In the spirit of maturity and to convince ur ex that u are doing very well without her. And u dont feel abit of hurt. You discover that u want to fake ur smiles, send her birthday messages, sometimes a gift or a card, pretend to have be enjoying a small chat, pretend u are happy for her new boyfriend; u know u get to ask her about him, ask about her studies, siblings and parents. Y'know things that could make u look matured and happy. I dunno what u do. What do u guys think and have u had this experience?

What's the need for the pretence ? Be who you are and do whatever you want to do irrespective of their opinion .

And how would you explain that to your new girl?
Stop all avoidable communications.

Don't be nice to her without good reason- especially if she broke your heart.

Treat her like every other person. No extra favors. After all, she is no longer special.

There is nothing mature about faking smiles or being Mr Nice Guy. Why do you need to pretend so you can impress a heartbreaker? Just stay normal.

Truth be told, why being hostile to ur ex? Be friendly, believe me,there is no need for malice in dis small world.

Lovetinz:
And how would you explain that to your new girl?
Stop all avoidable communications.

I really don't intend to have another relationship after the broke up.

Tymax:
Don't be nice to her without good reason- especially if she broke your heart.

Treat her like every other person. No extra favors. After all, she is no longer special.

There is nothing mature about faking smiles or being Mr Nice Guy. Why do you need to pretend so you can impress a heartbreaker? Just stay normal.

You got my point I decided that I will treat like another of my female friends, and y'know u gotta be nice to the ladies

Phoenixfrank:

You got my point I decided that I will treat like another of my female friends, and y'know u gotta be nice to the ladies

Well I'm not nice to ladies unless they have earned it.

Phoenixfrank:

You got my point I decided that I will treat like another of my female friends, and y'know u gotta be nice to the ladies

1. An ex-lover is not just another female frind.
2. As long as you are still texting and calling, you haven't broken up.
You are just having an extended chill session.

Lovetinz:


1. An ex-lover is not just another female frind.
2. As long as you are still texting and calling, you haven't broken up.
You are just having an extended chill session.

Well, she is with someone now. The break up was understood

Tymax:

Well I'm not nice to ladies unless they have earned it.

I like ur perception but people are different though

Phoenixfrank:

I like ur perception but people are different though

Break every line of communication pls.[color=#990000][/color]

Only be nice when your paths cross, or when she calls you for help. . . Chasing her around town in the name of calls, gifts, remembering her birthday, asking after her parents blah blah, is just borderline silly. Shows you might never get over her.