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| A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 4:48pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Decided to create this thread for people like myself (Introverts), lets get relate... . Personally am a Nerd. A serious geeky nerd, socially inept. At times i dont understand people and vice versa, enjoy being alone. And very reserved.. I'l be posting some misconceptions about introverts. Lets keep the ball rolling,... |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 4:53pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
10 Myths About Introverts Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk. This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days. Myth #2 – Introverts are shy. Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite... Personally am a very shy person, and a tall dude.. 6'9ft. So you can imagine, that feeling i get when i step into a room with crowd 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 6:31pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude. Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting. Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people. On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by sleemoon(m): 9:09pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I prefer to stay in my room playing video games dan chatting rubbish wif crowd... I choose d typ of frends I kip too... I dnt lyk frens who talk too much or chat too much... I jst prefer to stay indoors dan go for a nyts out boys party.... Love me for me 2 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 9:24pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
sleemoon: I prefer to stay in my room playing video games dan chatting rubbish wif crowd... I choose d typ of frends I kip too... I dnt lyk frens who talk too much or chat too much... I jst prefer to stay indoors dan go for a nyts out boys party.... Love me for meon point.. |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 9:27pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public. Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts. Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone. Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time. Myth #7 – Introverts are weird. Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 9:30pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds. Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them. Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun. Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up. Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts. A world without Introverts would be a world with few scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors, mathematicians, writers, and philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of techniques an Extrovert can learn in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these two terms on purpose to show you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ. “You cannot escape us, and to change us would lead to your demise.” <-- I made that up. I'm a screenwriter. It can be terribly destructive for an Introvert to deny themselves in order to get along in an Extrovert-Dominant World. Like other minorities, Introverts can end up hating themselves and others because of the differences. If you think you are an Introvert, I recommend you research the topic and seek out other Introverts to compare notes. The burden is not entirely on Introverts to try and become "normal." Extroverts need to recognize and respect us, and we also need to respect ourselves. Culled from Huffingpost |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 9:31pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
nlanders lets add ours... How we've been finding life generally |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Olarewajub: 9:54pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Bro a thread has already been created in the family section. https://www.nairaland.com/1830091/introverts-lounge-extroverts-pls-keep/5#25127848 |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Richiy(f): 10:19pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Okay. I am not an introvert, but I just want y'all to know that some people appreciate and understand introverts. People like me. I even wish in my next life, I would come as an introvert. Many friends I have are introverts and I wouldn't have them less or more than what they are. Am a big fan. 3 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by DoctorAshley(f): 10:49pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
am an introvert and i lyk being alone i hate noise and partying buh my family doesnt lyk it  |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Alexk2(m): 11:15pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
J0nyb0y:you just describing me, bro....nyc job! |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Olarewajub: 12:08am On Aug 01, 2014 |
DoctorAshley: am an introvert and i lyk being alone |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 1:46am On Aug 01, 2014 |
DoctorAshley: am an introvert and i lyk being alonethey should understand you.. Try to make them understand your personalty.. They might just think you like doing such |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by duby91(m): 7:43am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Richiy: Okay. I am not an introvert, but I just want y'all to know that some people appreciate and understand introverts. People like me. I even wish in my next life, I would come as an introvert. Many friends I have are introverts and I wouldn't have them less or more than what they are. Am a big fan. Lol...u better be happy ur not an introvert. trust me, it could be frustrating. we just bottle it up and act like its cool. all that seclusion is depressing. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by duby91(m): 7:47am On Aug 01, 2014 |
DoctorAshley: am an introvert and i lyk being alone Exactly...everyone just thinks there is something wrong. Everyone is different. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by sleemoon(m): 7:51am On Aug 01, 2014 |
duby91: On point bro... Somtyms I jst get angry wif my self... My gf complained dat am too quiet... Wen m in a group of frends, I prefer to listen dan talk.. My frens even fought me 1ce sayn I don't contribute... Well quiet or no quiet I love mylife .. And I think differently from d way ppl do... Dat alone mks me happy 2 Likes |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by duby91(m): 8:02am On Aug 01, 2014 |
sleemoon: You don't need to get angry with yourself, there are some xtics we have that are bad and some are good. just wonder why most peeps get irritated by it. Listening is one attribute i love and thinking differently...you see things differently and even the ones they didn't see coming. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Nobody: 10:03am On Aug 01, 2014 |
I guess this is the introverts' know-your-neighbour room!!  . Oya!!!! Make I take front sit. |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by FOREXMARTS: 10:50am On Aug 01, 2014 |
sleemoon: I prefer to stay in my room playing video games dan chatting rubbish wif crowd... I choose d typ of frends I kip too... I dnt lyk frens who talk too much or chat too much... I jst prefer to stay indoors dan go for a nyts out boys party.... Love me for meMy partner in crime. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Obaino2013(m): 11:06am On Aug 01, 2014 |
sleemoon: I prefer to stay in my room playing video games dan chatting rubbish wif crowd... I choose d typ of frends I kip too... I dnt lyk frens who talk too much or chat too much... I jst prefer to stay indoors dan go for a nyts out boys party.... Love me for meJust described me.... Nice thread Op. Sips alomo with groundnut. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Nastydroid(m): 12:26pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Make i relax here |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by cirmuell(m): 12:44pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
Okay, seems I can spread my mat hear. Well, I used to feel disturbed by what people (will)think about me and my attitude(the way i live my life)...but now I've realized that peoples opinions don't always matter. You just have to be you and love you for who you are. #proudly_anIntrovert 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 8:30pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
duby91:exactly bro... I always see things from an entirely different angle. 1 Like |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by J0nyb0y(m): 8:33pm On Aug 01, 2014 |
nchewi: I guess this is the introverts' know-your-neighbour room!!are you an introvert too? How is it being an introvert |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by sleemoon(m): 6:25pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Can someone please tell me why this thread hasn't made front page since..... Dis re the kind of topics that we need on FP not some funny lookalike of TBJ or some 10 ways of dis nd dat |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Nastydroid(m): 6:48pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
*passing by* |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by bidexolumanish(m): 9:53pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
here i am in ma room since a.m doin html/css,switch to game and later in d night will take a stroll,i like it at night |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by sleemoon(m): 10:14pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Nobody: 10:16pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
i'm an introvert..a vewi shy one at that,when i go out i'm a dilettante at almost evrytin.. i have frnds tho,but most of 'em think i'm strange.. the only person who seems to understand me is my sis and sometimes my folks rebukes me.. i can be very outspoken online..nd my fav companion is my cell phone..i wish people could just understand me... bfor i forget ,tnks op for creating this thread,God bless.. |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by sleemoon(m): 10:56pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
hoyinkansola:Nice one! Glad to see us coming out 1by1 |
| Re: A Thread For Introverts by Nastydroid(m): 11:09pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
sleemoon:am still with you guys nau  |
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