Got this from a broadcast and thought I should share here, so here we go...

‎1. Some ladies think that acting like a wife will automatically persuade the guy to put the ring on their finger. That is faulty thinking and could lead you into big emotional problems.
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2. Just so we are clear, until he puts the ring on your finger, you are NOT, I repeat, not, his wife. You go everywhere together, hold hands, kiss in public, he introduces you to his friends as ‘my wife’, all that is nonsense until he puts a legal ring on your finger.
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3. You are dating him, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you. Dating and marriage are totally different things. Even if he is engaged to you, that doesn’t give him the right to demand wife duties from you.
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4. Some men demand that you cook for them, organise their apartment and give them sex to prove that you are good wife material. Don’t you fall for that. Any man who tells you that wants to use and dump you. And, DON’T move in with him because that will automatically make you his ‘in-house-mistress’ who will perform all his wife duties for him without the commitment of marriage.
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5. You don’t have to submit to him until he puts that ring on your finger. Some men demand that you should submit to them because you are dating. If he wants you to submit to him when you are not dating, just think of what he would do to you if you are married to him.
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6. Don’t give him your money unless you are sure that you will get it back. If you give him your money because he is a ‘potential husband’, you can kiss that money goodbye because you may never see it again.
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7. Stop giving him your body whenever wherever. Anytime he wants sex, he calls you up, yet he hasn’t put the ring on your finger. Giving him sex is counter productive. Your objective is to get married to him, not to warm his bed. Pretending to be his wife by giving him sex will not make him put that ring on your finger.
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8. It is not complex: if he wants you to perform wife duties for him like cooking, organising his life, sex and all other wife duties, tell him to take you to his family and organize a marriage .Stop being foolish. If he really loves you as he whispers in your ears, he should take you to the marriage registry.
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9. If he gets all the wife duties from you for free, why on earth do you think that he will make you his wife? If he is not ready to make a life commitment to you, he doesn’t deserve any wife benefits.
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10. Protect yourself from emotional and sexual abuse. Stop giving this man what he doesn’t deserve. If he is not willing to honor you by putting that ring on your finger, then he is not worthy to receive wife benefits from you. When you become his wife, then he will get treated like a husband.

Source
‎http://picwittr.com/10-wife-duties-to-avoid-with-boyfriends-1

Wendy do u hav a boyfrnd,?

He broke your heart? c'est la vie

One of the reason you need caring father's and brothers .they tell you stuffs like these right from age 10.

Cutehector4u:
Wendy do u hav a boyfrnd,?

I'm married. Why?

Wendy80:

I'm married. Why?

ok thnk God...... I rest my case....ur safe..

Thread of nowadays self..anyways Op if a girl is in a "real " love triangle she will do all the aforementioned without counselling from anyone.
Trust me..

Cutehector4u:
ok thnk God...... I rest my case....ur safe..

Good

Mutuwa:
Thread of nowadays self..anyways Op if your deeply in a "real " love triangle you will do all the aformentioned without conselling from anyone.
Trust me..

Love triangle how?

Wendy80:

i only wanted to employ my intriguing skills to find out smth frm u but since u mentiond u wr married, dn dr would b no point askn u further questions

Cutehector4u:
i only wanted to employ my intriguing skills to find out smth frm u but since u mentiond u wr married, dn dr would b no point askn u further questions

Ok then

Wendy80:

this your profile picture is funny lol... would have loved to see ya.

You ladies shouldn't mind wendy, u gotta b caReful tho but do not let her make u loose ur man.

Skillfullulu:
You ladies shouldn't mind wendy, u gotta b caReful tho but do not let her make u loose ur man.

nobody is loosing anybody oh.

Wendy80:

nobody is loosing anybody oh.

free am ladies and let em do those chores, getting used to em will b an advantage.

The real question should be,why be with a man undeserving of your care?

I mean, if him giving you a ring is all you care about and the yardstick for knowing/measuring a deserving man, then yawa dey o.

Bottomline is, try to be sure you are with a man who genuinely loves you and every other thing will follow.

It is trying to follow a certain guideline to get the ring that has left many women heart broken, be yourself and you'll have no problems, take care of a man who does same for you, husband or not.

Skillfullulu:
free am ladies and let em do those chores, getting used to em will b an advantage.

I hear U, getting used to them indeed. Anyway I only shared I'm not d author oh

freecocoa:
The real question should be,why be with a man undeserving of your care?

I mean, if him giving you a ring is all you care about and the yardstick for knowing/measuring a deserving man, then yawa dey o.

Bottomline is, try to be sure you are with a man who genuinely loves you and every other thing will follow.

It is trying to follow a certain guideline to get the ring that has left many women heart broken, be yourself and you'll have no problems, take care of a man who does same for you, husband or not.

Yes I agree what works for one might not work for all and what works for all might not work for one.

[size=20pt]No wonder high rate of 30+ single modern day ladies

they're 1000+ women who are ready to do all these and more out there

continue being the indomie gf and watch another woman take your position!! [/size]
PS: A girl who cannot exhibit any(all) of the OPs points is no wife material for me!!

Wendy80:


I hear U, getting used to them indeed. Anyway I only shared I'm not d author oh

aight. May b na ur own bad pass sef, so u don't want others to do d same. Lol

YungwizzzyPt7:
[size=20pt]No wonder high rate of 30+ single modern day ladies

they're 1000+ women who are ready to do all these and more out there

continue being the indomie gf and watch another woman take your position!! [/size]
PS: A girl who cannot exhibit any(all) of the OPs points is no wife material for me!!

confirm but don't use and see em as sex mate.

Skillfullulu:
aight. May b na ur own bad pass sef, so u don't want others to do d same. Lol

God 4bid. My Own good pass.

YungwizzzyPt7:
[size=20pt]No wonder high rate of 30+ single modern day ladies

they're 1000+ women who are ready to do all these and more out there

continue being the indomie gf and watch another woman take your position!! [/size]
PS: A girl who cannot exhibit any(all) of the OPs points is no wife material for me!!

Wendy80:

God 4bid. My Own good pass.

elenu

Since d OP is not d author, didnt d author see dat he kept repeating d same tin over and over again just to drive a point? It shd be 5 points instead of 10.

And its obvious d author is a Nigerian and with a good but myopic mind.

#Smh#

@7. So because he has not given me a ring, I must deny my body's urges abi? Is it only a man who enjoys sex whenever and wherever? Abeg, if you want do am, do am, abi na for marriage woman body dey turn from firewood to flesh?

Just be yourself and never let someone else change you. If a man sees your value and worth and he is ready for commitment, then you guys will make it official.

Nice

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I'm married. Why

kandiikane:
@7. So because he has not given me a ring, I must deny my body's urges abi? Is it only a man who enjoys sex whenever and wherever? Abeg, if you want do am, do am, abi na for marriage woman body dey turn from firewood to flesh?

this post is plain stupid to me, so u say we are engaged/dating, and u won't wash my clothes for me ? Or cook? Because u never see my parents ba? Tah, d way I go use chase u comot my house ehn!!! You go wash d clothes still tell me say u wan iron dem 4 me