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Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by abbakacici: 9:45pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Missy89:strong laws protecting woman don't increase men respected for woman is actually reduce it. furthermore the law will not reduce man ego therefore most man might still not accepted help from their wives. i think the only law that will force men to accepted financial help from their wives are strong tax laws. for in American you must an idiot not to paid tax as individual not as couple mores applying for mortgage/ loan as couple sometimes is cheap than applying as individual etc |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gerrard59: One male nairalander thread is equal to the opinions of all Nigerian men ? Generalization a bit much don't you think |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Ilovenigeria:The issue is not making money...it is using it to make more and invest. Do things other than clothes and paintings. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:48pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gerrard59:Lol....during dating/courtship, a lady should avoid being a liability to her boyfriend or rebranded boyfriend- 'fiancee'..but once he marries her, he should take absolute responsibility of her expenses...that's my stand always. I am not in support of a lady being the breadwinner o ....or even earning more than I am, nope...but let her productive for her own good and in case her parents and siblings need her assistance she won't need to be pestering me but allow me do so at my own time 2 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kayangel(f): 9:48pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Nice one Writer. I so much believe in having my own cash because i like to spend my own cash. If my future Prince is loaded i guess it becomes an added advantage. By God's grace i am so on point on becoming an adorable asset. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by herald9: 9:49pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58: sorry, but are you the last of your kind? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:49pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kandiikane(m): 9:50pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
@gorgeous58, Ok, even though I am all up for women working and having their own income but what i want to know is whether cooking, cleaning, taking care of the house, giving birth, bringing up the children, making sure the man is fed and taken cared of etc are all part of the woman being a liability to the man? Or you mean those who sit down and do absolutely nothing but to sit and chop money because the latter are a minority compared to the women earning their income or taking care of the home. 4 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by lizzycutie(f): 9:51pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Good one, am proud to b a supporting wife, mother, sister and friend. Gorgeous58: |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by tommiebuck(f): 9:51pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
well, nice one @OP, but i tell you some men are lazy and gigolos, me ama work hard for myself to be rich, me will never hustle with any man and i wont even collect stuff from any man who is not my father or husband. like i said earlier,me cant hustle with any man o, at the end of the day he will take all the money to another woman,.not all men though. me ll work hard for myself and i will also collecr money from my husband,not because i do not have money but because it is the responsibility of my husband to take care of me. LADIES PLS AND PLS DP NOT DO JOINT HUSTLE WITH ANY MAN O. SOME OF THEM DONT WORTH IT with this few points of mine, i hope i am able to convince you that i am an asset and not a liability. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:52pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
kandiikane: Can't both partner share responsibility, obviously maybe not giving birth part, |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Neldrizzy(m): 9:53pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
naijaboiy:guy see me see wahala oo.... Who b nelssizzy again |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by vislabraye(m): 9:53pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Women should be helpers, but I pray never to be in a situation where my wife will be the breadwinner. Even though I may not provide all her wants, I still should be able to handle my affairs. It's not a good experience for a man to loose his job and depend on his wife |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Ilovenigeria(f): 9:54pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
pcguru1:Don't worry we de invest the money for future use. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kandiikane(m): 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
pcguru1:I don't think you understood my point because I also believe responsibility should be shared but the way she wrote her post is somehow because I am not sure whether she means housewives are liabilties or she means golddiggers? 3 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
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Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Gerrard59(m): 9:57pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
DailyNews: As usual you continue your hypocrisy, Why should she be an asset during courtship but a liability during marriage?. What's wrong in a woman providing 50-50 in the family? What's your problem with Career women? What will you do should your future wife(who I earnestly pity and feel sorry for) earn more than you? As for your brazen hypocrisy, at times I wonder if you're been paid for it. 3 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by abbakacici: 9:58pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gerrard59:actually this is not a Nigeria problem only, men world wide has big ego therefore most men hate to see their wives earning more than them, for example today was with guys (indian, British, German, Arab and Ghanian) in our library a girl shows one Australia series called HOUSE HUSBAND and told that her male friends told her that being a house husband is the worst thing that could even happen to a guy, funny all of us agreed that is bad thing to be a house husband.the only reason we see this more in Asia, south America and Africa is cost of living is cheap and low and week tax regime. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 10:00pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
tommiebuck: lol its obvious you are young, that's a weird way to think, what does hustle with a man even mean ? anyway everybody has their opinions, but you should know not all people will be rich at the early stage, infact why are we Nigerians so materialistic why is so much value placed on money ? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Sammyado247: 10:00pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Please a friend of mine was just offered a Job at greengate specialties Limited and he want to know if anybody in the house knows anything about the company so that he doesnt moves from Frying pan to Fire. Anybody with useful information about the company's attitude/value for staff, promotion policies and general conditions of work should help. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
tommiebuck:No be only take care of you. If u know see one shey na death? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Gorgeous58(f): 10:01pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
kandiikane: Seriously, some women do the later. As for the former, taking care of house chores won't cut it if the man becomes financially handicapped tomorrow. The woman should at least have something to offer when trying times come around. What if she becomes widowed? What then? |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kalimera101: 10:02pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
This is a nice topic. But like some posters has noted, a lot of African men has Hypocrite as middle name. Now a lady says she wants to make money to support her husband and a guy still on the same thread says I can't allow my wife to be the bread winner of the family. I rest my case. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by ONYEBALL: 10:03pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:Are u married? if u have not married yet God will give u a man that will cherish,love and care for u and ur children for the rest of ur life.Amen 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 10:03pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:she collects her savings from d cleaning...as if the man didn't pay rent or even built d huz. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by abbakacici: 10:04pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gerrard59:most men have no problem with career women, as long as he does earn more him because when she earn more than him, she will not be happy with what he is providing in terms of accommodation/ food/ trip therefore she will want to contribute in the family welfare which most men hate which this means he is useless/ worthless because he can't take care of his family need which men have being doing since the time of Adam |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 10:04pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
its hard being a man oh, see responses am seeing here, what happens when the man loses his job, should the man suddenly commit suicide because his wife earns more, i think we will know alot of women's true color when it comes to the stage when the rich guy loses his job, its then we will know what kinda of wife we have, i don't pray for anything bad to happen to me but i hate to imagine my wife resenting me for losing my job and depending on her. we Nigerians sure have a strange way of thinking. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Misogynist2014(m): 10:07pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
caesaraba:I object your statistics! The number of parasitic women are growing that is why there is so much complaints renting the air, if women of today are half as hardworking as our mothers, this thread and my moniker won't exist. |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by DollyParton1(f): 10:08pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
AgapeCharis:I know right. In this age. May God rebuke such man in Jesus name. 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58: You couldn't have said it better, when my dad died, it was our mom that had to bear the whole financial burden, am sure if she married a egotistic person i'd prob be under the bridge smoking crack and replying this message with bad grammer. 3 Likes |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by ELGREF(m): 10:09pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
Gorgeous58:God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by peterpiiro(m): 10:11pm On Oct 28, 2014 |
An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with willing hands. She is like the ships of the merchant; she brings her food from afar. |
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