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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Misogynist2014(m): 3:41am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Discard her. So many babes out there seeking for my hand in marriage ![]() ![]() That sounds manly ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 3:42am On Oct 15, 2014 |
BTT:What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love? 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 3:45am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I don't know about Love o, but strong like ![]() They say: "This is not the best time, I don't want to talk about it" "I don't have time for that right now. Just pray harder" "Face your studies" "Americans do not know how to love. Find yourself a proper Nigerian man" ![]() "Pray harder for the right person." She'll get over it ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by PastorOluT(m): 3:50am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Princecalm: First u have to prayerfully consider ur choice once again 'cos there was obviously something they saw. After that n u still do not see anything, try talking to them n prayerfully make them see reasons with u while u may employ the plea of someone close to them. NB The truth is never go ahead without their consent, I have seen a few that went ahead like that n majority of those relationships never end up well. 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Muscomide: 4:06am On Oct 15, 2014 |
To paraphrase a Yoruba proverb, if the wise counsel of elders fails to manifest in the morning, it will manifest by night time. To paraphrase an Igbo proverb, what an elder can see whilst sitting down, a youth cannot see whilst atop a tall tree. Heed the counsel of elders o! They usually know best. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 4:10am On Oct 15, 2014 |
[color=#770077][/color] Some people just be speaking conc rubbish from their mouth all in d name of commenting.... |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Anas4sure(m): 4:11am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I will go marry olosho as alternative...jst wake up 2 comment,sleepn tnz again |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by pashaun(f): 4:12am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I don't know, but remember parents are usually right. They see things you overlook. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by stabilizer: 4:12am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Anas4sure(m): 4:13am On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 4:14am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Forgoe d tin |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by pashaun(f): 4:16am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Ilekere: Accurate. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lucasbalo(m): 4:19am On Oct 15, 2014 |
carsellerz:Gbam. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by ctyson90(f): 4:19am On Oct 15, 2014 |
If your parents are unreasonable and seemingly unyielding after all your efforts of trying to prove that youre with the right person, pray and ask for guidance from the heavens. They will tell u follow your heart. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by kNarcissus(m): 4:20am On Oct 15, 2014 |
They're gonna have to deal with whatever reasons they have, I ain't a slave to anyone's opinion. But I'm rational.. if I see genuineness in their reasons, then I pay heed. 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lucasbalo(m): 4:22am On Oct 15, 2014 |
moneymaker24:You are a smart guy. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by kNarcissus(m): 4:22am On Oct 15, 2014 |
pashaun: Yea.. you're right! 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lucasbalo(m): 4:34am On Oct 15, 2014 |
The bottom line is that your parents have no right to dictate to you whom you should marry. I have the utmost respect and love for my parents for all they sacrifice for my siblings and I. The only time I had a disagreement with my mother was when I was getting married. Her main objection was I was not marrying from her tribe and that I was too young (23). I sat her down and told her I am done with my education , have a good job and that I like to do things earlier in life. She didn't reason with me but pop was very understanding. Went and got married anyway,. Dad was in Chicago for the wedding and mum wasn't. Its been a blast of a marital life for me and wifey and the girls. Bottom line, it's your life and your decision to make. It doesn't mean you don't love your parents. I sure won't dictate to my children who to choose for marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by BAYKEM(m): 4:39am On Oct 15, 2014 |
First, you must ask ur parents for their reasons. if the reason is reasonable, dear, she isn't the only lady in the world. but if they have no reasonable or tangible reason, you must not enforce them to accept her, u will only need time and patience to convince them. You can also invite few highly respected people(that they respect ) to help u. Mind u, in a case whereby 80% of those around u rejects it, my friend, release her. lastly, prayer can change all things, even hearts. Pray over it and let God get involved. He is the greatest solution. Thanks. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Atmmachine(m): 4:52am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lucasbalo: Are you married to an American ?? & What was your Mum's reason for not attending the wedding ?? |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lucasbalo(m): 5:00am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Atmmachine:Married to an African born in America. I guess she was against it because she wants me to marry a particular girl from Lagos. Plus she thought I was too young. 20 years now and the marriage is still as good as the first day of marriage. 8 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lexusgs430: 5:02am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Parents would always want to naturally feel they have the best instincts. Speak to them politely about the positives they feel are negatives, state your undying love for the other party, sacrifices both of you have made and all other relevant point to buttress your commitment. Eventually, they would come around. NB: Even if the union fails, life is all about risks!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Atmmachine(m): 5:04am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Will my parents pay the bride price & wedding expenses ?? If Yes !! They have every fucking right to detest whom i love. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Atmmachine(m): 5:06am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lucasbalo: #Good luck bro. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lucasbalo(m): 5:10am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Atmmachine:Thanks my man. What part of Chicago you reside?. Am in Oak Park (Harlem/Augusta). |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by olayincar(m): 5:27am On Oct 15, 2014 |
bunmioguns: Yes you are right |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 5:30am On Oct 15, 2014 |
I will let them be and glue to my decision. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 5:31am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Parents are more experienced than we re. Sometimes, they r some qualities they feel/see in our partners than we tend nt to notice in our partners. If they happen to tell u nt to marry the person u love, then there must be an ideal and convincing reason to b right. But, if there's none, il try to do d convincing masef. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by slye(m): 5:33am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Parents can be wrong at times.. you just av to convince and make them realise 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Edusouls(m): 5:38am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Africans re certain type of people, that have certain type of attitiude, they re not loving at all, and we practice so much hatred, we love segregation, some parents just dont like their children marrying from a particular tribe, due to hatred for that people, they tell u, they hve bad behaviour and bad culture, but their own people re angels and re gud behaved, if u even look, u see that ur own people may be the devil that will never give gud thing any chance, so due to so much senseless hatred and divison that reigns in the black man hearts and land, the society is devoid of luv.. 2 Likes |
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