beauty or behavior or somewhere in between?

Character is the most important when choosing a spouse.

Both

op.....which one do u prefer
















FOR me BOTH

@Raiders
You are slightly dishonest.
If it is a spouse you will cheat on then yes, character.
Sexual instinct has nothing to do with character.
For me the babe has to have both character first but needs to be reasonably hot @ least in my eyes.

BigBashiru:
@Raiders
You are slightly dishonest.
If it is a spouse you will cheat on then yes, character.
Sexual instinct has nothing to do with character.
For me the babe has to have both character first but needs to be reasonably hot @ least in my eyes.

beauty fade with time. Your wife is not going to look hot forever. Character is more important than beauty when choosing a spouse

Walahi u gats dey attractive fa... I wan to be able to walk wit u confidently and send u to represent me whenever the need arises. My spouse is my ambassador.
However if u character is grossly flawed... I will dump wit d speed of light.

@Raiders
Research has shown that girls and women are most fertile between the ages of 19-24 (25 borderline) - for child birth etc low risk of miscarriage. Then again most girls within this age bracket are very good looking (fresh skin effect).

Yes it is agreed beauty fades with time but it serves its purpose in the sexually active years.

Anybody who says looks and age are not important are liars! Thats why even 40 year olds when they want to marry they will go and pick one 23 year old.

BigBashiru:
@Raiders
Research has shown that girls and women are most fertile between the ages of 19-24 (25 borderline) - for child birth etc low risk of miscarriage. Then again most girls within this age bracket are very good looking (fresh skin effect).

Yes it is agreed beauty fades with time but it serves its purpose in the sexually active years.

Anybody who says looks and age are not important are liars! Thats why even 40 year olds when they want to marry they will go and pick one 23 year old.

your original question was beauty or character which is more important. And my answer was character is the most important features when choosing a spouse. Of course other factors like education, beauty, family background, medical background are also important but character should be considered first before considering other factors

I agree with you right there Raiders. Thanks for the input.

If I hv to choose btw d two...character hv to come first before any other things,I wouldn't want the situation whereby after work,instead going back to my house I will be in beer parlour till 12:am!

Good character matters to me first before beauty... My main girl friend have both qualities.

Raiders:
beauty fade with time. Your wife is not going to look hot forever. Character is more important than beauty when choosing a spouse

You're pained because you got dumped by a pretty girl.
What gave you the impression the pretty girls don't have good manners?

BigBashiru:
@Raiders
You are slightly dishonest.
If it is a spouse you will cheat on then yes, character.
Sexual instinct has nothing to do with character.
For me the babe has to have both character first but needs to be reasonably hot @ least in my eyes.

You are very right and on point as well.

VickyyB:


You're pained because you got dumped by a pretty girl.
What gave you the impression the pretty girls don't have good manners?

I didn't say all pretty girls don't have good manners. I said its better to marry a girl with good character than a pretty girl with bad character

Raiders:
I didn't say all pretty girls don't have good manners. I said its better to marry a girl with good character than a pretty girl with bad character

Ok

BigBashiru:
@Raiders
Research has shown that girls and women are most fertile between the ages of 19-24 (25 borderline) - for child birth etc low risk of miscarriage. Then again most girls within this age bracket are very good looking (fresh skin effect).

Yes it is agreed beauty fades with time but it serves its purpose in the sexually active years.

Anybody who says looks and age are not important are liars! Thats why even 40 year olds when they want to marry they will go and pick one 23 year old.

Researches are not always true. I knw someone personally in her early 30's looking 20. People say women age faster but y do u men die quicker If a lady takes care of her self she will look fresh always. Besides, do u know that women btw the ages of 30 and above have more chances of birthing twins? Stay dia and be looking for young fine girls. If she is 30 plus and has good character u better marry her.

Why choosing when a guy can have both

radiorebel:
op.....which one do u prefer
















FOR me BOTH

lovelygurl:
Why choosing when a guy can have both

Me too... Na boat I like

Raiders:
beauty fade with time. Your wife is not going to look hot forever. Character is more important than beauty when choosing a spouse

Its true beauty fades,but I still agree with what BigBash said. At least she has to look beautiful in ur eyes right? Or would u prefer to marry a lady with good character that u have no hots for

I need beautiful children.

Sweet children.

There are beautiful girls with good character but they are very rare. One in 100 beautiful ladies..

Trut:
Good character matters to me first before beauty... My main girl friend have both qualities.

Main girl... what of the side chick

I prefer both with big ukwu sef.

The fact that I want to marry a man with goodly character shouldn't mean I should marry a man who looks like a beast.

djeezy:
Both

Choose one.
To the topic, a man can live with a woman who is not beautiful but can't live with the most beautiful woman with bad behavior. If he tries it, two events are expected: Either the man will die before his time or he will send the woman packing. #ask the elders

Agybabe:
The fact that I want to marry a man with goodly character shouldn't mean I should marry a man who looks like a beast.

hahqahahahaha


*falls from mtn mast*

we all want both
beauty or (behavior , character)
Beauty is for the world
behavior , character, morals and values is for ur happiness
You can help a lady to be beautiful
U might not be able to change behavior , character morals and values

Character+beauty. I need the combo package.

nickz:
hahqahahahaha


*falls from mtn mast*

I hope you break a leg

Hey fellas lets all face it, most of you guys be shouting character character ignoring the fact that a womans looks too has a great role to play in a relationship. most of this urgly girls be hiding themselves under the unbrella of good character, yes beauty the say fades with time but have you ever imagined an urgly girl who hides her true self under the smoke screen of good act buh when she wins ha way 2 ur house and end up becoming a shadow of her self. You know what i mean imagine such a mixture

#urglyplusattitude# i swear it's a hell of a mixture. My freind is a living testimony RODF

Marry Character...

Awho:
Hey fellas lets all face it, most of you guys be shouting character character ignoring the fact that a womans looks too has a great role to play in a relationship. most of this urgly girls be hiding themselves under the unbrella of good character, yes beauty the say fades with time but have you ever imagined an urgly girl who hides her true self under the smoke screen of good act buh when she wins ha way 2 ur house and end up becoming a shadow of her self. You know what i mean imagine such a mixture

#urglyplusattitude# i swear it's a hell of a mixture. My freind is a living testimony RODF

All bad girls hide themselves under the umbrella of good character and church