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What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Princecalm(m): 9:53pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
What do you do when your Dad or Mum detest of the one you love so dearly?.Will you just ignore and go on with the wedding. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by BTT(m): 9:56pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Convince them. It may take time but they will come around if they SEE your resolve. Don't ever go ahead without their nod. My $1m. 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 11:22pm On Oct 14, 2014 |
Does such still happen in this 21century?? what if they keep rejecting the ladies you bring home? You go hunting the lady that suits their specs or from their endorsed tribe? Its borne out of greed and sentiment. An african mentality. Their blessing is needed anyway. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Henrypraise: 3:11am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Its difficult to continue witout parents consents but as a person in love, u need to ask wat dia reason is, u will be amazed @ wat de see dat u ar not seeing. But in cases wen de ar wrong n u knw it, den approach ur parents tru maybe an uncle or aunty, dats d best bet, don't try to prove a point by sendin ur spouse to live wit ur moda/ parents ooo, its only goin to get worst. urhoboman: Urhoboman, mavor, na u go de talk dis kind tin? Yea it does happen, n most tyms especially dis generation, d parents ar right. 30 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by iccydope(m): 3:11am On Oct 15, 2014 |
My parents are Jolly good fellows.. If I love You,they love you. 63 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by jaybiz007(m): 3:12am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Being in love is an emotional madness that weakens your sense of judgment depending on the degree of commitment. It is advisable to listen to your parents in such a situation and also your siblings because you might not be seeing what they are seeing, but most importantly, seek for divine wisdom from Allah. Even the bible says and I quote; "He who has found a GOOD wife, has found a good thing.". My opinion though. 70 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by abbeyoye2001(m): 3:13am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Will just let go. Bible says "obey ur parent" they must have a genuine reason thoo 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by oscarpad(m): 3:13am On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 3:13am On Oct 15, 2014 |
urhoboman:It still happens o, especially when the person is from a particular tribe your parents. Don't like. I've seen parents telling their children not to bring home girls from certain tribes. 26 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by hakeem4(m): 3:13am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Just deny her and say she's my reading partner 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 3:14am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Xavier9ja(m): 3:14am On Oct 15, 2014 |
detest my partner as well |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by carsellerz: 3:15am On Oct 15, 2014 |
That like asking for what breaks the parental love and join marital love. I think d parent shud let the fellow take his destiny in his hand. period. 5 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by bunmioguns(m): 3:16am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Convince them.... There is nothing you can do without your parents blessings .. 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by supernigga(m): 3:16am On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by carsellerz: 3:19am On Oct 15, 2014 |
abbeyoye2001: same bible you quoted says a man will leave his mum and dad And join with his wife for him to raise a family. marriage dis days doesnt work on sentiment you marry who you think you love and can live with for the next 30yrs. 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nikapetrelli(f): 3:19am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Talk to them and make them see reasons n go with someone u know ur parents respects very well and let the person talk to them and ur behalf |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by freecharles(m): 3:20am On Oct 15, 2014 |
You try and discuss with him or her. Try to convince them. Make them understand you are an adult and that you also know what you want and what is right for you. Infact let them see the good thing you see in ur partner. But only do this if your partner is a responsible somebody oo 5 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 3:21am On Oct 15, 2014 |
They will learn to love your patner with time 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by alotofgrace(m): 3:22am On Oct 15, 2014 |
make i sleep first OK i don wake seriously na to go kneel down for front of their house dey beg o, i swear them go gree 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Sunnycliff(m): 3:23am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I Wud want to know there reasons first, but if it's selfish and class oriented I involve those whom They have Great respect for to talk to them on my behalf! 4 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by moneymaker24(m): 3:26am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Depends on the gravity of the love oooo. I remember when i was crazy in love with my first love. My parent didn't like her but i really didn't care o. Not like i was been disobedient or sorts but parents just need to understand that there are some love situations they can't have a control over. If na wife matter....... Biko na who wan dey live with the wife for the rest of him life? Parent or me?? 31 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by infobiz9ja(m): 3:27am On Oct 15, 2014 |
What an elder sees while sitting down a young man/woman can't see from atop a tree. The words of elders are words of wisdom so try as much as possible to reason with elders b4 u make the biggest mistake of your life. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Exodus2k(m): 3:28am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Talk to them and make them see Reason why such person is the right choice for you, but don't enter marriage without your parents consent 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by makeitijn: 3:29am On Oct 15, 2014 |
i have a right to my own decisions for christ sake! they either comply or back off! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by moneymaker24(m): 3:30am On Oct 15, 2014 |
carsellerz: Like seriously ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by futajallon: 3:35am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I dance shoki on there head |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Dreal1247: 3:35am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Try to know their reasons and observe them critically. At times, what they are saying is for your best interest. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by bynzie: 3:36am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I successfully passed that hurdle and today they are best of friends 9 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by flybiz08(m): 3:37am On Oct 15, 2014 |
its difficult but i will marry the woman of my heart. 4 Likes |
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