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Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Gorgeous58(f): 9:04pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on. Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets. Ladies, what's your take on this? 331 Likes 52 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:u will marry a good husband amen.... Lol i cnt wait for it to reach 200likes,,..lol 329 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Baddestguyp(m): 9:11pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:amen to this too 59 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by julisa2020(f): 9:29pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
you're very correct...@op...and even when a woman works hard to be successful,to her a rich guy is only a bonus..and not a ladder of upgrade... ![]() 78 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by HARDDON: 9:29pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Never knew id live this long to read such words from a female....... ![]() All along, had tot you guys were structured for collecting , fashioned for begging and accursed with trade by bata..... ![]() Had tot u enjoy sitting at home doing Nada and have him work his a33 out while u go on shopping spree with money u know not whence it came. The next moment, they wano tie d guy down with court wedding tins, so as to have legit right over some vast wealth shld he get fed up n wano roll! Had tot beeping his phone was ur thingy (never calling, stingy) Had tot the best u cud ever get for a guy was a pair of second hand briefs for his bday(ONLY!)! ![]() Had tot d only thing u guys got to offer was some punana ( yet they go complaining when he cheats, calling royal guys dogs). Yea sure, he might be so willing to spend on u d first few outings but after hitting it, if that is all u got, he's mos def gon bounce - the next meal awaits No man is a fool. And we all get worked up when y'all go begging for stuffs when y'all can pull stuffs! If u must fight for gender equality, then first fight off ur laziness , stinginess n herbalist attitudes( always collecting) NT: this is by no means saying there ain't this very exceptional group out there(very rare breeds) that supports their men tru good advice n all otherwise 138 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by manutdadex(m): 9:34pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
finally some girlz av their thinkin cap on but dont stop here...distrubute dis cap give as many as possible...some of una dey get bsc to get husband! It is still enterprenrship!! 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:And some men stl force their wives to directly or indirectly become house wives Smh 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Gorgeous58(f): 9:52pm On Oct 27, 2014 |
@ Gbolasky - Why should I click on your link? Pls don't derail my tread...thanks! 2 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
mod una dey misbehqve o |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by caesaraba(m): 8:19pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58: God bless you ma`am. We men are smarter now. Once we find your type, the next thing is a ring on a finger. My rule now is simple, I`ll only date a woman who has a means of livelihood going forward. Thankfully, that number of women is increasing in our society. No more painted-nails,open-hands and ready-to-suck-me-dry-women. 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by initialize(m): 8:19pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
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Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by richardjemedafe1(m): 8:20pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
The said ladies Comment,But I can spot some guys commenting.... I and my wife are 1....so I reserve this Space for Her |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by fitzmayowa: 8:20pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
If only some of our ladies can reason this way...Rather than looking pretty and waiting to jump on the next available/married loaded/rich guy... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:20pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
story for the girls 4 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by olayincar(m): 8:20pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Hmm |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by rattlesnake(m): 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:Thats why after 1000 wives king solomon asked "Who can find a virtuous woman ??" proverbs 31 Aka They don't exist ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Damalex4luv(m): 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
That'll only happen when some guys decide to stop marrying out of pity.. ladies should try to fend for themselves and stop searching around to looking for men who are already rich and established.. build your relationship with your man that's when you yourself will have the gut to attack your husband since you both started from scratch. 10 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Elusive9(f): 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
... And most men now begin to feel insecured the moment d woman is doing so well! Well, wass my own? ![]() ![]() 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Sunnycliff(m): 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
OK naa! Ladies of nowadays, dem no send This story lines 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Insecure men can't handle a woman who outperforms him. So get ready to do a lot of ego-stroking. Source: witnessed and experienced 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by IfyAwazie(f): 8:21pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Nigerian women have being doing that since imo river. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kamez(m): 8:22pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
OP u re sleeping on mouka foam.. Women have already started hustling with their men.. Except the lazy few who will never change. where have u been all this while? Anyway glad u re finally awake Better late dan never 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nelsizzy(m): 8:22pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Finally! A topic that tells ladies to be self dependent. I made FP. #dancinq_sekem 3 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
If every women think like this,it would be the best. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by SeverusSnape(m): 8:23pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Nice one Op, women has many roles to play in this present day and age. Being assets rather than liabilities, Hopefully, my WIFE will be an asset, not just an asset; a fixed asset. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Ucheosefoh(m): 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Op I hope you practice what you preach, we have bunch of liabilities who have nothing to offer rather depends on men for almost everything, I believe it depend on parental upbringing if parents teach their daughters to be contained with what they have and also educate them at young age that she is no man's responsibility until he marry her. When we educate the girl child we build a nation, I have always advice my sister to make sure she works and earn her money without depending on her boyfriend or future husband 6 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by scribble: 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
baby let me be your MANAGER op I remember the story of Job's wife who would rather curse him and suggest he curse God than weather the storm however i like where you head is at. Thats a good place to be. A helper to your man. But some strong men detest this because a woman will now want to be wearing trouser with me in the house and as a strong man in any economy, you should earn ten times your wife...or at least double.... Women are not meant to be providers, so their earning power should mostly pale in comparison to their spouse but in rare occasions where the woman is earning more, good luck to the man 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by morbid: 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
I can't believe I'll be alive to hear a female say this. The ozone layer has indeed grown back some covering. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by dapsy4u2(m): 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:. So this kinda woman exists in Nigeria? Na your husband you go marry!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Anyi3(m): 8:24pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Lemme find something to say since I yaff occupied this plot of e-land Ladies be assets as OP said ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by macpetrus(m): 8:25pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Nice Post.... |
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