt 2hear.as for no 22,i dnt lyk changing phones.infact i'm stil using my nokia 3110c sinc 2010.i'm vry faithful to it.

Lol i'm still rocking my nokia 6120c also since 2010 even though have bought two blackberry handset for my girlfriend.

23.most of my kind uses NOKIA PHONE lol

holysaint1:


nice line of thought

lol... u kinda remind me back then when i was younger. I disdain walking during the day just for people not to see my face.. Or for me not to come in contact with (beau) opposite sex.. but as time goes by i tend to find a way of surpressing my fears... (albeit, not without a trace )

it takes time to gear up

Hmmmmmmmmmm.........u are so so so corect,u got me

ismailaja:
guyz plz is dre hope for someone who had a priapism, i had it wen i was 10yrz

eyah pele... are u SS ?

Rapzino:
it takes time to gear up

it sure does.

glitest:

By force by fire....Tires invisible wrappers, gele and koko shoe; Oyah, make we waka go.

exactly dats d spirit..*i don dey sight one sef*haha glitest be lyk day u don dey taya,i go leave u find anoda partner oo

this is an enligntened post..... realy nice....... nobody is saying all introverts are angels....buh she most have met a good number of them to be conclusive.....and i go with the statistics..... this is an enligntened post..... realy nice....... nobody is saying all introverts are angels....buh she most have met a good number of them to be conclusive.....and i go with the statistics.....

Wheellz:
am an introvert and loving it.
gals think introverts get easily manipulated bt introverts differ.
my typ watch u nd giv u mr freedom to dis tinz
and u tink u r manipulating us bt rather deceiving urself cos lyk u sed we r introverts we v got our energy source frm d insyd.
OUR COMFORT ZONE DSNT NID SECOND PARTY.

AM AN INTROVERT WIT XCPTIONS APRT FRM D FACT DT I HATE CROWD I GET LOST IN IT.
I SHAKE TO TALK IN D CROWD.
GUDNEWS
I DO DEM NW.
IT WSNT HARD AT ALL.
I TALK ALOT,
BUT MY COMFORT ZONE KIPS ME ALONE ND I
REGRET TALKIN MCH.
I PARTY DEN FRNDS WLD SAY I DIDNT KNW U CN PARTY HARD.
D DAY I JOKINGLY HIT D WORD BRA A GAL WHISPERED IN MA EAR " NNAMDI U V CHNGED "
DIS IS FUNNY.
INTROVERTS DO TINS TOO LYK XTROVERTS JST DAT DEY TINK TOOMCH. DEY GET WITHDRAWN SHY OR RSERVED ANYN U USE.
BT WEN DEY KNW DIA FAITH U NJOY DEM
DEY KIP PROMISES
DEY DO UNEXPCTD TINZ
DY LOV WIT DIA WHOLE HRT IF BRKN SM CRY ALONE SME C IT AS NATURAL.
DEY STAIR SINCERELY
DEY SMILE ALOT(CALL IT BLUSH IF U LYK)
WEN DEY GET QUIET DNT PANIC ITS JST DIA NATURE
WEN DEY GET LOUD DEY EASILY CHNG BCOMING QUIET ALL OF A SUDDEN.
DEY TINK TOOMCH DATS Y CONVERSATION AINT A BIG DEAL TO DEM. DEY JUST DO IT.
WEN DEY LYK SMN EVEN GOSSIP CANT CHNGE D WAY DEY FEEL ABOUT U
START LOVING US

guy u re right, u must be speaking from experience, we love with our whole heart, this is why sometimes we dont like getting into any relationship,
if there were any unmarried man,that loves lonelyness and didnt get married. then it must be an introvert
.only introverts cry when heart broken cos our hearts is tender
we love to meditate
we love and embrace inner peace, yeah we long for it
we are well informed, with first class information and from a reliable source, e.g infinite intelligence, God.
an unsettled mind or soul can not hear God, even if God speaks he d trhink, its his own mind
People will sometimes call an introvert, saying, YOU DEY DO LIKE WOMAN in pidgin
i love to think and so my mother complains alot about it and whenever alone, she always tell me to socialise with people, but whenever i try to socialise, i feel uncomfortable, my room is my temple, i love lonely street,
i dont patronise shops where 3 or 4 of women are, its a turn off for me, i rather go where theres only 1 person (gays i m not one of u oo)
and i dont like passing through the company of extroverts and female gatherings,
as i speak to you my cousin an extrovert is a turn off for me, seeing he hates quiet times.
ladies think we re cool
in my secondary school days girls were liking me for reasons i dont understand but these days they wanna friendzone and take advantage of me, but i have learnt not to loose guard whenever they re arround

somehow i think the holyspirit himself is an introvert but not shy,

Tks for the post up there,u have just discribe me.u must really b speakin from expirience

kwenu:


guy u re right, u must be speaking from experience, we love with our whole heart, this is why sometimes we dont like getting into any relationship,
if there were any unmarried man,that loves lonelyness and didnt get married. then it must be an introvert
.only introverts cry when heart broken cos our hearts is tender
we love to meditate
we love and embrace inner peace, yeah we long for it
we are well informed, with first class information and from a reliable source, e.g infinite intelligence, God.
an unsettled mind or soul can not hear God, even if God speaks he d trhink, its his own mind
People will sometimes call an introvert, saying, YOU DEY DO LIKE WOMAN in pidgin
i love to think and so my mother complains alot about it and whenever alone, she always tell me to socialise with people, but whenever i try to socialise, i feel uncomfortable, my room is my temple, i love lonely street,
i dont patronise shops where 3 or 4 of women are, its a turn off for me, i rather go where theres only 1 person (gays i m not one of u oo)
and i dont like passing through the company of extroverts and female gatherings,
as i speak to you my cousin an extrovert is a turn off for me, seeing he hates quiet times.
ladies think we re cool
in my secondary school days girls were liking me for reasons i dont understand but these days they wanna friendzone and take advantage of me, but i have learnt not to loose guard whenever they re arround

somehow i think the holyspirit himself is an introvert but not shy,

Good to know that I am not alone, I do all that you mentioned. My own room is my life can be indoor throughout the day without anyone noticing, I only go out in the night, my friends call me the "night walker" whenever I visit them.
The extrovert guys just need to understand the way we re made, We aren't snubs or proud as most of them erroneously think.

...¤smiles¤ ...it's like this shawty has been studying me... You are 1000% correct!

Annypie:
exactly dats d spirit..*i don dey sight one sef*haha glitest be lyk day u don dey taya,i go leave u find anoda partner oo

Shoor!...Now now?.I never tire...U no know my nick name?...I bi solar power oh!.. I no dey tire.

Arva:

You can yawn forever and go and sleep forever. Shy guys are the best. If ur an extrovert, I'm sorry I might not date you because just have a look at the post where I said shy guys are willing to listen and don't disrupt conversation.. Ur actually doing the opposite. Extrovert guys like you will keep on yawning at every single converation I hold with them. Only shy guys will be willing to listen to a lady. Become a shy guy today and I might date you. Change ur status from extrovert to introvert.

op, do u have dimples?

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

Check me out am sure u're going 2 love me

sucobaba:

Lol i'm still rocking my nokia 6120c also since 2010 even though have bought two blackberry handset for my girlfriend.

23.most of my kind uses NOKIA PHONE lol

hehe.i also hv a bb but 2bring it out na wahala cos of d attention it can creat 4rm my frnds.so i always kep it at home and flx wit my nokia.lol

Once upon a time I was shy, bt not really anymore. Am just cool, being shy brought me no good, I lost many things bcuz I was shy, I lost d best gal I ever admire who love me dearly too just bcuz I was shy, I lost d best job I wud ever hv just bcuz I was shy. BE BOLD, no room 4 shyness, shyness na mumu o. Just b a cool n look cool. Shekina

One of the best posts in a looooooong time. Thanks sweet.

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Make urself happy

lyricalz:
Once upon a time I was shy, bt not really anymore. Am just cool, being shy brought me no good, I lost many things bcuz I was shy, I lost d best gal I ever admire who love me dearly too just bcuz I was shy, I lost d best job I wud ever hv just bcuz I was shy. BE BOLD, no room 4 shyness, shyness na mumu o. Just b a cool n look cool. Shekina

lost a wonderful guy cos he was shy,had no complaints abt anything,everything I did was cool even when he was against it,told him I wanted a break up.accepted without complaints as usual,finally voiced his tots yrs after when it was 2 late.be cool nt shy,extroverts dat are caring can tickle ur fancy too.

e be like you wan date ''woman'' in the name of a shy guy .. wake up , in as much as i don't subscribe to the all the time partying and smoking , there is time for everything , including social activities ... any man who is that way, you have described is not a man yet ,,,, he is still a boy , probably still in school . if he is in this country , then he would have become a Man by fir and by force ..