I hv been in relationship with a particular gal for lik 4yrs we hv been together since our university days ...always hv dis dreams of gettin married...nt until i notice she chnge in her character started acting funny ...whn i ask her what wrong with her she say nothin but yet she keep acting strange...one day i called her told her i hv got a good job she was happy for me..after dat notin ..not until one day she told me she dont knw what she feels for me again dat she need some space...plss nairalanders what is d meaning of space...coz i stil dont undstd

What is Space?....In this case you can define it as a distance between two things

It might mean she needs a break or want to break up possibly cos of some1 else, possibly not. Just give her the space, if she tries calling back she's still ur, if not........., u know the rest

Mayb she has stop loving you...
Or u are choking her!
Give her a break!

buchisom1:
I hv been in relationship with a particular gal for lik 4yrs we hv been together since our university days ...always hv dis dreams of gettin married...nt until i notice she chnge in her character started acting funny ...whn i ask her what wrong with her she say nothin but yet she keep acting strange...one day i called her told her i hv got a good job she was happy for me..after dat notin ..not until one day she told me she dont knw what she feels for me again dat she need some space...plss nairalanders what is d meaning of space...coz i stil dont undstd

when a girl tells you she needs a break, especially if you have been dating for a while, it means she has gotten what you can't offer elsewhere..in this case, u can try to see her to talk one on one cos it's always not too good to assume nd jump into conclusion. D outcome of your one on one talk wld determine!

buchisom1:
I hv been in relationship with a particular gal for lik 4yrs we hv been together since our university days ...always hv dis dreams of gettin married...nt until i notice she chnge in her character started acting funny ...whn i ask her what wrong with her she say nothin but yet she keep acting strange...one day i called her told her i hv got a good job she was happy for me..after dat notin ..not until one day she told me she dont knw what she feels for me again dat she need some space...plss nairalanders what is d meaning of space...coz i stil dont undstd

Bro your babe has found another Sweet rich Boy!!

justified19:
when a girl tells you she needs a break, especially if you have been dating for a while, it means she has gotten what you can't offer elsewhere..in this case, u can try to see her to talk one on one cos it's always not too good to assume nd jump into conclusion. D outcome of your one on one talk wld determine!

whn i had notin she was with me why will she wnt to live me nw..dat i ve gotten smtin real big..i tot evry woman dream is God to bless der partner

kozaic:
Mayb she has stop loving you...
Or u are choking her!
Give her a break!

u knw what funny where she is working nw ..i was the persi dat fix her der even whn i was jobless she stil dont lack anytin...whn i ask her what d problem she jus sey work presure dat i wont undstd...after smtime again she start sayin she dont knw hw she feel abt me again..dat she need space to tink

She's found someone else that is giving her what u've not been giving,...that's ladies for you...

She's no longer interested in the relationship. Heart breaking to learn that but you gotta move on with your life. Plenty of good days ahead

She's found someone else that is giving her what u've not been giving her,...that's ladies for you...

break up .. simple!

It means you have bad breath. Don't take it personal.

Dat's a sign of break up! She has gotten a new boyfriend dat she is lovely

but since she is finding it difficult to open up to u,


because d way u may feel, she den decided to put it dat way..so guy use ur head!

LOL
You've been space*Zoned sire
Sorry sire buh she likes someone else

buchisom1:
u knw what funny where she is working nw ..i was the persi dat fix her der even whn i was jobless she stil dont lack anytin...whn i ask her what d problem she jus sey work presure dat i wont undstd...after smtime again she start sayin she dont knw hw she feel abt me again..dat she need space to tink

Hardluck Nna...she is tired of you.

kozaic:


Hardluck Nna...she is tired of you.

So i should let go..was tinkin of calling her for one on one section

I think dat's d best way out, invite her, den hear wat she will say to u.

buchisom1:
u knw what funny where she is working nw ..i was the persi dat fix her der even whn i was jobless she stil dont lack anytin...whn i ask her what d problem she jus sey work presure dat i wont undstd...after smtime again she start sayin she dont knw hw she feel abt me again..dat she need space to tink

@bolded.
Guy, this where the problem comes from!
She is receiving pressure from someone where she is currently working.
She is giving-in to that person....
Think fast guy!

Macelliot:

@bolded.
Guy, this where the problem comes from!
She is receiving pressure from someone where she is currently working.
She is giving-in to that person....
Think fast guy!

what do u tink is d best way to handle it...plss help save my love life...i stil love her

your becoming a pest.or overly emotional
so Zap off

izaray:
I think dat's d best way out, invite her, den hear wat she will say to u.

i dont tink she will come..coz i ve tried dat bfor

buchisom1:
i dont tink she will come..coz i ve tried dat bfor

Waooo..hope u av let her be, and move on?


Cos they are so many good tins, ahead of you!

buchisom1:
what do u tink is d best way to handle it...plss help save my love life...i stil love her

Tell her to forgive u.
Probably, she will say u didn't offended her.
Do u know what? Start now to think of the words that u gonna tell her, words that if she hears, her spirit will be touched. As in, one-on-one conversations that will make her feel like an ingrate if she ever leaves u.

Macelliot:

@bolded.
Guy, this where the problem comes from!
She is receiving pressure from someone where she is currently working.
She is giving-in to that person....
Think fast guy!

This here, is quite probable. But then, 'I need space' can also mean you're boring her now and she wants to try out something new. Give her the space she needs, she will come back if you're meant to be.

Macelliot:

Tell her to forgive u.
Probably, she will say u didn't offended her.
Do u know what? Start now to think of the words that u gonna tell her, words that if she hears, her spirit will be touched. As in, one-on-one conversations that will make her feel like an ingrate if she ever leaves u.

Wont she see it a blackmailing

No amount of words and sweet mouth.... Will change anything.. Dis same thing happened to me.. We dated for close to 4yrs and she jst called one morning and told me dis same stuff.. All my efforts and fight to change was to no avail.. So my brother.. Prepare urself for some serious heartbrk..especially if u love dis gurl. Cos e don happen... D more u try to understand d situation, d more confused u get..
I'm sorry dis happening to u.. Bt dis is jst d truth.. Its time for you to be strong..dis is life happening...

buchisom1:

Wont she see it a blackmailing

not by harsh words, but by a touching soft-word.

buchisom1:
what do u tink is d best way to handle it...plss help save my love life...i stil love her

Are u close to any of her colleague or frnds at her place of work?

izaray:
Are u close to any of her colleague or frnds at her place of work?

she has nt spent two mnth der...she is new...

buchisom1:
she has nt spent two mnth der...she is new...

OK

zeepatoprick:
No amount of words and sweet mouth.... Will change anything.. Dis same thing happened to me.. We dated for close to 4yrs and she jst called one morning and told me dis same stuff.. All my efforts and fight to change was to no avail.. So my brother.. Prepare urself for some serious heartbrk..especially if u love dis gurl. Cos e don happen... D more u try to understand d situation, d more confused u get..
I'm sorry dis happening to u.. Bt dis is jst d truth.. Its time for you to be strong..dis is life happening...

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