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Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by thorpido(m): 7:44am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Godmystrength:Exactly.In addition,Let her stop coming to sleep over 'before our wedding' until they do the church wedding. 3 Likes |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by pickabeau1: 8:20am On Oct 20, 2014 |
berem: In addition if money na issue..let him do court and move on |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by pamcode(m): 8:26am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Odilafta:lol u are not serious o do you want d op to have high bp ![]() |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Tallesty1(m): 8:30am On Oct 20, 2014 |
darisgod:No it is not well. They are legally married before God and men so what the............ Is she still waiting for? Bros be a man. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Fxwarrior: 8:36am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Phema: Yes. Its not complete without God's blessing. They can go for church blessings which shouldn't cost beyond 20k. The basic thing is the ring. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by lottoe(m): 8:41am On Oct 20, 2014 |
honeychild:Exactly! The only sensible comment here. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Fxwarrior: 8:43am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Before men yes Before God No Op why did you post this in family section? You would have gotten saner and religious advise in religion section. 50% commenting don't have a clue what a christian marriage entails or its significance nor do they care. Following their advice, the way am looking at them it remains for them to tell you to rape her. Na waoh. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by lakamua: 8:46am On Oct 20, 2014 |
I doubt if that woman is a virgin. She is seriously making a fool of him do delay the evil day when it will be too late. Oga, tell us his discovery after the church wedding. Thanks |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Tallesty1(m): 8:50am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Fxwarrior:This is getting interesting and I'm loving it. Pray tell, what does a Christian marriage entail and what is its significance?? |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by silvoice(m): 10:28am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Fxwarrior:u did made some point, but he himself believed that they are legally married and wedding only serve as official presentation and blessing of the mariage. If you think otherwise, why would even his pastor refer to her as mr. B...'s wife? |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by preetygina: 10:36am On Oct 20, 2014 |
hmmm story! does it mean that if d man does nt ve money for d white wedding yet, his wife whom he had paid her dowry will nt come liv with him, cook for him n satisfy him? well, na she sabi oo! to me, it doesnt make sense ooo.she shud go n take care of her hubby oo. i am a married woman n i know how dat man feels.my advice to him is, he shud jst hold on n endure since he has been enduring already inorder to avoid raping his wife.also, he shud try n start making plan for d wedding no matter how little it is |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by smartmom(f): 10:44am On Oct 20, 2014 |
I believe both of you had an agreement as Christians to wait till you have been publicly wedded in the sight of God before consummating your marriage. This is common in Christendom by the way for those who dont know. Why would now change goal post because of pressure from your body poster? Please keep to your agreement and remove the temptation by either getting wedded soon or not allowing her visit you in your house. If you break your agreement, I can assure you, it will leave a stain in your minds especially in hers. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by silvoice(m): 11:00am On Oct 20, 2014 |
preetygina:thanks a lot. He wished he could find someone lik u to advice his woman, cos u spoke frm ur mind as a virtures woman. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by warrior01: 11:10am On Oct 20, 2014 |
Very funny. Imagine my wife telling me no till a less important church wedding before we consummate our marriage. Lol... Let me keep quite for now |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Godmystrength: 11:29am On Oct 20, 2014 |
silvoice:if so, why this? silvoice: |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Godmystrength: 11:34am On Oct 20, 2014 |
lakamua:I doubt this sha... It would have been a different thing if the lady already told him in the past that she is a virgin and is now afraid of him finding out otherwise...... If a woman is not a virgin, and the man is not disturbing her for sex till after the payment of bride price, why will she now use virginity as a cover up when it wasn't part of the man's criteria for marrying her? The man doesn't see them as yet married same goes for the lady.... otherwise, there won't be talks of not getting pregnant before wedding. Abeg, which wedding again? or how many times does one get married to a person? No be only once? why blame the wife when the man also feels same way? He is only trying to cut corners......... If it was the other way round and the woman was the one asking for sex, with this his kind of mindset, he would have told her to wait till ''our wedding'' but because he is tempted to chuck, he wants to turn the thing on the woman's head.. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
But they are married now. The man says he wants protected s*e*x. Why? The lady says No till white wedding. When they are married? Na wa o. they are just deceiving themselves. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Godmystrength: 1:23pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
warrior01:Very correct. But same way i won't expect you to be telling your wife to have unprotected sex with you so that she will not get pregnant till a less important church wedding. No both of them get kleg ![]() ![]() |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Godmystrength: 1:25pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:The guy doesn't think so, hence his request for the protected sex.... If he is requesting for protected sex because he doesn't want them to start having babies for now, then i can understand. but that his reason na wa |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Godmystrength: Na wa o. until he opens up on why he needs protected s*e*x then they are just deceiving themselves. 1 Like |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Godmystrength: 1:40pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:He already gave his reason o Sophy... ![]() ![]() And babe too is saying she doesn't want to have sex before their wedding day.. Perfect combo jare |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by fashionengineer(f): 1:50pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
He should tell her how he feels They are getting married , they should be best friends Tell her it's hard to resist when she visits, and he should check her into a hotel when she's around Plus can't they just do a small wedding 8 months is a long time yo! |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by fashionengineer(f): 1:53pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Raiders: Very true Google heater lindsey she has plenty advice for situations like this Her and her husband didn't even kiss before the wedding You have waited this long. .hold on I pray for strength and grace for u |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Nobody: 2:11pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
Godmystrength: ![]() ![]() ![]() Mctewwwww. Confused lots. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by bigass(f): 5:24pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
She just lack basic knowledge. Once the bride price is paid and accepted and the Father has handed her to him as his wife then they are married. White wedding is is just ceremony. Before the advent of Christianity people got married traditionally. However she believes the marriage is not complete until the white wedding... you should understand with her because many people do not know her bride price has been paid. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by silvoice(m): 6:26pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
bigass:@all thanks for ur concern. D conflictin opinion here shows dat it's not as easy as some think here. It's a moral issue btw two moralist. He would find a way to adjust if he fails to convince her on it. D good thin is dat all other aspect of her behaviour is perfect. At least so he think. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by shizzle11(m): 11:28am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Mumu thread, mumu Op Mumu characters.....fooling themselves we are christian kor, we are charlatans ni....mumu people |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by stevecantrell: 11:54am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Hey OP, if your wife is giving you stress just take her to Guiding Light Assembly in Ikoyi. Pastor Wale Adefarasin will marry you in under 15mins in his office any weekday. He will not take a dime. Just book an appointment first. |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by skentelelady(f): 12:26pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
shizzle11: Thank you Let them keep deceiving themselves Is it even right to be spending nights at your fiance's place in the first instance when you feel you are not ""completely"' married? ![]() It shows that that guy is not sexually okay and he should check himself. I dont know the kinda apartment they are staying but dnt you feel anything for her when she walks around the house especially when you both wake up ![]() How long have they been dating that she just announced now that she is a virgin? So they havent been discussing anything about the sexual life even before the traditional rites? They are both hypocrites ![]() |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by cococandy(f): 12:43pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Tallesty1:And do what? |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by Tallesty1(m): 12:54pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
cococandy:Didn't you read the rest of my comment? |
Re: His Fiance Is A Virgin: She Says No Until After Wedding by cococandy(f): 12:57pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Yes but it didn't say how 'being a man' can help him get into the lady's panties ![]() Short of forcing her,how exactly does 'being a man' help him get the babe to unzip her skirt? Or are you saying he should just be a man and endure the conditions she gave? Tallesty1: |
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