Mynd44:
*sighs*
Four words Do you like her?

Romantically I mean. Answer that and your problem is solved. Stop with the age thingy.

teddy7:
Ok.. this has gone too far.. there's this girl that's a friend to my elder sis... I've known her since I was a kid... as a family friend we have each others no and we chat on whatsapp/bbm. Until lately she started acting weird towards me.. she tells me lot of things while we chat... she will stare me half to death when she pays my sis a visit... she even say the four letters word to me... It gave me the creeps of my life when she sent me some crazy pix.. ..this girl is like 5/6 years older than me and claims she loves me... I don't even know how to face her after seeing those pictures which I deleted ASAP. She's supper pretty and sexy but I don't know if its right to date someone a lot older than I am and also a friend to a sis... Im just seeking advices if u care to help

Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life.... Blood is thicker dan water... Now be a man, confront that lady and tell her ur so not interested in her and dat if she likes herself she should stop unless u will show her naked pics to ur sister and tell her everythin..or threaten dat u wil upload her nude pics if she doesnt leave u alone..

assfreak:


What is this one saying?

dmcdad:

Mynd44:

Life is not difficult. We humans just make it so

Tycike:
Mumu

drmikeadams:
..where her number?or it never happened

Mynd44:
*sighs*
Four words Do you like her?
Romantically I mean. Answer that and your problem is solved. Stop with the age thingy.

Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life..

teddy7:
Yeah bro. I do but dating her would be a disrespect to my sis

Tymax:
5 years older and a friend of you elder sister. Heeey. Don't try it. It will not end well.

Mynd44:

I am guessing your crystal ball told you so right?

Tymax:

It's his ELDER sister's friend for Pete's sake. The age gap is 5 solid years. She has already sent inappropriate pictures to him- pictures he had to delete.

How can this end well?

Mynd44:

I am guessing your crystal ball told you so right?

Mynd44:

So you like her, you are just bothered about your sis. Cute.

Now let me give you an assignment. Ask your sister if she is okay with you dating her friend. Dont give her a name or even a hint as to which friend. Just say it passively and hear her response.

BTW, there is no disrespect to your sister if you date her friend, stop being overly shy

Mynd44:

Ending well or not is dependent on if they are both reasonable.

teddy7:
U're really one of a kind I'm really not that shy o. I already did ask her that same question out of curiosity and d response was very bad... its seems its somewhat forbidden to her....

kskpoundz:
Its not a big deal tho,its just dat it cnt leads to marriage.I got disV by som1 much more older dan me many yrs bak so no big deal broo. Grab ur copy while stock last!!!

Tymax:

Is it reasonable to send such pictures to her friend's little brother? The guy now sees her as a booty call.

Bro stop trying to rationalize this situation. The foundation of the relationship is terrible. She wouldn't dare tell her friend that she's interested in the little brother.

The guy is clearly uncomfortable with the idea. If he considers her at all, it would be for casual sex. Nothing more. She will not be welcome in his home. Is that a meaningful relationship?

Cutehector4u:
My dear if u respect ur elder sister, pls dnt even dare go behind her to do such...unless u want ur sister to hate u for the rest of ur life.... Blood is thicker dan water... Now be a man, confront that lady and tell her ur so not interested in her and dat if she likes herself she should stop unless u will show her naked pics to ur sister and tell her everythin..or threaten dat u wil upload her nude pics if she doesnt leave u alone..

Mynd44:

The dude already says he likes her. Would be here typing all this BS if he did not? He has not said he wants her to stop chasing him, the only reason he is staying away is cos of his sister.

Somewhere in the world two people might like one another and want to be with one another irrespective of age and what others think. You can wish it away but NEWSFLASH: it freaking happens!!

Tymax:

To be with whomever we want irrespective of the views of others might appear politically correct but the premise is shaky because humans are essentially communual. Our lives are shared. This is the basis of culture. You cannot do just about anything you like without considering those around you; especially if someone (a parent) still assumes responsibility for you.

Dating his elder sister's friend will strain the relationship between his sister and her friend. Will he knowingly dismiss the views of his sister and deliberately bring her discomfort every time she sees them together?

You said situations like this happen. Yes they do. However that does not endorse the act as acceptable. Will an action be deemed justifiable just because someone has done it before?