Cutehector4u:
U are a matured lady and the only matured advice i will give to u is to forgive him, shun d guy nd move on with ur life....simple...

Cutehector4u:
U are a matured lady and the only matured advice i will give to u is to forgive him, shun d guy nd move on with ur life....simple...

iCool:
Your story made me laugh. That's one bold thief!

Forget the part about making sure you regain your money wetin don loss don loss


Let him know you lost money after his visit and it is not a nice thing.

hizson:
it depends on ur relationship with him...both of you may be so playful that he did it out of d fun of it..if nt then mayb he has other thoughts on his mind

lurex2rhyme:
ist of all hw much did he steal.? secondly u shld knw pple u let into ur home. if is below 5k let him go away wit it.

LogoDWhiz:
You can ask him about it, u can smile while saying it just to reduce tension, do it in an open place but no-one should be within listening distance.
You have to do this to avoid future occurence.

OR you can ignore yhe situation and just be more careful while you are around him.

3cycle:
Amadioha eiiiiii chyker turned thief?
See falling of hand....
Confront him oooo
Infact ask him if he stole or money (that must Be after you've done a serious cleaning and search for the bag ), that way you will permanently get rid of him.

Ole like him...

Agybabe:

thank you. But of all days, why my birthday?

xamster:
@ 1st happy birthdae....the thing iz, since you're sure he took it, confronting him bout it shouldn't be a prob. but if however he denies it, just frree the comic guy & keep arms-length from him.
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if not, babe, next time it cud be ur ATM!!

Princecalm:
Ask him politely if he took money from your bad since you are sure he must have been the one that took it.If he denies it then,it is a revelation that the person you call your BF is not responsible.

Flamesfly:
Lol, just let the money go, bt make d guy know say, your money lost

100Cents:
How much did he steal ?

He is a shameless young man for stealing from a woman..

iCool:
Your story made me laugh. That's one bold thief!

Forget the part about making sure you regain your money wetin don loss don loss


Let him know you lost money after his visit and it is not a nice thing.

Seconded

and in addition, reed yourself from the thief or else he might steal your heart next!

Rexphobia:
Maybe you should tell how much he stole first

Agybabe:

wanna refund me the 7k?

Agybabe:

I have. He pretended about it

Agybabe:

it's more than 5k

Agybabe:
Please readers, be patient and read this long piece carefully then comment.

Yesterday was my birthday and it came with a lot of surprises which was discovered today.

He stole my money and used part of it to give me a treat.

After work yesterday, I went for rehearsals then afterwards returned to my house with no intentions to go out, even though it was my day.

I was tired and needed to sleep. Just then, I heard a knock on my door. I ushered him in with a friendly hug, he was my chyker who was hell-bent on dating me.

I offered him a seat on my bed (no chair). My phone rang, I picked up and answered the caller. It was one of my girl friends, she asked me to meet her outside the compound. I excused myself and went outside.

I returned in less than 10minutes to find him "fake-sleeping" on my bed. I nudged him to get up and with a funny glitter in eyes, he wished me a happy birthday and also offered to take me out.

I declined severally with an excuse that I was tired and needed rest but he succeeded after bugging me.

We went out to a spot, I only asked for a bottle of Snapp drink after he bought suya. After everything, he dropped me at my house and left. I didn't even change my clothes before sleeping.

With intentions of going to work late this today, I woke up past 8am. Prepared for work, but when I picked up my hand bag, I found it opened (maybe I didn't close it lastnight, I thought), I withdrew my purse to get some cash.

Lo and behold! It was missing. I removed every items and shook the purse so that all items within could drop off. Unfortunately, the money didn't drop off.

Then it dawn on me that it has been stolen. Who? Became a question. After putting three suspects on my mind, I analyzed in my head the 3 of them and found out that 2 were innocent because after rehearsals with those 2, I used part of the money to purchase some items. Getting home, I arranged my bag, recounted the cash and zipped my bag.

After seeing my friend outside yesterday, I didn't bother to check why my bag was opened. It was today I noticed that the zip was set asunder. No wonder he had a stewpid glitter in his eyes lastnight.

So he is my prime suspect. What should I do to him? I don't want to confront him because he'll surely deny it, but I'll let him know my money was stolen.

I couldn't cry, but I only laughed in amusement.

Friends, how should I go about it, making sure I regain my money?

My birthday left me with a surprise indeed. He stole my money and used part of it to give me a treat.

Matured advice needed.