RedEboe:


Like I said in earlier pages, there is never an easy way to break up with a woman that is so into you. Your best bet is to be as BLUNT as possible in order not to waste her time. She'll get over it, after all 'no be say persin die.' Yes,I have been in a situation when I had to break up with a girl that thought I was the beginning and end of her world but guess what? Today, she's happily married to the man I initially snatched her from-True story.

Moral of the story: Women always get over heartbreaks, do not hesitate if indeed you do not want her anymore.

About good-looks? Well,maybe it did play a role...say 30% tops.

RedEboe:


Control your hormones, son!

nibson:
there is this lady who flirts with me and says all kinds of
Intimate things to me when we outside , she gets jealous
when. i talk about my g/f ...buh d problem is when i try to
make advances towards her when we alone she shuts me
out...d last one i tried she hit me on d back and was
vexed.....abeg make una advice me coz i fink i have been
friendzoned nd d question is....y will you flirt with me
outside even in front my friends and become something
else when we alone.....i guesss women are more
complicated than i thought.......oh i forgot to mention that
we have been friends and coursemates for years
now....been a loyalist to her academically tho.....smh!!!

Emmysteve:
Nawaoh so this thread is still moving on a fast lane? i dey suspect op wash put sotey people dey rush this thread. Lol nothing do you jare.

Blankstare:
Ok,the ladies man. How is your retirement,I hope you are enjoying it? My questn is,how do you make a lady feel at home with you after the initial convo of getting her phone no and probably taking the relationship to the next level. (2) during your active yrs are you usually comfortable with all types of women around you(I mean any kind) even up till now?

wizard007:
[size=35pt]RedEboe!!![/size] Tuale

Nmeri17:


you said someone whose girl dumped and later retraced her steps should not be accepted. does it mean that guy in this post na mumu??

if looks was 30% what made up the other 70??

RedEboe:


Try to constantly get your mind actively distracted and focused on other human activities rather than $ex, then you'll make some headway. Such other activities include reading, writing, strolling, hanging out with your boyz, focusing on your work/business and on HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY.
I'm giving you this advise not just on moral grounds but on technical grounds. When a guy's mind is occupied with $ex 24/7 chances are that if/when an opportunity finally presents itself, such a guy may not last up to 11seconds during intercourse.

RedBenson:


Are you "he" or "she"?

hugoart:
Nah,he's not that good. I've got a nagging feeling about him/her.
In his desperate,deliberate(d),despicable obsession to be (non-)controversial,he comes across as a perfect robot. No soul,no vibe,non-human,saintly.
Manipulative or being manipulated.He seems like a man hanging by the strings of a puppet-master.
Op's condescendingly annoying,for a supposed womanizer(retired),with no rebel streak.
He's fake,not real.

EyeKandy:
Can't believe I'm up at 2.am reading this. LOL.

Read this thread in it's entirety!! All 11 pages. Quite interesting!!

anssy:

SHE

anssy:

SHE

dwilliams:
wu b dis 1?

hugoart:
Nah,he's not that good. I've got a nagging feeling about him/her.
In his desperate,deliberate(d),despicable obsession to be (non-)controversial,he comes across as a perfect robot. No soul,no vibe,non-human,saintly.
Manipulative or being manipulated.He seems like a man hanging by the strings of a puppet-master.
Op's condescendingly annoying,for a supposed womanizer(retired),with no rebel streak.
He's fake,not real.

UnknownT:
Ehyah!!!! All these because he called you Son and told you to control your emotions? Oya, i apologize on his behalf! You are a man.

EyeKandy:
My question:
How do I handle a situation where a guy I'm seeing honestly tells me that "beautiful women are one of his vices"? We both laughed at it, but it stuck in my head like glue because I don't know any of his female friends. In other words, if he loves women that much, where are they? He's always texting/chatting and since I don't wanna grill him, it gets really uncomfortable for me.

I really like this guy, but he comes off as too complacent and unemotional. He's always like, I'm not the kind of guy to show emotion, but i really do love you. Hmnn.... Would you say it's part of being a "player/womanizer"? I mean, how can you love someone and hardly show emotion?

Not bragging, but I encounter lots of men and hold my own quite well. I'm 20-something in my prime (you know what I mean). Mr. X knows this and only steps up when another guy is in the picture.

Admittedly, I like affection and attention. Are self-sufficient ladies usually a turn off because I get the opposite? SMH. I always ask...just for sake of it. I donno...

adepiero:
Words to the haters:
You don't smoke, you don't drink and you don't fornicate! how would you feel if you die and go to hell simply because you judged the writer of this thread! how?

OP, though your retired, I've tried too but the game still needs me so am shining my boots

By the way nice thread! As opposed to some ppls opinion, this thread is meant to educate! just read and take advisory note where necessary! Abi OP?

RedBenson:


Are you trying to say would love to have a taste of him considering his legendary status?

mymz:


i am trying to say that if he didn't already belong to another, i would have given "having a taste of him" very intense consideration.
Do you understand?
i mean, the thought processes enclosed in the act of "tasting him" would have undergone some very VERY intense consideration.
you dig?

RedBenson:


Ok then, but being late might not be too late and besides, he never said he doesnt do other girls anymore, so you two can still try something out. How abt that?

dwilliams:
Oga O.P more grease 2 ur C..K,there z dis older lady I met of recent, I am so into her,but I am scared of expressin my feelings because of d fear of rejection, d truth b say d babe pass me 4 age,finances,social class and everything, though I enjoyed d few days we spent together. She did not even make any reference 2 dis factors during her short stay, but I know say e de her mind. Pls advise a niggur on wat 2 do

RedEboe:


Interesting observation!

dollyptosh:
This dude ehn. What's your own? LOL

RedBenson:


Ok then, but being late might not be too late and besides, he never said he doesnt do other girls anymore, so you two can still try something out. How abt that?

UnknownT:
Ehyah!!!! All these because he called you Son and told you to control your emotions? Oya, i apologize on his behalf! You are a man.