bigt2:
Ok

tosyne2much:
What a lovely thread.. Only silly and shallow minded woman wrappers will disagree or condemn this thread


BTW, where you go all this while sef ?

Aprime:
Funny how your post reflects women as second class creatures but that's none of my Business...

Mutuwa:
Excerpt

After having so much trouble with her husband a woman decided She had had enough and wanted to quit. She went to the village to visit her mother to inform her of her decision.

After much complaining, she told her mum how she wished she had met someone like her dad, as her dad was caring and sweet and they had such a happy marriage.

The mum listened to everything she had to say, expecting her mum to start lecturing her about marriage this and marriage that.The mum told her to go rest since she had traveled a long distance.

''Go and rest my child'', she said ''tomorrow we talk.''

Next morning, when she got up she noticed her mum was up already and tidying up the house for the day. The mum said, please can you help me deliver these crates of egg to my friend on the other side of town while I prepare breakfast for your dad.

The eggs are very fragile so please do be careful. The woman got dressed and carried the crates to run the errand.

Upon her return, "Well", asked her mum,"Did you see the new bridge that was commissioned last week? Did you notice that the roads across the river has now been tarred? So you mean you also did not see the new shopping mall in the city centre?

The woman was embarrassed, and confessed that she had observed nothing. Her only concern had been not to break the eggs that the mum asked her to deliver safely.

"Then go back and observe the marvels of the town", said her mum.

Relieved from the burden of the crates of eggs, she returned to explore the town, this time observing the newly commissioned bridge, the new tarred road across the river and the beautiful shopping mall her mum had told her about.

When she returned she related in excitement everything she had seen. "Well, there is only one piece of advice I can give you", her mum said:

"The secret to a successful marriage is to see all the beauty of the person you have married rather than focus on just one fault the person has.

You focused so long on the crates of eggs I gave you that you forgot to look around and marvel at the best of what was around you."

This woman went home with her bags as a new person. Even though her husband did not change, she was able to change her perspective and pay more attention to the good things he was doing.

Marriage is beautiful when beauty is looked for and cultivated.

Mutuwa:
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Rapmoney:
Times without number, over and over again, I have come across so many threads that listed mistakes ladies make when getting married. Unfortunately, those possible mistakes most young men make when getting married have been left out, or should I say neglected? I'm not a marriage counsellor, neither am I a relationship expert. This thread was inspired by careful observations and experiences that some peeps who I know have gone through. Here they are:

1. Marrying A Woman With No Professional or Business Skill:- This mistake is very fatal; that's why it tops the list. Just as no lady wants to marry a guy who has no skill and is jobless, that's how men should avoid marrying a lady who does nothing, has no professional or business skill, not into any trade and not schooling. I wonder what such a lady would be coming to do in the marriage. What would she be bringing? Yes, a man is the bread winner of the family but as he goes out to win the bread, the woman should also go out to win the akara, because when both are mixed together, it makes more sense.

2. Marrying A Cheap Girl:- If you marry a runs girl you met at the club, or a girl you entice with money to bleep, then you are in for it. Who told you that the leopard changes skin? When she doesn't get what she expects, she would bleep other buoyant men for money. Remember the proverb 'He who brings in ant-ridden woods into his house should not complain when lizards pay him visit.

3. Marrying That Superficial Material Girl Who Does Nothing:- She uses a costly phone, wears designer clothes, wears expensive Colombian hair , carries an ipad always, drinks Andre, etc but her family lives in a zinc house. Bros, abeg run. Have you ever reasoned how she acquired all that? She's most likely a har.lot!!!

4. Marrying A Known Cheater:- If you date a girl and she cheats on you of which you are aware of and you still go ahead to marry her, you are no better than the village idi.ot!

5. Marrying A Nymph Who Cannot Hold Herself While You Are Away:- If you try this, someone could be bangin' your wife while you are away at that business conference. You should as well be looking for a very strong rope to hang yourself if you are planning to tie the knot with such a woman.

6. Marrying 'The Girl' Instead of 'The Woman':- Some females are just so childish. A lady who sulks for days whenever both of you have a minor argument is not mature emotionally. A real woman should be able to express her feelings whenever it is necessary to do so.

7. Marrying A 'Spend It All' Lady:- A lady who cannot help her man to save and plan is not worth it. She will eat your future up in the long run and in no time too. One day, she go use your pikin Waec fee take buy Peruvian hair

Last Bullet: Any girl wen you buy Z30 for on her birthday, when e reach your turn, she come buy 2 boxers and 1 singlet, make you no ever marry am

This thread is dedicated to LaurelP, tosyne2much, Rapsainot. These guys keep it real in the romance section. Before I forget, and Mariolae too; I have forgiven her all her sins. Good morning everyone...

LaurelP:


*salute*
I hail u baba. U too much

OK

Rapmoney:
Times without number, over and over again, I have come across so many threads that listed mistakes ladies make when getting married. Unfortunately, those possible mistakes most young men make when getting married have been left out, or should I say neglected? I'm not a marriage counsellor, neither am I a relationship expert. This thread was inspired by careful observations and experiences that some peeps who I know have gone through. Here they are:

1. Marrying A Woman With No Professional or Business Skill:- This mistake is very fatal; that's why it tops the list. Just as no lady wants to marry a guy who has no skill and is jobless, that's how men should avoid marrying a lady who does nothing, has no professional or business skill, not into any trade and not schooling. I wonder what such a lady would be coming to do in the marriage. What would she be bringing? Yes, a man is the bread winner of the family but as he goes out to win the bread, the woman should also go out to win the akara, because when both are mixed together, it makes more sense.

2. Marrying A Cheap Girl:- If you marry a runs girl you met at the club, or a girl you entice with money to bleep, then you are in for it. Who told you that the leopard changes skin? When she doesn't get what she expects, she would bleep other buoyant men for money. Remember the proverb 'He who brings in ant-ridden woods into his house should not complain when lizards pay him visit.

3. Marrying That Superficial Material Girl Who Does Nothing:- She uses a costly phone, wears designer clothes, wears expensive Colombian hair , carries an ipad always, drinks Andre, etc but her family lives in a zinc house. Bros, abeg run. Have you ever reasoned how she acquired all that? She's most likely a har.lot!!!

4. Marrying A Known Cheater:- If you date a girl and she cheats on you of which you are aware of and you still go ahead to marry her, you are no better than the village idi.ot!

5. Marrying A Nymph Who Cannot Hold Herself While You Are Away:- If you try this, someone could be bangin' your wife while you are away at that business conference. You should as well be looking for a very strong rope to hang yourself if you are planning to tie the knot with such a woman.

6. Marrying 'The Girl' Instead of 'The Woman':- Some females are just so childish. A lady who sulks for days whenever both of you have a minor argument is not mature emotionally. A real woman should be able to express her feelings whenever it is necessary to do so.

7. Marrying A 'Spend It All' Lady:- A lady who cannot help her man to save and plan is not worth it. She will eat your future up in the long run and in no time too. One day, she go use your pikin Waec fee take buy Peruvian hair

Last Bullet: Any girl wen you buy Z30 for on her birthday, when e reach your turn, she come buy 2 boxers and 1 singlet, make you no ever marry am

This thread is dedicated to LaurelP, tosyne2much, Rapsainot. These guys keep it real in the romance section. Before I forget, and Mariolae too; I have forgiven her all her sins. Good morning everyone...

Rapmoney:
Times without number, over and over again, I have come across so many threads that listed mistakes ladies make when getting married. Unfortunately, those possible mistakes most young men make when getting married have been left out, or should I say neglected? I'm not a marriage counsellor, neither am I a relationship expert. This thread was inspired by careful observations and experiences that some peeps who I know have gone through. Here they are:

1. Marrying A Woman With No Professional or Business Skill:- This mistake is very fatal; that's why it tops the list. Just as no lady wants to marry a guy who has no skill and is jobless, that's how men should avoid marrying a lady who does nothing, has no professional or business skill, not into any trade and not schooling. I wonder what such a lady would be coming to do in the marriage. What would she be bringing? Yes, a man is the bread winner of the family but as he goes out to win the bread, the woman should also go out to win the akara, because when both are mixed together, it makes more sense.

2. Marrying A Cheap Girl:- If you marry a runs girl you met at the club, or a girl you entice with money to bleep, then you are in for it. Who told you that the leopard changes skin? When she doesn't get what she expects, she would bleep other buoyant men for money. Remember the proverb 'He who brings in ant-ridden woods into his house should not complain when lizards pay him visit.

3. Marrying That Superficial Material Girl Who Does Nothing:- She uses a costly phone, wears designer clothes, wears expensive Colombian hair , carries an ipad always, drinks Andre, etc but her family lives in a zinc house. Bros, abeg run. Have you ever reasoned how she acquired all that? She's most likely a har.lot!!!

4. Marrying A Known Cheater:- If you date a girl and she cheats on you of which you are aware of and you still go ahead to marry her, you are no better than the village idi.ot!

5. Marrying A Nymph Who Cannot Hold Herself While You Are Away:- If you try this, someone could be bangin' your wife while you are away at that business conference. You should as well be looking for a very strong rope to hang yourself if you are planning to tie the knot with such a woman.

6. Marrying 'The Girl' Instead of 'The Woman':- Some females are just so childish. A lady who sulks for days whenever both of you have a minor argument is not mature emotionally. A real woman should be able to express her feelings whenever it is necessary to do so.

7. Marrying A 'Spend It All' Lady:- A lady who cannot help her man to save and plan is not worth it. She will eat your future up in the long run and in no time too. One day, she go use your pikin Waec fee take buy Peruvian hair

Last Bullet: Any girl wen you buy Z30 for on her birthday, when e reach your turn, she come buy 2 boxers and 1 singlet, make you no ever marry am

This thread is dedicated to LaurelP, tosyne2much, Rapsainot. These guys keep it real in the romance section. Before I forget, and Mariolae too; I have forgiven her all her sins. Good morning everyone...

Tallesty1:
God bless you

Rapmoney:
Times without number, over and over again, I have come across so many threads that listed mistakes ladies make when getting married. Unfortunately, those possible mistakes most young men make when getting married have been left out, or should I say neglected? I'm not a marriage counsellor, neither am I a relationship expert. This thread was inspired by careful observations and experiences that some peeps who I know have gone through. Here they are:

1. Marrying A Woman With No Professional or Business Skill:- This mistake is very fatal; that's why it tops the list. Just as no lady wants to marry a guy who has no skill and is jobless, that's how men should avoid marrying a lady who does nothing, has no professional or business skill, not into any trade and not schooling. I wonder what such a lady would be coming to do in the marriage. What would she be bringing? Yes, a man is the bread winner of the family but as he goes out to win the bread, the woman should also go out to win the akara, because when both are mixed together, it makes more sense.

2. Marrying A Cheap Girl:- If you marry a runs girl you met at the club, or a girl you entice with money to bleep, then you are in for it. Who told you that the leopard changes skin? When she doesn't get what she expects, she would bleep other buoyant men for money. Remember the proverb 'He who brings in ant-ridden woods into his house should not complain when lizards pay him visit.

3. Marrying That Superficial Material Girl Who Does Nothing:- She uses a costly phone, wears designer clothes, wears expensive Colombian hair , carries an ipad always, drinks Andre, etc but her family lives in a zinc house. Bros, abeg run. Have you ever reasoned how she acquired all that? She's most likely a har.lot!!!

4. Marrying A Known Cheater:- If you date a girl and she cheats on you of which you are aware of and you still go ahead to marry her, you are no better than the village idi.ot!

5. Marrying A Nymph Who Cannot Hold Herself While You Are Away:- If you try this, someone could be bangin' your wife while you are away at that business conference. You should as well be looking for a very strong rope to hang yourself if you are planning to tie the knot with such a woman.

6. Marrying 'The Girl' Instead of 'The Woman':- Some females are just so childish. A lady who sulks for days whenever both of you have a minor argument is not mature emotionally. A real woman should be able to express her feelings whenever it is necessary to do so.

7. Marrying A 'Spend It All' Lady:- A lady who cannot help her man to save and plan is not worth it. She will eat your future up in the long run and in no time too. One day, she go use your pikin Waec fee take buy Peruvian hair

Last Bullet: Any girl wen you buy Z30 for on her birthday, when e reach your turn, she come buy 2 boxers and 1 singlet, make you no ever marry am

This thread is dedicated to LaurelP, tosyne2much, Rapsainot. These guys keep it real in the romance section. Before I forget, and Mariolae too; I have forgiven her all her sins. Good morning everyone...

kayciano:
GOOD MORNING, BROTHER MAN..
THANKS...
Dats the challenge i have with my HEARTTHROB...
she is very good,but still coming up..
AM currently enrolling her in skills acquisition even as an undergraduate...
MARRIAGE is not EASY...but can be made so when both parties have source of income.
Dats Y ...u see most poor couples xchange ABUSIVE words in the streets, wife battering etc with IMPUNITY..
I

cupidora:
seriously?

OgidiOlu3:

Nice story there.

Op, nice post but all what you wrote applies to men too.