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No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 8:13am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Been dating my girl for alomst a year now. The problem is she is very bonded to her friends. They go everywhere together. 90% of the her visits (even weekends) is always accompanied by friends. Even when I want to take her to shoprite or silverbird, she insist her friends come. (she wont mind going to a cheaper place). Each time I bring this up, it results in a quarel. We resort to quick sex (my car, toilet, kitchen, etc) sometimes the desire becomes so strong at night that we have to use bed sheets. When I quarel, she says I should go rent a flat. I dont need a flat for now. Due to the nature of my biz... I go out very early and come back very late. Im ok wit a self contain for the time being. Ive got to develop my land and reploy back into my business. I really love this girl. Dont want to lose her, but the intimacy is not there. We can,t spend time together, talk about ourselves, our future, make out, etc. Im 26 and she is 20 and just got into school. I graduated 4 yrs ago. This is the first girl Im really having feelings for. I tempted to be hard on her, but am scared of loosing her. Pls I need your advice. Thank you NB: she accompanies her friends to their bf place, and the guys seems to be okay with it. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by vizkiz: 8:17am On Oct 27, 2014 |
I don't think you guys are dating...you are just like a friend with benefits to her 1 Like |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by xtervaganza(m): 8:18am On Oct 27, 2014 |
If you're not having a s€x sandwich with her friends you have to stop it. I personally can't take that crap 1 Like |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by passionate88: 8:19am On Oct 27, 2014 |
You do Bleep her na... |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by redcliff: 8:38am On Oct 27, 2014 |
passionate88: Help me ask o...Nigerian men. Confusing themselves since the days of idi agbon.. 2 Likes |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Tallesty1(m): 8:52am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Date one of her friend. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by jejemanito: 9:09am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Nobody: 9:17am On Oct 27, 2014 |
You are in a zone that's nt named yet 4 Likes |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by ancashy(f): 9:20am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Give her some time,but keep drumming it into her ears that u'll want some time together alone.Also,try wearing boxers only d next time she comes around with her friends,talk freely about ur last intimacy,continue till she complains verbally,as in until she speaks out,u then reply her dat as far as u are concerned she is d only one around,and u'll keep on carrying out stuffs like she is d only one present. Let's see how she feels abt dat. 3 Likes |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Nobody: 9:21am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Meanwhile, day has break. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Ucheosefoh(m): 9:54am On Oct 27, 2014 |
Op you know what? Next time you wana take her out or she wana visit invite any of your close paddy he will keep the other girl busy or may end up dating her. Try this anything she comes with her friends I believe she will stop |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 11:11pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
vizkiz: Really... |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by stevecantrell: 11:20pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Lacomus: Its called the 'mugunized' sex slave zone |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
pete24:lesbiannn alert! Run 4400000 bro! Candid advice |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Homguy(m): 11:36pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
pete24:she doesn't love you in the least. Stop wasting your time and resources and move on already. P.s- better not listen to any lady or wuss who advices you to continue to put up with that charade. You call a relationship. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Homguy(m): 11:41pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
pete24:Correction, you don't lose a girl by being strict, hard or by sticking to your words you lose your lady when you have no backbone,when you can't make decisions and live by them, when you are scared of losing her,like you are now. 2 Likes |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Nobody: 12:06am On Oct 28, 2014 |
stevecantrell:na you come give the zone name LWKM |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Ilovenigeria(f): 4:15am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Op why not invite one of your male friends anytime they are in your house. The guy go dey tidy the other girl inside toilet while you go get the whole room dey tidy your babe. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Ilovenigeria(f): 4:17am On Oct 28, 2014 |
stevecantrell:And that kind of sex can be annoying. You cannot twist and turn the way you want. 2 Likes |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Nobody: 4:37am On Oct 28, 2014 |
sorry,how did you go to her in her 1st place?I so hate girls that flock around with freinds i spoilt 2phones in 3weeks |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 6:46am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Ilovenigeria:Thanks but thats not the kinda rlsp am looking for. |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 8:51am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Ipledge:During vacation and she was alone then... |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 8:52am On Oct 28, 2014 |
stevecantrell: Hmmn |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 8:54am On Oct 28, 2014 |
ancashy: Dnt think it will work... |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by pete24: 8:55am On Oct 28, 2014 |
Homguy:Very instructive. Though its hard... |
Re: No Intimacy: She Hardly Visits Alone by Ilovenigeria(f): 9:02am On Oct 28, 2014 |
pete24:Then keep managing her like that. |
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