SaintMog:
I only come to nairaland to laugh.

Galads:
I actually read and passed but my conscience drew me back.
First of all, am not married but I think I have a hint on how I will treat my wife because I know am gona be a loving guy.
The greatest help a lady can do for herself is to marry a guy they are both compartible but I most say, only God can open your eyes to that. Am marrying somebody I really love, I have seen how compartible we are so must of the things you mentioned she won't have to do them alone if am around and free. If we can't afford a washing machine, most times we wash together its really fun, am back from work and she is in the kitchen we will finish the cooking together. Both situations mentioned above, i might not touch anything but sitting with her to keep her company won't be a bad idea and help were necessary. Why for heaven's sake will my wife shop once in a year? Before I buy a shirt she should have bought 5. Your wife is your eyes outside. People judge you from your wife's appearance. From your write up @ op, they are House mates now cos The love is gone. And I won't advice any woman to be a full time house wife. For any woman to have time to do all those I guess she is jobless. My 2cent

olapam:
G wateva yo name is wether ure a man or woman am just a voice for most women out ther who are voiceless I hev a beauty parlor were woman talk and its sad what they are going thru so I need positive views if u don't this thread isn't for u