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About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 8:32pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
So your boy is finally about to enter into a life of servitude worst of all, im marrying a babe with a big family and im not the very social type a lot of things about marriage scare the bejesus out of me...ahmean the commitment, responsibility, the nagging, etc etc etc im getting married to my friend so that takes a bit of the load off but im a man and u know.... 2 Likes
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Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by merit12(f): 8:35pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Don't marry then Scared of commitment?it means you no ready. Typing |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 8:39pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
merit12: im not sure im scared of commitment, i can commit to more than one person, financially, emotionally, physically etc... i have what it takes its committing to one person i have a damn issue with... my new shawty said she cant believe men like me exist....because of the benefits shes enjoyed as far as stimulating conversation, having her needs met etc she's angry im in a relationship but i told her i still want her and shes agreed to stick around the trick is in keeping all these away from the main boo |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:43pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
My brother you can do it.... Tell urself i am the man....say it out loud seven times... 3 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
seriously, she stayed with you through out those seven years knowing the type of person u are? nawa o. op, pls why r u getting married when u know u cnt stay faithful?? u already even got a second boo..pls try n convince her not to marry u, so that she won't get hurt. don't be selfish, u cnt have her n have other girls, tz not fair. u aren't ready for marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:48pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Welcome to maturity. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 8:51pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Billyonaire: abi o but how do u keep the affairs away from the Mrs. or is she numbed already? id rather my wife lived in a bubble where she is the only one and is truly happily ever after |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by adepiero: 8:52pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
You need to read this before saying such nonsense www.nairaland.com/1982540/ten-10-reason-why-should you can thank me later 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 8:52pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
EroticAngelina: about 5 years ago she asked me if i had ever cheated, i told her twice...when we had just started dating, it was long distance then she actually never said anything untoward...we didnt fight, we went out and had a great day, the next day madam ALL men cheat, the ones not cheating, are only faithful in theory you can take that to the bank and deposit it....its guaranteed. 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by chymystique(f): 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
SMH @ your comments @OP..... I blame the lady getting married to you.... Na una sabi scribble: I disagree with your comment @ the bolded Mr.. I can never believe that phrase in this life.. That's what most of you males say to justify your selfish actions. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble post:SMDH... I sha pity the poor girl you're marrying. 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 8:59pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
MzPreshie: but i told her about my weakness....not my exploits and she nor gree break up i cannot be the heart breaker she dont wanna go |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 9:00pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
chymystique: oh plz tell me about ur wonderful boyfriend/husband that does not cheat |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:whatever u wanna say or think. don't generalize ur actions in all men. some men cheat, yes..but not all, and certainly not faithful married ones who love their wives and don't wish to hurt them. the fact that u told her u cheated TWICE, n she acted like nothing happened z either bkus she doesn't luv u or she's too inluv. my point is ur not ready to commit to her. ur afraid of commitment. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Missmossy(f): 9:01pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Chai! Why don't you stick to your side-chick and free the lady who stood by you for seven years and yet you still have some nasty plans as you settle down. Some women are in trouble! 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by pweetixandy: 9:06pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
I think the opoooo is just here to talk aboiut his new boo..and not really about how scared he is of commitment. U said u can commit to diff women all at once,u said u have a "side chic" who has promised to stick around,u said u can't commit to one woman so u have gotten a side chic. My opinion,this o.p is a man without ball.s and the only way to feel like u are in control or to feel like u are gonna be man enough to handle a woman like ur wife-to-be for eternity,u came to a faceless forum to say rubbish and to talk about how u have a new girl friend. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by chymystique(f): 9:10pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble: Will my telling you change your mindset?? Seriously am wondering why you getting married in the first place?.. You just reminded me of a married man I knw, same mentality..... Anyways its your life and choice. #flex |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:10pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Hmmm,you are following lots of girls...your whatever (the one that is not your supposed wife to be) has ample ukwu...you are not getting married yet... |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 9:17pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
dovelike: to catch a side chick u have to cast many nets... |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:Girl,wetin u dey yan. We pay dowry and gift items given to us by the pride family,return of the lady s fidelity and loyalty. Men are polygamous,any gal that cant accept the fact,should stay single. 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 9:19pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
pweetixandy: pained much madam marriage is overrated, a significant amount of the time, the man is just doing it to make one woman happy and fulfill all righteousness polygamy is the African mans right but una nor wan gree so we go dey code our side chicks dey go i wont be surprised uve been a side chick at some point in ur life 1 Like |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:21pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Guy nothing to worry,it happens to everyone before marriage,it will be fine. Wish you a blissful marriage |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by pweetixandy: 9:24pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:I noh get power untop one pOintless thread..so my brother,I have said what I wanted to. If u like,run commot for house on ur wedding night,if u like sef carry ur side chic put for house. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:Is that enough justification for you to cheat on her, huh? 'I told her about my weakness', indeed, you did well telling her. You deserve an award for being 'so honest'. Mtcheeww. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by LORDI(m): 9:26pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
It's going to be fine,don't worry. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by passionate88: 9:27pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble:When a man says he's scared of marriage, many girls will think it's commitment phobia... I remember when I said same t my friend, his sister likes hearing our talk, when I said that, she also said that it's because I'm scared of commitment... I made her to understand that I'm not scared of commitment, I'm just scared of what marriage might turn the woman into... Nag nag nag nag nag nag.... Every little thing is nag. If I ever meet a lady that's as quiet as my mom nd I then I might just consider marriage... But alas!, they mistake arrogance for confidence. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:30pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
samisparkle24:okay. its ur choice. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 9:38pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
pweetixandy: side chick gets her own apartment she will soon enter UNI she is above 18 oooo |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by PROCTOR: 9:42pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
pweetixandy:.. |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
You not ready yet man.. Maybe you should wait till you are about 45-50. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by scribble: 9:57pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
Re: About To Get Married And Scared Out Of My Damn Mind by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
scribble: At all. |
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