Hi ladies and gents. This is a forum for experiences as well as advice.
Ada was a cheerful lady until she met Junior, he showed her all the affection in the world. Two years into their relationship, they were closer and couldn't do without each other. They had a misunderstanding one day and he slapped her. Said her words frustrated him and made him feel helpless. He apologised and swore he still loved her.
Now the question: is this an excuse for physical abuse? Should she stay knowing we are all humans and make mistakes or leave him since no man should lay hands on his wife or spouse in attempts to beat or threaten her?

you're ada and ya bf is junior



hope the slap enter well well?

Lol, I can't tolerate physical abuse. Even if I am, it must b the reason why am asking for advice. No man is an island

My dear,quit the relationship. He will definitely beat the lady if they get married.
Don't marry such a man. You have no reason to trust me but believe me it's better to be single than in an abusive marriage.
I work with an organisation that deals with abused women. I know what I see, stories that touch...

Ada, let's assume d first time na mistake. If he slap u d second time, u better run.

jashar:
My dear,quit the relationship. He will definitely beat lady if they get married.
Don't marry such a man. You have no reason to trust me but believe me it's better to be single than in an abusive marriage.
I work with an organisation that deals with abused women. I know what I see, stories that touch...

Thanks 4 the advice

IfyAwazie:
Ada, let's assume d first time na mistake. If he slap u d second time, u better run.

Alright, thanks

Run for your dear life

You're welcome.

divAnnie:

Thanks 4 the advice

dechandel:

Run for your dear life

no. Stand and fight. Craze geh

KiddaBlingzz:
no. Stand and fight. Craze geh

Lol
In-Law ..
My own craze no reach your own o..

dechandel:

Lol
In-Law ..
My own craze no reach your own o..

see inlaw-zoning o

i reject every inlaw spirit in my life ! Amen


me no dey craze na

Thank you all for your wonderful contributions. People like you guys are needed to beautify this world
But just wondering, despite all the beating, is it possible for him 2 genuinely love her?

Run like hell. Run like your life depends on it because it does!

God punish any guy mk try touch me

Aizebioje:
Run like hell. Run like your life depends on it because it does!

Lol...
Well thanks, she'll get your advice. Whatever she decides at the end is ultimately up to her.

FLAWLES:
God punish any guy mk try touch me

And I'll say amen to that. They should channel their strenghts 2 men lyk them

divAnnie:

And I'll say amen to that. They should channel their strenghts 2 men lyk them

. I tire oo

Itz unfair

A man dat use his wife has ban is an animal and a wife dat nt respect is husband is incompleted wife to be.

Elinob:
A man dat use his wife has ban is an animal and a wife dat nt respect is husband is incompleted wife to be.

What?

You, the lady cut him to pieces and reduce him to nothing with the only weapon you have and when he reacts with his own weapon, you call him a beast, while you made him one not long ago.

I hate to beat a lady and I hate to be run down by one. that's why I keep my space and I look before I leap with the ladies.

for the ladies, you get what you ask for: you abuse him verbally, he will disabuse you one way or the other.

keep the peace, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, my piece......

divAnnie:
...had a misunderstanding one day and he slapped her.

dat one day would still turn to one decade of slaps if she eventually marry him. Then, he may not apologise again.

KiddaBlingzz:
see inlaw-zoning o

i reject every inlaw spirit in my life ! Amen
me no dey craze na

Excuse you?
When i am married to your brother?
What do i call you then? Ex-boyfriend number 4?

switosman:
You, the lady cut him to pieces and reduce him to nothing with the only weapon you have and when he reacts with his own weapon, you call him a beast, while you made him one not long ago.

I hate to beat a lady and I hate to be run down by one. that's why I keep my space and I look before I leap with the ladies.

for the ladies, you get what you ask for: you abuse him verbally, he will disabuse you one way or the other.

keep the peace, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, my piece......

Don't mind the OP and her supporters club. In as much as I hate violence against women, the OP failed to say exactly what she said or did that lead to the querrel. Some women have such bad mouth that their mouth is like razor blade cutting on your skin. Or maybe the OP slept with her boyfriend's bestfriend.

My advice to guys, please know the kind of girls you hang out with, not girls like OP that will provoke you into doing what you might later regret.

merit12:
Ladies are saying no to WOMEN BEATER since 500ad

A man that loves you will never never raise his hands or belt to hit you. Never

There's a way he uses words,or acts to show he is offended

What can I say in the matters of the heart
Even God gave we humans second chances by sending his son (JESUS)

Who are we humans not to forgive
Give him a second chance and warning .
If he continues (use ya sense)

Op is the guy fine self?

Hmm, nice one there. The guy fyn sha, lol

numericalguy:


Don't mind the OP and her supporters club. In as much as I hate violence against women, the OP failed to say exactly what she said or did that lead to the querrel. Some women have such bad mouth that their mouth is like razor blade cutting on your skin. Or maybe the OP slept with her boyfriend's bestfriend.

My advice to guys, please know the kind of girls you hang out with, not girls like OP that will provoke you into doing what you might later regret.

She only asked for advice. But wateva reason it may have been, does it require violence or physical abuse? #justasking

switosman:
You, the lady cut him to pieces and reduce him to nothing with the only weapon you have and when he reacts with his own weapon, you call him a beast, while you made him one not long ago.

I hate to beat a lady and I hate to be run down by one. that's why I keep my space and I look before I leap with the ladies.

for the ladies, you get what you ask for: you abuse him verbally, he will disabuse you one way or the other.

keep the peace, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, my piece......

Wll I guess its also fair if we apply this rule of urs 2 evn d closest females you have. No matter what, I feel there's a place of balance. He shudn't have reacted dat way, she shoudn't have said wat she said, still, if he had taken d matter in a matured way, dis topic may b non existant

Though most women do some things that deserve being beaten but a good guy should just let it pass,at worse you walk away.To those ladies that has been turned to ping pong already,grab the family JEWEL and press it like he presses your br--st.He will think twice next time.

paulsir:
Though most women do some things that deserve being beaten but a good guy should just let it pass,at worse you walk away.To those ladies that has been turned to ping pong already,grab the family JEWEL and press it like he presses your br--st.He will think twice next time.

Hahahahaha, violence on violence ryt. I wudn't recommend that. Lol

jashar:
My dear,quit the relationship. He will definitely beat the lady if they get married.
Don't marry such a man. You have no reason to trust me but believe me it's better to be single than in an abusive marriage.
I work with an organisation that deals with abused women. I know what I see, stories that touch...

my sister is the organization you work with named put asunder or helps to amend the relationship?