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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Guyman02: 11:31am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Missmossy: Small boys talk. If you think it is the best decision for you in life you cant wait entirely for flimsy reasons from parents because whichever decision you take whether from parent or yourself, you are the one to live with it. My friend dumped his girlfriend for no reason but because of parents advise about her tribe, today he regrets that decision and cant get her back as she has moved on, she meant so much to him and not his parent, one of the parent has passed on and he caters for the other and they dont know the emotional turmoil he is facing for swallowing their advise and insistence. Its your life to live, after-all you never chose your mother for your father. Any man who decides that it is the scrotum of a ram that he wants to eat should know that he is indebted to elephantiasis of the scrotum (Igbo proverb) 4 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by DebateNigeria: 11:35am On Oct 15, 2014 |
Tex42:Thank u bro. It says "obey your parents IN THE LORD"...Not even when intention is devlish. So if their parents ask them to kill or steal they will go ahead 2 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Tex42(m): 11:40am On Oct 15, 2014 |
DebateNigeria:1000LIKES for u bro. most of these disapprovals by our parents is prompted by tribal diff or social class(sentiments are not left out). tell an Anambrarian parent(s) that u want to marry an Imo lady and watch their reaction. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by dober(m): 12:06pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
hakeem4:Hahaha. Baddest. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by jaybiz007(m): 12:11pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
fola14:Thanks for the correction. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by obyno6ix: 12:12pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Very simple. Move on with your life. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by jaybiz007(m): 12:16pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
destante:That is where the beauty of healthy dialogue comes in. Anyone can be convinced, depending how you present it, I may be wrong though. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by dober(m): 12:19pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Be careful! It is important that one thoroughly look into the reason(s) given by one's parents in a situation like this. As the saying goes, "what an elder sees while sitting, a child MAY not see it even while on the tallest of trees". Moreover, they are still the ones we would run to when there is an oil spillage in our marriages. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Come! Who wrote this thread?10th century things. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by mumuto: 12:30pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Parents always mean well for their children as they bring their child up in their best capacity with their available resources. Ignoring them when taking a life partner would not be in the best interest of the individual. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by jcccccc: 12:31pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
LESSON TO ALL YOUNGSTERS ESPECIALLY CHRISTIANS [b]There are reasons why your parents could detest a person you brought to them because they know better than you whether you believe it or not. They love you that is why they trained you in the midst of hardship, no girlfriend or girlfriend would do that for you. They may love or hate a person you are bringing to them probably because they know the antecedents of the clan that the person in question comes from. So they would be warning you whether you want to hear it or not. It could be people that go into prostitution after marriage or people that add poison to their spouses food after they gather the documents to your hard earned properties. You may ignore them but your life would become an interpretation of misery at the end. Such evil people are using internet and TV as well as radio stations to destroy core values of prosperous societies so that they will stop the youths from listening to their parents. Anything that has to do with marriage must to a larger extent be better for it if you listen to elders especially your parents. Not all that glitters is gold. Check the antecedents of that woman with lipstick-coated-mouth(deceptive looks) you want to marry before you are bedridden of stroke. Look before you leap.[/b] |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Come!who wrote this thread?10th century things. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Lathunjimi(m): 12:32pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
stardragon: Are you saying his family is right by not wanting him to marry her or is it true that Benin girls rarely make good wives/daughter-in-laws? But on the contrary, this girl is of good attitude and we'll polished even from a royal and wealthy family. My friend isn't financially bad as well. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lathunjimi: all my igbo folks that married a benin girl usually ends in a sad note, either caused by her or indirectly from her... but if he truely loves her, he should go ahead. no body shoud be an obstacle to him, not even his parents ![]() "LOVE CONQUERS EVERY THING" |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by jcccccc: 12:40pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lathunjimi: LESSON TO ALL YOUNGSTERS ESPECIALLY CHRISTIANS [b]There are reasons why your parents could detest a person you brought to them because they know better than you whether you believe it or not. They love you that is why they trained you in the midst of hardship, no girlfriend or girlfriend would do that for you. They may love or hate a person you are bringing to them probably because they know the antecedents of the clan that the person in question comes from. So they would be warning you whether you want to hear it or not. It could be people that go into prostitution after marriage or people that add poison to their spouses food after they gather the documents to your hard earned properties. You may ignore them but your life would become an interpretation of misery at the end. Such evil people are using internet and TV as well as radio stations to destroy core values of prosperous societies so that they will stop the youths from listening to their parents. Anything that has to do with marriage must to a larger extent be better for it if you listen to elders especially your parents. Not all that glitters is gold. Check the antecedents of that woman with lipstick-coated-mouth(deceptive looks) you want to marry before you are bedridden of stroke. Look before you leap.[/b] 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by lilmax(m): 12:46pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by ChristyG(f): 12:46pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
stardragon:so ur ibo folks are saints and perfect abi?,dey never do wrong,it is always d fault of d benin girl cos igbo guys are perfect abi.am guessing u lived with dose people,dat is how u knew it was always d fault of d benin girl.what about couples who are both igbo yet d marriage still crumbled? 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by moneymaker24(m): 12:48pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lucasbalo: Thanks sir. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Ann2deals(f): 1:02pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
if my mum and dad detest my dream man with passion i ll pay deaf ears to them with pleasure. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
ChristyG: talking from experience, not been bias ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by EMMYB0Y(m): 1:56pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by eleko1: 1:58pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by MORNDEW(m): 2:00pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
infobiz9ja:like the words of anenih, ikimi, babngida, jonah jang abi. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by chuka5000(m): 2:02pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
abbeyoye2001:how many are u gonna let go? I think its berra to talk it out |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Ladybluecash(f): 2:16pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
No reasonable pqrents wil advice their children against marryin who dey wnt to.. Even incases whr dey dnt lik d person dey tell bt can neva stop u frm marryin d person.. Bt jos knw sey u r own ur own if gbege happen...... Bt if dey refuse bluntly i go climb 3rd mainland bridge ofcus una knw d rest of d story.......... |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Nobody: 2:32pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Misogynist2014:Even fagggots think they have a say. Mumu. I expect your rant after quoting me- don't think i'll waste my time reading your shiit. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Maximus85(m): 2:39pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
If they don't have a concrete reason, I will disown them and detest them for life |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Misogynist2014(m): 2:40pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
koyyes:When did I quote you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Misogynist2014(m): 2:41pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
koyyes:When did I quote you? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Go back to hell you came from,pùssy. ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by FrenchyL(m): 2:54pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Hello Dear friend. I think you need to ask them why they do not like or accept your friend. Hear them out but take time to ask God first. If at the end of everything,you see that your parents are not in agreement because of selfish or tribal reasons, then try to appeal to them but be firm concerning your choice if you are fully convinced that you are taking the right step. I wish you the very best. ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by destante(f): 3:07pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
jaybiz007:I agree sha |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by spongebob0006(f): 3:59pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
in cases lyk ds,just ask dm d reason 4 der action and if it bcmes persistnt,just 4gt d person cos wt an elder sees sitn,a young child cn neva c it evn if he climbs d hghest mountain. |
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