Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

u will marry a good husband amen.... Lol i cnt wait for it to reach 200likes,,..lol

Cutehector4u:
u will marry a good husband amen....

amen to this too

you're very correct...@op...and even when a woman works hard to be successful,to her a rich guy is only a bonus..and not a ladder of upgrade...

Never knew id live this long to read such words from a female.......

All along, had tot you guys were structured for collecting , fashioned for begging and accursed with trade by bata.....

Had tot u enjoy sitting at home doing Nada and have him work his a33 out while u go on shopping spree with money u know not whence it came. The next moment, they wano tie d guy down with court wedding tins, so as to have legit right over some vast wealth shld he get fed up n wano roll!

Had tot beeping his phone was ur thingy (never calling, stingy)
Had tot the best u cud ever get for a guy was a pair of second hand briefs for his bday(ONLY!)!

Had tot d only thing u guys got to offer was some punana ( yet they go complaining when he cheats, calling royal guys dogs). Yea sure, he might be so willing to spend on u d first few outings but after hitting it, if that is all u got, he's mos def gon bounce - the next meal awaits

No man is a fool. And we all get worked up when y'all go begging for stuffs when y'all can pull stuffs!

If u must fight for gender equality, then first fight off ur laziness , stinginess n herbalist attitudes( always collecting)

NT: this is by no means saying there ain't this very exceptional group out there(very rare breeds) that supports their men tru good advice n all otherwise

finally some girlz av their thinkin cap on but dont stop here...distrubute dis cap give as many as possible...some of una dey get bsc to get husband! It is still enterprenrship!!

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

And some men stl force their wives to directly or indirectly become house wives

Smh

@ Gbolasky -
Why should I click on your link? Pls don't derail my tread...thanks!

mod una dey misbehqve o

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

God bless you ma`am. We men are smarter now. Once we find your type, the next thing is a ring on a finger. My rule now is simple, I`ll only date a woman who has a means of livelihood going forward. Thankfully, that number of women is increasing in our society. No more painted-nails,open-hands and ready-to-suck-me-dry-women.

If you are a single lady and you flow with the OP's idea.... Let's roll



Contact Init.

The said ladies Comment,But I can spot some guys commenting....


I and my wife are 1....so I reserve this Space for Her

If only some of our ladies can reason this way...Rather than looking pretty and waiting to jump on the next available/married loaded/rich guy...

story for the girls

Hmm

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

Thats why after 1000 wives king solomon asked "Who can find a virtuous woman ??" proverbs 31

Aka

They don't exist proverbs chapter 32 to 100

That'll only happen when some guys decide to stop marrying out of pity.. ladies should try to fend for themselves and stop searching around to looking for men who are already rich and established.. build your relationship with your man that's when you yourself will have the gut to attack your husband since you both started from scratch.

... And most men now begin to feel insecured the moment d woman is doing so well! Well, wass my own? Alhaja's garri now sells for 2naira per cup, hurry while offer lasts

OK naa! Ladies of nowadays, dem no send This story lines

Insecure men can't handle a woman who outperforms him. So get ready to do a lot of ego-stroking.

Source: witnessed and experienced

Nigerian women have being doing that since imo river.

OP u re sleeping on mouka foam..


Women have already started hustling with their men.. Except the lazy few who will never change.

where have u been all this while? Anyway glad u re finally awake

Better late dan never

Finally! A topic that tells ladies to be self dependent.


I made FP. #dancinq_sekem

If every women think like this,it would be the best.

Nice one Op, women has many roles to play in this present day and age. Being assets rather than liabilities, Hopefully, my WIFE will be an asset, not just an asset; a fixed asset.

Op I hope you practice what you preach, we have bunch of liabilities who have nothing to offer rather depends on men for almost everything, I believe it depend on parental upbringing if parents teach their daughters to be contained with what they have and also educate them at young age that she is no man's responsibility until he marry her. When we educate the girl child we build a nation, I have always advice my sister to make sure she works and earn her money without depending on her boyfriend or future husband

baby let me be your MANAGER


op I remember the story of Job's wife who would rather curse him and suggest he curse God than weather the storm

however i like where you head is at. Thats a good place to be. A helper to your man.

But some strong men detest this because a woman will now want to be wearing trouser with me in the house

and as a strong man in any economy, you should earn ten times your wife...or at least double....

Women are not meant to be providers, so their earning power should mostly pale in comparison to their spouse

but in rare occasions where the woman is earning more, good luck to the man

I can't believe I'll be alive to hear a female say this. The ozone layer has indeed grown back some covering.

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

. So this kinda woman exists in Nigeria? Na your husband you go marry!!!

Lemme find something to say since I yaff occupied this plot of e-land

Ladies be assets as OP said

Nice Post....