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Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by DukeNija(m): 4:44pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
uzolexis: And if your parents insist that you marry from your tribe? Will you sincerely marry a man your family detests? I don't think any man deserves such, besides, you are the one with the wrong mindset, already concluding you don't get along with guys from your tribe. What does tribe have to do with a persons character? I'm asking u. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by pawapo: 5:04pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
iccydope: YINMU |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by uzolexis(f): 5:05pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
DukeNija: I'm not just concluding,i'm talking from experience. I know ur personality has nothing to do with tribe and I have no explanation for this but whenever i try to date an igbo guy it just doesn't work. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by DukeNija(m): 5:08pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
uzolexis: I understand where you are coming from, but it really has nothing to do with the guys tribe. Its about his and your attitude towards the relationship. It just happened that those guys were from ur tribe. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by uzolexis(f): 5:14pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
DukeNija: ok,you have a point. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Pamcrest(f): 5:39pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
The bible says A man shall leave his father n mother n cleave to his wife...... Naija parents interfere unnecessarily sometimes even if they have a point so I think u shd consider yr parents' concern to see d merits therein. If u don't agree with their view but they insist, then go on with yr relationship n give them time to appreciate yr partner n to ally their fears n concerns. I have seen parents continue to disagree with their child's choice of partner n even refuse to attend d weddg.....n that's unfortunate. Parents' role is to give advice but still give their support esp when they see their child is comfortable with his/ her partner. Dragging d issue forever only alienates the child n causes friction in their relationship. I was in likewise circumstance n I have vowed never to subject my own child to such. God help me! My humble submission 3 Likes |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by josite: 6:08pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
you know your parent and you can tell if they are soundminded or not.if you know they are most likely to be wrong as usual ,go ahead but remember not to need their help so soon in case they persist in their rejection. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by micbabs(m): 9:01pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Just be patient with dem, pray for God's wisdom to handle the situation and stand firm with your love. God helping you much of your time will not be wasted. |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by kelvinsmart(m): 9:09pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
urhoboman:it happen to me recently,when my mum bash into my room and said I'm gonna sleep here today, perhaps she told me aerler dat she doesn't like dat gal but I love her so much, all I did was to to change my meeting point untill d time is right |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by kelvinsmart(m): 9:15pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
pawapo:that's what I Used to say but I got it all wrong |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Archilouis(m): 9:15pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Something you haven't considered, is: You cannot tell what someone's (parent) final decision will be.....you can only attempt to influence. My NGN1 advice is: early on, define your value..... 1) Do I love/trust my parents direction over my judgement on selecting a life partner 2) Do I be the one to define the direction, but not be arrogant as not to consider the point of view of parents Your expectations of what a life partner/spouse brings to the table in your life will grossly affect your selection above BTT: |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by johncreek: 9:45pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
infobiz9ja:Now a days that proverb does not imply in this modern World. Parents now a days are selfish. Sorry to say; some just want you to go for their kind forgetting you will be the one to live with the spouse. My 1 cent sha. 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 10:05pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
Lucasbalo:yeah that tribe stuff has created a gulf btw kids en parents. Sometimes they view a trend which is often right. But hmm. Parents and kids! Lor help them both eo. A sad issue |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 10:28pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
xynerise:naso! E.g ( an elder stands up to warn ifeoma) elder: never has it been ever heard of in this family that we took an inlaw from outside, and this tradition, you wont be the 1st to break it all: yes yes(mumblings and head nodding) ifeoma: (sad and disgruntled, cos she loves bayo and have proved beyond doubt that he is the one.) but traditions change uncle razor(drops gin bottle) sharrap there ifeoma(stands and points walking stick meant for fashion and not priority) sharrap i say (some fellows mumble)...... |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by KingTom(m): 10:45pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
daveP:Ifeoma: I love him and I must be with him Elders:TaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAaaaaaaaaarrrrrrr!!!!!!!! Father:Nneoma see your useless daughter Nneoma:Nnanyi she is your daughter too. Meanwhile in Chief Adebanjo's House Bayo:Bami I want to marry her please Adeyinka Adebanjo: S'onsiere ni? ***adjusts agbada*** Mrs Adebanjo:You want to marry that oshi and bring shame to us abi? watch out for part 2 TO GOD BE THE GLORY EXECUTIVE PRODUCER DAVEP DIRECTOR KINGTOM 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 10:55pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
slye:Ive seen/heard about how time wasted destiny. The man's dad had to die(14yrs since he informed them about her) before he could marry his Deltan love. The marriage is 10yrs.(but he's almost 55nw) rutibaby:A case of your own vision/revelation vs their own! The time they say moda or father is a witch/wizard (irresistable when in this shoes), etc. It gets hotter and more puzzling. farano:The 'fleece test' have worked for many (asking for a sign of action, statements,etc) , but some parents still ignore, leaving one more confused. hmm. D path of patience is long o! ![]() Stephanie: Lord if he is the one,let him say 'i'll cook (your best dish-rice,etc) and buy me fried turkey in a BUCKET Dare: if she's the one, let her wave and say 'halloween costumes look good on you only on saturdays! However silly it sounds, its working cos the sign is what's major. (runs out of thread to another movie location) ayomidegambari:Ah, dont let them blame you for mishap o. That would be detrimental/extreme! Ann2deals:its not advisable to take this action except in "worst case scenarios" (uncle, pastor, elder, aunty, etc have spoken and they refused) As much as their blessings(dont undermine it) is very important, make sure you yourself shape who you are in a way that rejecting your decision would be difficult for them. #oldest institution in our world# few graduate! |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 11:02pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
KingTom: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that agbada part ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by KingTom(m): 11:04pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
daveP:AMAA award nominee ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 11:06pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
KingTom:lwkm |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by KingTom(m): 11:09pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
daveP: ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by daveP(m): 11:17pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
KingTom:tell friday that he isnt holding that feathered mic close to the scene. Partnership on nxt location. Omotola would be on set with Odunlade ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by KingTom(m): 11:25pm On Oct 15, 2014 |
daveP:Errr wey you friday oya forward with thr mic. Omotola and Odunlade ready action! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by khiaa(f): 2:05am On Oct 16, 2014 |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by ldonjibson(m): 8:26am On Oct 16, 2014 |
infobiz9ja:na so . but wat if girl dat comes ur way are of d tribes dey dont want? u will wait for dem to pick 4 u? |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by uyigue1(m): 9:25am On Oct 16, 2014 |
uyigue1: |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by omoiseselagba: 10:02am On Oct 16, 2014 |
what dey say dont count.what counts is wat i want and wat my woman wants.they av had theirs.lemme live ma life d way i want.it me for me.emi gan gan lemi.no one can replace me or dictate how i live ma lyf! |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by uyigue1(m): 10:28am On Oct 16, 2014 |
Pls should i support my brother ? |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by philclem(m): 4:45pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
God bless u for that comment........I envy die! ![]() iccydope: |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by Endowed595(m): 5:54pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
What of if u were in this sort of situation and ur boo decides to go with what his/her parents say ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by pashaun(f): 7:12pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by khiaa(f): 10:39pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
pashaun: Do you know this for sure or is it something you read? First they said over 70% of AA women have children out of wedlock, then 75, 80, I guess they will not stop lying on us untill they reach the 100% mark. I don't have any children and neither do alot of women I know. Would it be fair for me to say that over 70% of Nigerian women would be single mothers if it wasn't for abortions. ![]() ![]() ![]() So now you are telling me Nigerians don't lust? Half of the threads on this website is nothing but pure lust. Get your head out of the clouds and face reality. Clean up your own backyard before you judge someone elses. 1 Like |
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