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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by thinezy(f): 9:58pm On Oct 15, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by jideomowunmi(f): 1:48am On Oct 16, 2014
Wish I had someone to tell me all of these before I grad...it wud have improved me in lots of ways... cry cry

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Appswheel(m): 7:04am On Oct 16, 2014
Important and valuable points. Here are my inputs and analysis.

1. A Degree Does Not Entitle You To A Job

Simply means put in extra effort to stand out, do not focus your energy solely on making the best grade. Ensure you sharpen your skills, natural abilities. Know that self-employment, entrepreneurship is not a crime.

2. Start The Job Search Before You Graduate
One way to do this is to identify the companies you will like to work with and find out what it takes to work with them. You can do this by signing up an account on linkedin. Many of these companies have their staff and profile on linkedin.

Also, when you undergo your Industrial training in a reputable company, ensure to impress to create a possibility of being employed when you graduate.

3. Facebook Is Forever
During my undergraduate years, you will not find me roaming aimlessly on facebook. To me "facebook is forever" means concentrate more on your studies now, do less of social media, visit educational and career counseling portals more eg (dot)com, wikipedia(dot)com and also know that there is more to social media than the "annoying" use it is put. I will be glad to tell you more about social media, but thats after you have graduated. For those who have posted careless photos and writings, remember you can delete them, go ahead.....delete them.

The only social media portal I advise you to be active on as an undergraduate is linkedin(dot)com

4. Life Is Expensive

Life is not expensive, I disagree with this point. At some point in life you may not be able to afford all you want. But if you explore your creativity and add value, you will be able to afford all you want later in life.

5. Never Be Scared To Take Chances

Strongly agree. Prepare your mind for entrepreneurship. Think how your skills, ability fit into the environment you find yourself. Find the needs of the people around you and work out a solution. Money making is about solving a problem by providing information, a product or service.

6. Learn How To Interact With People

Strongly agree.

7. A Skill Will Get You Farther Than A Certificate

During my ICT with International Energy and Services Limited (IESL) in 2008, I had a desktop computer to myself and internet connectivity. I learnt html,CSS on homeandlearn(dot)co(dot)uk, I learnt AutoCAD, I received some software application training on alison(dot)com, I learnt to use Microstation for drafting etc

I was an undergraduate of Mechanical Engineering you know, these skills and the others I have acquired over the years, makes me care less of paid employment. I currently secured a job with an Oil and Maritime firm, the skills I have made me stand out amongst other applicants.

8. Save Something – Anything

I disagree. Save money for what? Invest instead in yourself. Attend trainings that are relevant to your course, profession, hobbies, relevant abilities and interest. Invest money to buy a laptop and use it productively. Put in for professional exams.

Eat well, spend money to eat good food.

9. You Are Going To Need Lots Of Hardwork

What people call hardwork, I call work smart. There is nothing hard in doing what you strongly believe in. Work Smart and be open to learning, change.

10.Success Takes Time

I strongly agree.

Make I add number 11, 12

11. Apply for Undergraduate Scholarship opportunities to take tuition fee payment off the shoulders of your parent.


12 GET SOME WORK EXPERIENCE BEFORE GRADUATION
I will also advice you to engage your holidays in extra-activities with organisations who provide products, services related to your course of study or interest. Some undergraduates manage to gather over two years of work experience before they graduate you know. I once met a graduate who had just completed his NYSC with 2 years of working experience. How it happened?, He made the best of his holidays.

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by mattkelly: 7:07am On Oct 16, 2014
Beennkumar:
It applies to every student in a University, not really just Nigerian students. smiley

Henhen?Abeg wetin una mean ohh?
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Chuks16(m): 7:11am On Oct 16, 2014
okay
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by otswag(m): 7:14am On Oct 16, 2014
BOOKMARKED!!! No; printed, laminated and framed sef. grin. Very beautiful and true piece. Its too late for me sha but won't fail to hammer this into d skulls of my kids
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by kilokeys(m): 7:18am On Oct 16, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Kezifils(m): 7:19am On Oct 16, 2014
Giftedgreen Thanks for this article. I'm in my final year and the truth is that am a lil scared of the real world. Will save this article as a form of reminder to work hard in life.

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 7:19am On Oct 16, 2014
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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by nomabeeee(f): 7:20am On Oct 16, 2014
Giftedgreen:
As a student you probably would not believe us if we tell you that are absolutely naive and no, you are not on top of the world.

You will soon graduate from the university, service year is going to be awesome (at least according to the stories you’ve heard).

After service, you are going to get a job, have a family, build a home, become a millionaire and live happily ever after.

There is just one problem with your plan. The only problem with your plan is the real world.

This article is to lets students know things to look out for before they graduate so they don’t get railroaded.

1. A Degree Does Not Entitle You To A Job

We all know getting a degree means a lot of hard work and commitment but because you have a degree does not mean somebody is going to grant you an automatic job offer.

Gone are the days when all you needed to get a good job was a university degree.

We were all told the same lies in secondary school, get a university degree and a mouth watering job would fall on your lap.

The smart people are the ones who figured out this lie early in school and made sure the time they spent in school would separate from other students who were busy enjoying school life to the fullest.

It’s time to get your head out of the sand.

2. Start The Job Search Before You Graduate

Job hunting is a complicated thing and there is no almighty formula for you to acquire a job. Job seeking is not something you can “cram” for and pour out everything during an exam. There are no cheat notes for post-graduation experience.

The job hunting business is an on-the-training experience and the best way to get ahead of your colleagues is to start your career exploration during your service year or better yet during your university days.

You can research branches of your field, do internships (industrial trainings), find out what size of company is for you, and practice job searching techniques.

Put these tips in play and by the time you’re done with service, you’ll be prepared for the next phase of your life and it will be quite tricky for reality to hit you with tons of bricks.

3. Facebook Is Forever

Not just facebook, but twitter, instagram, and every other social network that you decide to be a part of.

What does this mean to an average student? Well it means that every obscure joke you post on Facebook, every explicit picture you share, every inappropriate comment will be visible to the world when you become famous or when you go job hunting.

At the very least, know how to manipulate your social media privacy settings and restrain yourself from littering your social media accounts with unfitting content.

Being appropriate on the web is just as important for a political career as it is for finding employment. Your binge drinking photos might be funny now but they won’t be so hilarious in five years time.

4. Life Is Expensive

You are probably surviving on the allowance you receive from your parents right now and you’ve realized that life can be expensive, EXPENSIVE.

Just wait until you have to live on your own, probably during service year or when you get your first job.

By the time you pay for house rents, transportation fare, recharge cards, light bills, water bills, food, utilities, and every miscellaneous expense. It won’t take long before you realize that life is expensive.

Everything would suddenly become so expensive that you would sometimes feel like crying.

This is one of the most painful things to learn. EVERYTHING costs money.

Anytime from now, you should learn how to create a budget for yourself. Otherwise your rent will be due, your kitchen will be empty and you will be busy dodging from the people you owe money.

5. Never Be Scared To Take Chances

This is probably the most important lesson you have to learn before you graduate, never be scared to take chances. You’ll never get anywhere you want if you don’t take calculated risks every now and then.

No one is telling you to jump out of a plane or go swimming with crocodiles (which would be awesome if you survive), but nothing in life comes easy. Yes, it is cliché, but it the hard truth. After all, nothing can deputise experience.

When you become a graduate, the best option is not becoming a boring office robot whose life revolves around work.

Your twenties and thirties are the some of the best years of your life, we kid you not.

Do not be afraid to face the real world with open arms, explore opportunities, and take chances. You’ll be surprised at what fate has in stock for you.

6. Learn How To Interact With People

Learning how to interact is a very valuable skill you need to have in your belt. It is a “street smart” skill. You could read a million books on how to interact with people but the only way to develop your interaction skill is to put it into practice constantly until it becomes a part of you.

This skill will surely be tested each time you go for a job interview. Heck! You even need this job more if you are an entrepreneur.

Learn to greet people with a smile. Say “thank you, please and I appreciate” whenever the situation deems necessary. These small gestures go a long way to make a huge difference. Don’t be so quick to dismiss the power of appreciation and courtesy.

Make small talk, get to know anyone you have to spend more than thirty minutes with, help them if you can. Who knows? You might meet your own saviour.

Don’t know what to talk about? You could talk about the TV shows you watch, the cool blogs you visit on the net (don’t forget to mention giftedgreen.com), the weather – hint hint : ).

Learn to be always positive, make sure people smile after talking to you.

7. A Skill Will Get You Farther Than A Certificate

What we recommend is that you pick up as many skills as possible, as long as you have a passion for it. Do not say “I am studying English Language, why do I need to learn HTML?” If you are computer major, take a couple of management trainings. It will help you in the long run.

The skills you acquire do not necessarily have to be educational; you could learn tailoring, baking, programming, carpentry . . . anything. You never know when your minor skill will become your added advantage, or your primary source of income.

Not only that, you will be able to converse with a larger variety of different people, plus it shows your employer that you are a fast and versatile learner.

8. Save Something – Anything

Start saving now and you’ll be setting the foundation of your financial future.

There is always a need to save, even if it is the tiniest bit each month. Like we said earlier, life is expensive and the best way to be prepared is for you start saving right now.

Whether it’s for a big purchase, an emergency or for your future it’s important to have a little money for fall back to during rainy days. Trust us, those days will come.

9. You Are Going To Need Lots Of Hardwork

You are now a graduate, you no longer need to read through the night, attend boring lectures and write difficult examinations. Your life should be an easy pie from here. Right? Wrong.

In fact, this is the time that you need to work harder than you imagined, if you want to be successful.

Although you could relax; get a federal government appointment, and retire on your pension. This is perfect, if you want to be mediocre.

We are you are among those that want to be successful. In order to do that, you are going to need a lot of brain work, stay up late at nights and lots of reading if you are going to be among the 1%.

Even if your father is a billionaire, it’s a lot of hard work maintaining all that money.

10.Success Takes Time

After applying all these, do not expect to become a millionaire overnight, or in a week or in a month. Success takes time.

No matter the amount of hard work, Success takes time.

If you are in a hurry to be successful, you will either fall prey to money swindlers or get yourself entangled in something highly illegal. Neither of them sounds good.

That’s all for now!

You don’t have to wait until you graduate to gain these little nuggets of wisdom. Put them to use! Then start collecting some of your own

Already have something to add? Leave them in the comment section below.

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sooo swt,inspiring.am jst waking up and dz is wat I get for morning lectures lol op I love u to my soul*screams*dz is xactly wat I need as a prospective batch c coper
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by jansie(f): 7:25am On Oct 16, 2014
that there are limitless opportunities in nigeria and abroad once you can make first or upper class degree regardless of your family status if you're informed

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by SleekyPosh(m): 7:26am On Oct 16, 2014
Priceless nd Timeless piece of Info. Wish evry Undergraduate comes across these "WORDS ON MARBLE" and utilize it accordingly. @OP #Bless.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by 4har5y: 7:29am On Oct 16, 2014
U've said it all op. I jst hope our undergrads will av dis mindset ryt b4 dey grad.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by jansie(f): 7:29am On Oct 16, 2014
Please disregard number 1 for your own good. Finishing with a first class or upper division would take you far nigeria and abroad once you are well-informed. there are limitless opportunities for the likes. Don't be deceived

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by lyricalpontiff(m): 7:42am On Oct 16, 2014
Noted
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by michaelweezy: 7:43am On Oct 16, 2014
Cool
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by royalicon(m): 7:43am On Oct 16, 2014
Good to read. Thanks OP
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by lawrenceunaa: 7:43am On Oct 16, 2014
So true but hw can u go for job hunt while still an undergraduate
Would quit sch if u find as job pls elaborate
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 7:48am On Oct 16, 2014
starlingleanets:
Trash
. You must be a very negative being! @Topic, good one. I hope the "Nigerian students" will listen to this.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by ldonjibson(m): 7:50am On Oct 16, 2014
Hope they read, ponder & take a step on it. JAH BLESS OP
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by SeverusSnape(m): 7:51am On Oct 16, 2014
I see... in summary; survival of the fittest (smartest )
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 7:51am On Oct 16, 2014
Hmmmmmmmm.

Success really takes time indeed!
@op, thanx 4 d relavant points.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 7:57am On Oct 16, 2014
awesome post @OP. I feel like it was specially written 4 me
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 7:58am On Oct 16, 2014
Thank God for the internet. Where would I have gotten this golden advice in this my jungle
....With this kind of priceless advice from my predecessors I'm sure gonna be on my way to the top.
Thanks @op

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Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by koxi: 7:59am On Oct 16, 2014
Beautiful..... I'm already starting to prepare a pep talk from this piece
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by happykidArotiba(m): 8:01am On Oct 16, 2014
only if all Nigeria students could see this!!!!!
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Eyona(m): 8:01am On Oct 16, 2014
Ur post was indeed awesome. I wish we internalize n practice them. *Nigeria probably have the best policies in theory*
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Eyona(m): 8:04am On Oct 16, 2014
Try to avoid plagiarism as you do that.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 8:05am On Oct 16, 2014
U can tell op is skilled in writing
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by Nobody: 8:06am On Oct 16, 2014
Sound practical advice, but applies mostly to a society that is meritocratic. Nigeria is merit driven, but to a very limited and sometimes non existent degree.
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by PassingShot(m): 8:10am On Oct 16, 2014
OP, if you actually put this piece together I say kudos o you. You're really "gifted".
Re: 10 Life Lessons Every Nigerian Student Should Know Before Graduating From School by san316(m): 8:10am On Oct 16, 2014
THIS IS VERY TRUE. I WISH I HAD A GOOD MENTOR EARLIER. I'M WORKING BUT I'M NOT HAPPY...YET. MAYBE THAT'S BECAUSE I DIDN'T GET MY DREAM JOB.

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