Amuga:
Very much involve in kitchen bussiness abi? He should be prepared to cook the food he bought.

Every man should learn how to cook. We aren't in the Dark Ages.

EfemenaXY:


Every man should learn how to cook. We aren't in the Dark Ages.

The bitter feminist speaking

EfemenaXY:


Every man should learn how to cook. We aren't in the Dark Ages.

No one said he shouldn't know how to cook, we are talking about him making a list of what the wife should buy from the market. In other words he is saying he married a zombie

Amuga:
No one said he shouldn't know how to cook, we are talking about him making a list of what the wife should buy from the market. In other words he is saying he married a zombie

Sorry, I don't get you.

How does creating a list of what needs to be bought translate into his wife being a Zombie? Creating a list / food shopping isn't the exclusive preserve of the woman.

Amuga:
Very much involve in kitchen bussiness abi? He should be prepared to cook the food he bought.

Again, the bolded bit of your post is what I was referring to. You make it sound as though his punishment for making a shopping list or his even buying the food items himself, is for him to cook?

And that's why I stated that every man should learn how to cook. A man who can hold is own comfortably in the kitchen would not fall foul to tired old ploys of "Oya cook your food yourself".

Amuga:
Very much involve in kitchen bussiness abi? He should be prepared to cook the food he bought.

That shouldn't be a problem. As for me, when I get married, as much as I have the time, I wouldn't mind adding items to her list. And as for the cooking, she can't 'threaten' me with that. If she doesn't want to cook (for whatever reason) I'll simply do it myself. I know how to do that very well. You may want to read my comment on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1971465/boy-child-should-also-domestically-inclined#27540153

There is nothing wrong in it especially when the family is not swimming in affluence and the husband may be the only one providing and trying to manage the family expenses to suit with his poor monthly income and may be the wife is not helping matters.Generally everything is on the husband alone,and even the wife or the children all they know is for to take care of them whether money or no money,yet the same wife does not feel the stress of what the husband is passing through,she can write something of hundred naira to be two hundred naira.Or dont you know there are some wives that are heartless and doesnt care about the husbands financial condition and what he is passing through.They believe always on the receiving ends whether the money is there or not,is not their concern.What do you expect the man to do,other than to step in and know how he can be so economical.