msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

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Easy as 1,2,3.. Its very Evident he notices you and likes you buh he thinks youre out of his league. Just play cool, walk up to him telll him you love his shirt and youve got a brother of his size.. That he should tell you his size or better still accompany you to ahop for your brother... Things would flow smoothly from that convo... If u like him.. Go for him just dont seem needy... Take him fast.. You wont forgive yourself when you see him with someone else. I hope i have helped.

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

Fuckkkkk you, dont you have anything better to do with your life. Maybe you are not his type, stop being desperate.

Drizzytee! Wat are u doing here? Huh

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

....................stop beating around the bush,the guy no gbadu u,so just lock-up and move on,a bold step might be badly mis-interpretad...

So lectures dey go on u dey eye one bobo for class? I need to call mumcy and report to her. On a serious note, sis approach him, we are just too backward in this part of the world.

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

Sister, the smart guy understands the concept of friendzoning. So relax.

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

He likes you. He's a shy guy - at least around you. You need to initiate. Ask him out.

numericalguy:
OP, how do u expect such a nice and cool dude to approach you when you have baricaded yourself by hanging on the arm of the "most wanted guy" in your level. So much so that most people think you are dating. You get loads loads of attention from all the guys in your level buy flirting with them.

Must you have every guy in your class? He's the last one remaining and you must have him even when you know he has a favourite girl.

I don't think you really love him. You only want to conqure him since he's probably one of the few guys left that is not really bothered by you.

#fact

Am I the only one who is going to ask this? Sister you dey uni o, if you like no read your book dey there dey look man. Mtcheeew SMH. Children of nowadays sef

msrita. I can tell you that he knows you like him and he likes you too. You need to detach yourself from the most wanted guy and go solo or move with girls only for now. He doesn't want to get turned off when he comes to you or he doesn't want to chase another guy's girl. Be smart about it and he would come for you when found out you on your own.

Dynasty92:
n she allowed u manipulate her..Hw does dat mk her any much different Frm d rest?

Amongst all those insulting me here you re the only one that asked responsible question. She was so honesty that she went the extra mile to prove to me she is what she claimed she is. I doubted her so much. I never believed and I made a promise to her that if she allow me and I found out that myself , I will never sleep with her and won't take advantage of her. I kept my promise. I regreted doubting her but you don't ve to blame me cos I never believed her to be a virgin cos I ve seen secondary sch girls that ve sex several times before getting into varsity. My point is a patient dog eats the fattest bone

Matthewbriggs:



@bolded exatcly ... this is the main. Reason.

I have once nearly been a victim of such type of girls. I hardly, I mean hardly give women attention if she like make fine like Miss world me no send. I only send you if I really like you or we have something in common. .. If we don't, to me you do not exist.

Now I have discovered that most of them are surprised that every guy is bowing at their feet giving them attention and you seem not to send them it hurts them a little and they therefore embark on a mission to see whether they can win your likeness not because they like you but for more of an ego boost.

I can smell their intention from afar. My intuition tells me this Op sounds like one of these type of women.

Lol...very funny... U might be wrong ooo....yeah i do know some ladies do such but pls it doesnt neccessarily mean she is one of dem. U dont hv to jump to conclusions yet

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

lol, dear, i know how you feel right now and your heart is kind of melting away for this guy. Just invite him somewhere and pretend as if you want him to help you in your assignment and open up to him. Take this step and you'll surely be fine. There's nothing wrong telling a guy that you love him.

I dnt waste time if i observe some green-light from any geh.though im a shy typ.. D guy dull[color=#770077][/color]

miembamish:
@Msrita. Yeah ah knw u.. We're inde Faculty in Unical. Well qoute me den we talk. Try to recall de dude called "Mish" in skul in ur Faculty, dats me. Emmm!!! Juz quote me 1st

Yea mish .. I already recognized you from your pics,damn how worse could this get, I regret ever posting this.

If you like a guy and he does not realize,start a meaningful conversation with him and tactically give him a green light but if he does not get the drift move on and be with a man that likes you at least.

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally.....

Oya use one of this pickup lines n try to start a conversation, if he's acting weird, unto the nxt nigga

There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can't take them off you.

The only thing your eyes haven't told me is your name.

I'm sorry, were you talking to me? [he says No] Well then, please start.

I just had to come talk with you. Sweetness is my weakness.

msrita:


Yea mish .. I already recognized you from your pics,damn how worse could this get, I regret ever posting this.

Don't mind some of these pretenders on NL. Never allow anyone make you feel bad for expressing how you felt at a time. They are not better than you.

Simple....


Get close to him.

How?


Simply start borrowing his notes on the pretext that you missed some notes.


Maybe u wanna compare jottings.


Maybe you just wanna check something and then, collect his number for like.... In case i wanna return the note, where will i see you?


Then start calling him like...... Ehm.... I just wanna thank you for borrowing me your note yesterday. Hope you didn't miss it....

Believe me, his eyes will open one time.

Thank Me later

msrita:
So I really like this guy , we're in the same faculty and level but different departments so we share the same lecture venue for all our lectures.
He's really cool and quiet and that's what I like most in a guy. I stare at him a lot though I try not to and I catch him staring at me sometimes too , sometimes we turn at d same time to stare at each other, the issue is he seems to be ignoring me, I mean he talks to almost every one I relate and associate with ,but he acts as though he doesn't see me , he'll walk up to where I'm standing with a group of friends and greet everyone there except me ,sometimes he passes too close for someone who doesn't like me , his body brushes mine lightly, well we've greeted a few times . I get a lot of attention from guys in my class dunno if that's why he doesn't wanna get close or because the most wanted guy in my class is my best friend though people believe we are dating and I'm an easy person , it even shows on my face. But common I like this guy naturally and wanna be friends with him , I don't think further than that or maybe I do, and oh! He has a favorite girl in our venue , he walks mostly with only her ,u hardly even catch walking with guys its either only him or her. So what's your take on this people, please no harsh comments ,a sister is just sharing her feelings. Thanks.

deenchanted:
lol, dear, i know how you feel right now and your heart is kind of melting away for this guy. Just invite him somewhere and pretend as if you want him to help you in your assignment and open up to him. Take this step and you'll surely be fine. There's nothing wrong telling a guy that you love him.

Nooo I didn't mention love oo . I just his coolness and quietness and wul like to be friends with him.
I don't love him ,I like him. Love? Not on my mind at all.

Owkae! "We are only excited by waheva we cannot possess in full" The above principle is at work in this situation... From the credit you pass to his description, he almost nat a JERK... If you are smart enough, Try somefhing unconventional of this nature: The next time he brushes your skin and you notice he is wearin' a ßeautiful Cologne, kick the conversation with a compliment like [Msrita: I'll be Damn! Nat to notice the pleasant fragrance of your eau de cologne] You can ask as well ["What is the name of the cologne again?"] when he replies, you can feign a funny smile and then reply with [woaw! Sounds cool "Is it unisex?"] if he is a smart guy he can push it from there. it's all 'bout simple logic... Or You can admire his shirt "Tell him the design looks fabulous and it's probably your fave colour and you'll love to use the shirt to worship on sunday, that's if he'll be kind enough to give it out on that sunday"... With small chit_chats like this you can go just the longest way... "IF u now want more than friendship walk with this principle "when you chase your shadow it will run away, when you turn your back on it, it will chase you" GoodLuck!!

numericalguy:
OP, how do u expect such a nice and cool dude to approach you when you have baricaded yourself by hanging on the arm of the "most wanted guy" in your level. So much so that most people think you are dating. You get loads loads of attention from all the guys in your level buy flirting with them.

Must you have every guy in your class? He's the last one remaining and you must have him even when you know he has a favourite girl.

I don't think you really love him. You only want to conqure him since he's probably one of the few guys left that is not really bothered by you.

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msrita:


Yea mish .. I already recognized you from your pics,damn how worse could this get, I regret ever posting this.

You don't have to regret anything girl. I believe you have acquired enough knowledge on the raised issue....next time you posting such, let go of your DP or use a neutral account....this is a very big forum....safe!

PocoAPoco57:


Fuckkkkk you, dont you have anything better to do with your life. Maybe you are not his type, stop being desperate.

Well,this kinda immaturity often accompany some kids online. First of all I'm not being desperate , I just wanted to the possible reasons why things went that way,if I were desperate I guess I wul have walked up to him or someone close to him before now, and I'm seriously done with this issue,I feel like making it disappear from niaraland coz in reality after the first day it was posted I deleted it from my head coz I had expressed it out to people.
Secondly you're already bleeped for life with this kinda attitude where you insult people for no reason.

@rita... Well, d guy knws everyfin (cuz every guy knws d info pass wen he catches a girl stare at him always). Yh,.,, he only wanna play sum kinda "had to get" wif U,,,, juz like I do at times, *winks* lol,,
, yeah!,, or hez kinda shy(buh, datz nt d case, U sed he speaks wif anyoda critters in d faculty).

U've gat to do it yahsef.... Yup!, try sitting next to him in d class next tym, nd let him talk to U,,, #ure a gal u shuld knw hw to make him talk #*winks*. Juz try to get his aTtention, by askn finz related to d lecture bla bla bla(he'd b glad to help u out),,, nd U can suggest, u guyz start hav joint study outta d class, diz wuld lead to exchange or mobile nos. Nd I fink U stand yh frndship frm there.


Am very sure, he will neva make d first move... Seems, easier for such guys to approach gals dat dnt show the green light dan d ones making their likeness obvious.
*winks*

deuce7:

Don't mind some of these pretenders on NL. Never allow anyone make you feel bad for expressing how you felt at a time. They are not better than you.

Thank you very much,in a way its good ,I'm learning how to take criticism without wanting to kill myself. It'll help me in future.

msrita:


Lol, I won't forget, going in for second semester next week.. We'll know watsap then.

Gal, go for study and not him!

msrita:


Thank you very much,in a way its good ,I'm learning how to take criticism without wanting to kill myself. It'll help me in future.

Right way to go!

check ya pm ma'am

msrita:


Thank you very much,in a way its good ,I'm learning how to take criticism without wanting to kill myself. It'll help me in future.

mutombo:

You don't have to regret anything girl. I believe you have acquired enough knowledge on the raised issue....next time you posting such, let go of your DP or use a neutral account....this is a very big forum....safe!

Thanks,I won't forget that.

KyleRobbie:
Owkae! "We are only excited by waheva we cannot possess in full" The above principle is at work in this situation... From the credit you pass to his description, he almost nat a JERK... If you are smart enough, Try somefhing unconventional of this nature: The next time he brushes your skin and you notice he is wearin' a ßeautiful Cologne, kick the conversation with a compliment like [Msrita: I'll be Damn! Nat to notice the pleasant fragrance of your eau de cologne] You can ask as well ["What is the name of the cologne again?"] when he replies, you can feign a funny smile and then reply with [woaw! Sounds cool "Is it unisex?"] if he is a smart guy he can push it from there. it's all 'bout simple logic... Or You can admire his shirt "Tell him the design looks fabulous and it's probably your fave colour and you'll love to use the shirt to worship on sunday, that's if he'll be kind enough to give it out on that sunday"... With small chit_chats like this you can go just the longest way... "IF u now want more than friendship walk with this principle "when you chase your shadow it will run away, when you turn your back on it, it will chase you" GoodLuck!!

Badt boy!

Kiingsolomon:
@rita... Well, d guy knws everyfin (cuz every guy knws d info pass wen he catches a girl stare at him always). Yh,.,, he only wanna play sum kinda "had to get" wif U,,,, juz like I do at times, *winks* lol,,
, yeah!,, or hez kinda shy(buh, datz nt d case, U sed he speaks wif anyoda critters in d faculty).

U've gat to do it yahsef.... Yup!, try sitting next to him in d class next tym, nd let him talk to U,,, #ure a gal u shuld knw hw to make him talk #*winks*. Juz try to get his aTtention, by askn finz related to d lecture bla bla bla(he'd b glad to help u out),,, nd U can suggest, u guyz start hav joint study outta d class, diz wuld lead to exchange or mobile nos. Nd I fink U stand yh frndship frm there.


Am very sure, he will neva make d first move... Seems, easier for such guys to approach gals dat dnt show the green light dan d ones making their likeness obvious.
*winks*

outta context already...she just wanna be friends with him, so dont u think you are already creating a wrong impression about urself to the guy. I am a guy and i know what i am talking about....i will definitely take advantage of her there...*winks*