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sorry about that if you still love her,please her a second chance and be extral watchful this time around





i spoilt 2phones in 3weeks

Game over!

Expose the 'pastor'. Let people know who they are dealing with.

Stop chatting with the girl. You will never trust her again. Stop exposing your weaknesses with the continuous chats. Free her.

You will miss her. But it is the best decision to take. Forgive her. Take the benefits of a friend. But don't father bastards, you are already well on your way to doing just that.

Sorry.

There are traitors everywhere, when you catch one, you thank your stars and bolt smartly.

There are good and loyal girls. May your God guide you to find a wife.

Be strong.

Pastors of these days!!!! And some go just dey fall yakata for ground in the name of holy spirit. I sincerely wish the members would know about this so they know who their pastor is. Smh

My brother this case is a very difficult one, but that not withstanding I will try my best to advice you to the best of my knowledge. Currently I am in your shoe feeling exactly what you are feeling. My advice for you is this, as you said you still love her, and from what she wrote let's believe she loves you. I will give you 2 options to choose from, the first one is to forgive her and give her one final chance. In doing this I will like you to give her one final warning telling her that if this issue repeats its self again, you will not listen to her even if she cries out blood. The second option is letting her go as you do not want to continue with her. I must commend you for being a very matured guy and not cheating on her as a revenge.I know you don't trust her anymore, but I will like you to allow her earn your trust oncemore. I will like you to advice her to go for all form of medical tests so as to be sure she is not infected.

There is always a second chance. We break up to make up.
It's obvious she realy loves you so try and forgive her and work thing out with her.

If you love her enough then you should be able to forgive her though it may not be easy.

Op,seems you need a clergy to tell you what to do..

This is hard evidence for christ's sake,a good reason to move on.

Though painful,but it will be worth it in the long run.

Just know that as you said, she is sorry because she got caught.The obvious is that you will never believe anything she tells you even if she is saying the truth.Anytime she is away from you you will just be at edge because you are always afraid that she is going to meet another Man.Once a trust is broken,it is like a broken mirror, you can hardly repair it.You may still have strong attraction to her because of her beauty but the best thing for you now is to distance yourself from her for months and clear yourself from the obsession you have of her ,and think whether yo will be able stay with her with all the mistrust that is going to follow if you ever get back with her, because that is going to be a very big source of crack in the relationship especially if you eventually get married

One last chance......that's if you can from your heart!

"Pls dunt leave me i am ready to hit my head on stone tell anifin u want to mk u forgive but pls dunt leave me alone"

Did she go to school? Better be careful but I think she loves you. .

bro....sorry for all this.

I believe in second chance but not in this case,

she has proved that she was never satisfied with you, this kind of lady can kill you.

U were very lucky to have caught her with her lies.

Do not ever accept her. Those begging and tears from her and fake. If you accept her then you are the biggest fooool on earth. Even God will not forgive you. Ur dad was right in not supporting ur marriage with her.

We ladies we are very dubious and deceitful more than the devil. Do not ever allow ladies to play their games of deceit on you. Once you catch its over.

Op, dont bring God into this, he is not even looking at this relationship of urs.so dont feel bad, let i go, free her, dont ever marry her, she can poison you without thinking twice.

If you had lost ur pee....nis in an accident for instance do you think she will stay with you? Never!

The choice is yours,,,...but dont be a fooool twice.

Thank your stars you got access to her fb.


Do not take any action you'd regret later. Ignore the Pastor, her family and 'your girl's' relatives. Do not spread these message(s) beyond this level.

You should be bold enough to forgive, but accepting her is something I will never do if I were in your shoes. As long as you keep thinking about her evil act, you guys would always encounter crisis.

You can forgive (oh yeah!), but who can erase history ke? Move on brother! Single girls love married men Even Nairaland girls enourage it

op love is a scam! I repeat love is a scam!

Forget love and think with you brain. Marry her and get more heart attack from her.

Na ur grave u want enter oooo, if u marry her.

Did u see how she tactically planned the whole game? I tell you, dont ever allow women to deceive you. Once bitten twice shy.

People here telling you its love, give her another chance will never accept her if they were in your shoes.

I am a realist...i advise people base on what i will do myself. Dont let people here deceive u and push u to ur death. Be warned!

Acidosis:
Thank your stars you got access to her fb.


Do not take any action you'd regret later. Ignore the Pastor, her family and 'your girl's' relatives. Do not spread these message beyond this level.

You should be bold enough forgive her, but accepting her is something I will never do if I were in your shoes. As long as you keep thinking about her evil act, you guys would always encounter crisis.

You can forgive (oh yeah!), but who can erase history ke? Move on brother! Single girls love married men

tank u acidosis....thats exactly what i was typing before u pasted urs.

A genuine answer.

Liability:
bro....sorry for all this.

I believe in second chance but not in this case,

she has proved that she was never satisfied with you, this kind of lady can kill you.

U were very lucky to have caught her with her lies.

Do not ever accept her. Those begging and tears from her and fake. If you accept her then you are the biggest fooool on earth. Even God will not forgive you. Ur dad was right in not supporting ur marriage with her.

We ladies we are very dubious and deceitful more than the devil. Do not ever allow ladies to play their games of deceit on you. Once you catch its over.

Op, dont bring God into this, he is not even looking at this relationship of urs.so dont feel bad, let i go, free her, dont ever marry her, she can poison you without thinking twice.

If you had lost ur pee....nis in an accident for instance do you think she will stay with you? Never!

The choice is yours,,,...but dont be a fooool twice.

hug me please



@Op, again do not bring God into this; infact God does not know you, your girl and the redemption player. In so far as pre marital and extra marital ba nging is involved, abeg leave God outta una issue. It is well.

Bro, don't deceive thyself, you're a guy, you'll NEVER forget. She'll never be free, move on.

Did anyone else notice how she wrote in text-speak, in stark contrast to his own chats? This may sound outrageous, but I'm always wary of this "wiv", "kk" boys and girls

Acidosis:

hug me please



@Op, again do not bring God into this; infact God does not know you, your girl and the redemption player. In so far as pre marital and extra marital ba nging is involve, abeg leave God outta una issue. It is well.

@acidosis....my respect for you has increase for you with this ur post.

Take it or leave from my deep research, with the increased demand of pre marital s3x most couples indulge in, i keep telling people, God does not attend marriage ceremonies, which is mostly done on saturdays. Only sundays and any other day genuine service or worship is done for him thats when he is present.

Lets face it, a couple about to wed, indulge in bachelor eve, a final immoral party of beer drinking and fornication. Couple with the constant defiling of their marriage beds before they even walk into the alter to say i do. Is pure deception. God was never there and will never be.

This is not a matter of jugde not that people use to cover their shameful acts. I will give u the truth as it comes.


Op, women hardly change their habits.

Ipledge:

i spoilt 2phones in 3weeks

Pele

[quote author=neuralnets post=27510251]

First, I'll say you need a hug. Congrats you got her facebook trash. You don't know who your girl is digging these days with all these social and chat platforms. I was in your shoe sometimes ago, but I am much younger though, the babe, when I finished university started coming around like angel, but she cheated on me with a friend while in 300l which pained me most cos she came to dig the guy in my school and many more guys(she claims around 21 and I knew it should be 63). worst part, I never had sex with her till after my NYSC and she started forming I love u. This girl can and will kill you, just a matter of time before you know you are dead if you continue the relationship. For Christ sake, a marriage bound relationship and she is sleeping with a pastor for that matter, she doesn't fear God and devil self, how can she fear you. She is deceitful, better stay off. But if you still love her and wanna marry her, Abeg, give her 5yrs of trial, not minding your age cos she is still young and can change anytime. All for your sake.

olukenzo:
Bro, don't deceive thyself, you're a guy, you'll NEVER forget. She'll never be free, move on.

Did anyone else notice how she wrote in text-speak, in stark contrast to his own chats? This may sound outrageous, but I'm always wary of this "wiv", "kk" boys and girls

nice one observation bro, i had to go back and check her replies.

The op should just move on, its too late. Even God does not give a second chance after death.

iyisco2001:

Pele

thank you oo

I'd ve said you should forgive her and give her a second chance. bro I must tell you this girl is desperate.... chop this one fast I'm convinced this is not her first and it will never be her last...

They'll keep breaking our hearts,. Mine left me for her ex. its bin long sha,2011 i just finished secondary school, see i loved this girl, i don't think u know wat i mean, i've never loved any girl like her. i don get admission now, i'm not even sure if i'll marry sef. Cos if anoda heartbreak hits me ,i might die.

This Epistle of neuralnets to Nairalanders too long. I no fit read am finish. The grammar and all what what nearly scatter my head. Anyways, the long and short of the story was understood.

If you want my candid advise as a former playboy now a settled gentleman, I will tell you to leave her with immediate effect. Though it might not be easy. Dwell on all the times that she has lied to you and played you for a fool while you were busy loving her genuinely that might help you overcome her.

Do you know that you are a product of your yesterday's decisions? Meaning that whatever situation and position that you find yourself now is directly related to the decisions you made yesterday?

Now before you is another major decision that will affect your tomorrow. The choice is yours.

OP..
I know u might not agree with me but if u get 2 read my comment..
This is what I have 2 say...

4give, let her go for all the test and take her back I belive she wud b indebted to you and might think twice b4 cheating..

A new Girl might do worst!

U guys shld meet nd talk. Giv ha chance nd b super extra watchful

Una just dey confuse this man. Let him FLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE from this eveeeel

Liability:
bro....sorry for all this.

I believe in second chance but not in this case,

she has proved that she was never satisfied with you, this kind of lady can kill you.

U were very lucky to have caught her with her lies.

Do not ever accept her. Those begging and tears from her and fake. If you accept her then you are the biggest fooool on earth. Even God will not forgive you. Ur dad was right in not supporting ur marriage with her.

We ladies we are very dubious and deceitful more than the devil. Do not ever allow ladies to play their games of deceit on you. Once you catch its over.

Op, dont bring God into this, he is not even looking at this relationship of urs.so dont feel bad, let i go, free her, dont ever marry her, she can poison you without thinking twice.

If you had lost ur pee....nis in an accident for instance do you think she will stay with you? Never!

The choice is yours,,,...but dont be a fooool twice.

FÜCK!! this is the FÜCKING truth. straight to the FÜCKING point.

@OP i have been in the same FÜCKED up shït. You've got to FÜCKING think with your head in this one. With the series of FÜCKING chats, she has seen your weakness; you still FÜCKING care for her. Forgive her, FÜCKING yes; take her back, that's your choice to make.
It's a FÜCKING hard one. Just FÜCKING reason with your head & not your heart on this one.

Eleyi gidi gan o
there's a saying that, "the lies women tell even surprises the devil himself"
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.mods should move this to fp so that our guys would learn from this.
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@farano

These holes ain't loyal

Seriously all girls do this shît these days, especially on Facebook and bbm.
Bros walk away!

Mehn...dis ur post long like longman