2yrs ago, dz guy was crazy for dz girl and decided to approach her. De guy is good looking and de girl is an "angel" He became friends wit de girl and he asked her out oneday. De girl accepted but was always shy weneva she saw dz guy. De guy wil try everyting possible to make dz girl happy, but she'll juz be so overwhelmed by her own beauty koz she got other guys flattering her here and there. She decided to flirt wit guys while still dating dz boy. She'll always be meeting other guys but if invited by de bf, she won't go. One evening, de idle guy decided to invite his date to be wit her, but de girl gave de excuse dat she was busy at home. De guy decided to go strolling inde dark evening. As he was strolling, he saw his date and anoda guy in a dark shade, and he juz passed by, while he made himself so visible to de girl. A year passed and de both parted ways wit no formal brkup. De guy forgot abt de girl but oneday, de girl whatsapped de guy and told him dat she missed de guy. De guy was shocked in disbelieve dat he had to question who he was actually chatting wit. De girl den sent a voice note to proof it was actually her dat was chatting. De girl begged de guy for forgiveness due to de way she treated him, and asked de guy for anoda chance. De guy told her dat he had no problem wit her, dat he was ok without her, and de girl said she was a changed person. Dat she's realized her mistakes. De girl told de guy dat she still loved him and wanted to date him and him alone. De guy who still had feelings for de girl took her bk. De girl visited her dat evening without any invitation from de guy and de both showed dia luv by expression in *kissing* thinking all was ok, de guy fell again for her. Now, de girl has gone bk to her old life by always snobbing him on whatsapp and will neva call him even wen he sends her airtime. She'l promise to meet de guy and will keep de guy waiting till midnight sef, but she'l neva turn up and won't even call him to tell him she won't make it again. Its been happening dz way for 3months nw, yet de girl is neither schooling or working. She's always home doing nothing except to go out and meet friends. And de guy will be dying of disappointments from de girl always. De latest nw is dat, she won't reply him on whatsapp for wks but she's always online chatting wit oda guys. Yet she claims she's inlove wit de guy and dat de guy is her date. Tell me, is de girl normal ? And what should dz guy do

maybe when u type well I will understand

Na wa oo. Must everything be spelt in black and white before people learn? The girl obviously is using him as her backup boyfriend. Or maybe she loves him but just can't ignore the attention from other guys. I presume she's between 16 and 18. Just a confused mind that doesn't know what they want. And vulnerable too.

MzPreshie:
Na wa oo. Must everything be spelt in black and white before people learn? The girl obviously is using him as her backup boyfriend. Or maybe she loves him but just can't ignore the attention from other guys. I presume she's between 16 and 18. Just a confused mind that doesn't know what they want. And vulnerable too.

Very true.. She's btwn 16 and 17. And de guy is btwn 19 and 20

mraventurah:
maybe when u type well I will understand

My brother I just tire
@op which kain writing be this

This OP dey lie sha . . This whole story happened to you but you dey fear bashing . . Using "dis guy" instead of "ME"

O boy na by force to make write up?

Bunch of kids.. Y'all need 2 graduate and get a *fu.kin job

#when fools fall in luv....

From the beginning right from the garden of Eden, it was proven that love was and is not meant for kids or immature minds.
The guy should focus on his studies, by the time he is occupied with assignments, hand-outs, textbooks, practicals, tests, exams and early morning lectures, he'll forget about having whatsapp on his phone or one nonsense small girl somewhere that's playing with his feelings.

meaningless

See d girl is either possed by an evil spirit or she has a spiritual husband.take her to cele church for delivrance. Nd by d way are u both not suposed to be readin ur books eh? Itz children lik u dat make nigeria record mass failure in waec. Smh

MzPreshie:
Na wa oo. Must everything be spelt in black and white before people learn? The girl obviously is using him as her backup boyfriend. Or maybe she loves him but just can't ignore the attention from other guys. I presume she's between 16 and 18. Just a confused mind that doesn't know what they want. And vulnerable too.

It has little to do with age. My ex partly did same to me. A 28 year old woman!!!!

toke8:

It has little to do with age. My ex partly did same to me. A 28 year old woman!!!!

It's either you were her first love or she didn't really love you; was just using you as backup.

And D guy now...den D girl now...and the guy now..when D girl now..as D guy now....

your write up is terrible.

I'm suspecting you're the guy you're talking about cos this your write-up is enough to make a woman lose interest in you in 1second even if you haven't seen each other

in 1year. Ppl should understand dat there's something called attraction and it has a lot to do with charisma...dats why you see ladies dying to remain with a man while

another man is getting dumped & redumped by the same girl. The girl probably thought you had changed for the better (charisma-wise) but found out you're still the same

boring, low self-esteem guy she knew...hence she's putting you back in that zone...

Here's my advise: Take time out alone to search through yourself...do a thorough mind-check and weed out all the negative thoughts hiding in your subconscious...get

books that help change your mind-set..and by the time you're changed, she will come back begging you & you will realize dat dere are many fish in the ocean & you can

most likely have as many as yiu want. This advise doesn't just work on women but its a life material that makes you attractive to PEOPLE! women, men, gay, lesbian,

children etc.....check out "themodernman.com" for more info..I personally bought the book on "the flow" and can send the pdf to you free if you want it..cheers!

MzPreshie:
It's either you were her first love or she didn't really love you; was just using you as backup.

That girl in your profile pic is smoking hot especially in those jeans.

drlawizle:


That girl in your profile pic is smoking hot especially in those jeans.

She get ebola oo. Shey you still like am?

MzPreshie:
She get ebola oo. Shey you still like am?

She cant have ebola & still look that way...so I still like am

drlawizle:


She cant have ebola & still look that way...so I still like am

Looks can be decieving oo. Dem no dey write am for face.:-P

drlawizle:
I'm suspecting you're the guy you're talking about cos this your write-up is enough to make a woman lose interest in you in 1second even if you haven't seen each other

in 1year. Ppl should understand dat there's something called attraction and it has a lot to do with charisma...dats why you see ladies dying to remain with a man while

another man is getting dumped & redumped by the same girl. The girl probably thought you had changed for the better (charisma-wise) but found out you're still the same

boring, low self-esteem guy she knew...hence she's putting you back in that zone...

Here's my advise: Take time out alone to search through yourself...do a thorough mind-check and weed out all the negative thoughts hiding in your subconscious...get

books that help change your mind-set..and by the time you're changed, she will come back begging you & you will realize dat dere are many fish in the ocean & you can

most likely have as many as yiu want. This advise doesn't just work on women but its a life material that makes you attractive to PEOPLE! women, men, gay, lesbian,

children etc.....check out "themodernman.com" for more info..I personally bought the book on "the flow" and can send the pdf to you free if you want it..cheers!

Truth is, am not de guy plsss, its a close friend of mine.
Luv ya advice equally. I think that's the truth, koz the guy is juz a calm dude with no "bad guy" trait.

MzPreshie:
Looks can be decieving oo. Dem no dey write am for face.:-P

Fortunately Ebola is different from HIV in that even if the person has the virus, he/she is not infective until they fall & look terribly ill...now ordinary malaria is a sickness

thats hard to hide let alone Ebola.... Any healthy looking person can't infect anyone even if they got Ebola.

miembamish:

Truth is, am not de guy plsss, its a close friend of mine.
Luv ya advice equally. I think that's the truth, koz the guy is juz a calm dude with no "bad guy" trait.

Thank you for putting the bad guy inquote..ladies dont really like bad guys per say but only that bad guys give them what they want so they will rather settle for them

than a boring, immature & low self-esteem good & good-looking guy.

Anyway relay my message to your friend....the author also got a book on "better than a bad boy"....which talks about being a good guy and still giving girl's what they want.

drlawizle:


Thank you for putting the bad guy inquote..ladies dont really like bad guys per say but only that bad guys give them what they want so they will rather settle for them

than a boring, immature & low self-esteem good & good-looking guy.

Anyway relay my message to your friend....the author also got a book on "better than a bad boy"....which talks about being a good guy and still giving girl's what they want.

Tanx much bro...

Everytn shldnt be related to immaturity,,,every sh*t ppl do shldnt be termd as immaturity,,whr una put individual differences nd attitudes?,,,,,well,,op,tel dat ur frnd wu is formin gud guy to stop expectin much frm d chickz,,,she dey do lik dt cos she knw say his arms is alwys welcomd to tak her bck,,,,jst tel him to play along wit ha,,,,,,I dey suspect say na u sef,,cos I even feel d passion 4 ur writin(d boy,d girl)

miembamish:

Tanx much bro...

Cheers!