francizy:


Well, she seems like the very annoying type but you take/took things too far...

I said what I had to say. She was kind enough to say the rest. She does an excellent job of making the case of her own character.

Thanks for your concern. I feel much better now.

I get the whole gist now, anyways I don't understand why a lady would be hot and decide to go for same sex? Why waste that body when there are loads of hungry male lions waiting to devour you!!?

MissMeiya:


I said what I had to say. She was kind enough to say the rest. She does an excellent job of making the case of her own character.

Thanks for your concern. I feel much better now.

You're welcome, but please do kindly reply my last question on this thread, maybe a pm will do

Tashamania:


nawa!! So, just because he didnt give her a car means he doesnt love her or want a comfortable life for her? This is how you go about spoiling peoples relationship all on the name of giving stewpid advice.. you base your relationship solely on material things? Seriously? what tha hell??

If you don't agree with my statement, it doesn't give u a right to insult me you Peeg.

She can choose to take my advice or leave it. So shut the f up you unreffined excuse of a human being.

she has sneaked away again, ok.

**My ribs oo**
Firstefa abi ki lon pe e, me thinks your story is kinda incomplete.
Abi MissMeiya, how can one's bf have two rides and yet let you a chic he's commited to trek around?
No be clear eyes again oo. Oyee ka te'se ile bo oo!

Insults/beefs/disses everywhere... Its really good to be old, when I was young like people here, I did same too

firstEVA:
she has sneaked away again, ok.

She didnt sneak away, she's just being a better person...

francizy:


She didnt sneak away, she's just being a better person...

ok fine, and whatever.

maturity is not of age

ocelot2006:


I'm pretty sure most of the ladies didn't gang up on firstEVA cos they intend to please the men here (I seriously doubt they even give a rat's tushie about us). The reason for their action is simple: the op ' s reeked of greed, hence the venom.

Btw there's ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG in paying for one's gf/fiancee ' s transport fair. But a car?! Haha, she should tame her long-throat na!

One more thing, if same thread is opened with reversed gender roles, I assure you that reactions will be waaaaaaay worse from same men folk as the op will be called names from shameless man to gold digger to lazy couch potato.

Then you practically nothing about most women, what makes you think most of these girls won't think same if they were in the OP's shoe? as far as I'm concerned, the crime OP committed was not presenting her case in a good manner, forget all the rants you see here, majority of the girls here demand from their boyfriends so don't be f00led, how many of them do you even think are working class ladies? I can bet on one of my balls that most of them are students, so let's try to be realistic when we do things, it's the internet therefore everyone wants to appear perfect when we know that in the real world things aren't that way.

It's not a crime to want to share your boyfriend's stuff so long as you are willing to do same for him, just leave matter abeg.

chineloSA:


If you don't agree with my statement, it doesn't give u a right to insult me you Peeg.

She can choose to take my advice or leave it. So shut the f up you unreffined excuse of a human being.

Man, if you call the trash you spewed up there an advice, then you need to stop posting
please, its a sunday where I am and I intend to keep it holy. Dont push me

chineloSA:


If you don't agree with my statement, it doesn't give u a right to insult me you Peeg.

She can choose to take my advice or leave it. So shut the f up you unreffined excuse of a human being.

cheiiii lol.
Easy ChineloSA. that's her Op to your reply... let it fly

chineloSA:


If you don't agree with my statement, it doesn't give u a right to insult me you Peeg.

She can choose to take my advice or leave it. So shut the f up you unreffined excuse of a human being.

Ah!

ur man?as in ur husband or boyfriend?if ur husband;d cars r still urs, but if ur boyfriend;no need 2 complain...

freecocoa:
Then you practically nothing about most women, what makes you think most of these girls won't think same if they were in the OP's shoe? as far as I'm concerned, the crime OP committed was not presenting her case in a good manner, forget all the rants you see here, majority of the girls here demand from their boyfriends so don't be f00led, how many of them do you even think are working class ladies? I can bet on one of my balls that most of them are students, so let's try to be realistic when we do things, it's the internet therefore everyone wants to appear perfect when we know that in the real world things aren't that way.

It's not a crime to want to share your boyfriend's stuff so long as you are willing to do same for him, just leave matter abeg.

I dey gbadun all ur post for nairaland since mormor.

I wont disagree with you on that BUT nurturing the thought alone is wrong.

I am not the selfish kind of person and I enjoy sharing BUT do not / never act like it's your right to get a car.

Well, I will just be mild on here. If na d days when I still dey vex for u women eh... I for attack the OP like wounded lion.

Let examine the case:

Sex- don't they both enjoy and contribute?

Time- isn't it same as above?

Energy- same as above

Body-- Same as above.

Car-- please mathematically table the proportion biko. I dey wait.

Tashamania:


Man, if you call the trash you spewed up there an advice, then you need to stop posting
please, its a sunday where I am and I intend to keep it holy. Dont push me

See this girl called Tashcrap. If you were closer to me, I could have done something to close that stinking mouth of yours.

If you choose to be second best in relationships don't conveince other to do the same. I have made bad choices in life and I don't wish that for anyone.So don't be Lucifer.

@OP, a man who loves you will do anything within his means and anything possible to make your life easy. Don't listen to Tashmania, she is stuck in a loveless relationship. These are the people who will write to NL compalining about partners after marriage thet don't support them.

If he doesn't get used to supporting you now before marriage, don't think he will when you get married.

DAvIt0:


cheiiii lol.
Easy ChineloSA. that's her Op to your reply... let it fly

she pushed my button.

How are you?

freecocoa:
Then you practically nothing about most women, what makes you think most of these girls won't think same if they were in the OP's shoe? as far as I'm concerned, the crime OP committed was not presenting her case in a good manner, forget all the rants you see here, majority of the girls here demand from their boyfriends so don't be f00led, how many of them do you even think are working class ladies? I can bet on one of my balls that most of them are students, so let's try to be realistic when we do things, it's the internet therefore everyone wants to appear perfect when we know that in the real world things aren't that way.
It's not a crime to want to share your boyfriend's stuff so long as you are willing to do same for him, just leave matter abeg.

No mind am. I just saw the post and laughed. No need to type reply. Women hate each other unfortunately and unless you don't interact with them you would know this. What makes him think there is any logic behind their attacking the OP? Infact let him go through the thread again and see the bitterness and vileness in their posts then compare it to the men's post before coming here to talk about how they are doing it for noble reasons.

iyabodeh:
afi Ese ile na

Lmao!

freecocoa:
Then you practically nothing about most women, what makes you think most of these girls won't think same if they were in the OP's shoe? as far as I'm concerned, the crime OP committed was not presenting her case in a good manner, forget all the rants you see here, majority of the girls here demand from their boyfriends so don't be f00led, how many of them do you even think are working class ladies? I can bet on one of my balls that most of them are students, so let's try to be realistic when we do things, it's the internet therefore everyone wants to appear perfect when we know that in the real world things aren't that way.

It's not a crime to want to share your boyfriend's stuff so long as you are willing to do same for him, just leave matter abeg.

Uh mm....i grew up with some, and I'm married to one, so I think I at least know a thing or two about women. Then again, you may be right, you gals are complicated.

That said, a MAJORITY of girls I know have never made such ridiculous demands from their respective boyfriends or fiancée.. For the men same. Using myself as an example, I owned a car before I met my wife, and got a 2nd from my folks when we were courting. In our FIVE years of courtship, my wife NEVER EVER made such demands that I hand over one of the vehicles to her cos we were dating. Did I take her out for a ride or pick her up from a place or two with either cars? Definitely! But did she make same demands as the OP? ABSOLUTELY NOT, cos of self respect. Same goes for every lovely and self respecting girl I've known.



Btw, What happens if the relationship goes south? I've heard, read, and even seen the consequences (horror stories) of this. Still can't forget one here in Uyo. Dude buys a neat Kia Cerato, loans it to his "lovely" gf. The relationship later turns sour and the girl runs away with the vehicle. Now guys are smart.

Anyway, I'm pretty sure there're some guys and sugar daddies out there who have no qualms giving out cars, but note this: unless you are MARRIED to the man, you are NOT entitled to his cars. IT IS NOT A RIGHT.

chineloSA:


See this girl called Tashcrap. If you were closer to me, I could have done something to close that stinking mouth ofIf you choose to be second best in relationships don't conveince other to do the same. I have made bad choices in life and I don't wish that for anyone.So don't be Lucifer.

@OP, a man who loves you will do anything within his means and anything possible to make your life easy. Don't listen to Tashmania, she is stuck in a loveless relationship. These are the people who will write to NL compalining about partners after marriage thet don't support them.

If he doesn't get used to supporting you now before marriage, don't think he will when you get married.

yeah, right. So he should give her a car and that shows he truly loves her even if he doesnt
smh how people reason.

I just wonder why people would sit behind their keypads and encourage others to quit their relationships for flimsy reasons if not that they are stuck in loveless relationships themselves

[quote author=laroux post=27856596 [/quote] stop acting like you're in for fun when sucking white pusssy is actually your only source of livelihood, gold digger.

ocelot2006:

but note this: unless you are MARRIED to the man, you are NOT entitled to his cars. IT IS NOT A RIGHT.

But is it ok for a woman to let her boyfriend drive one of her cars because he doesn't have any and maybe his place of work is far? Is it ok for women to do this? Or is it forbidden?

firstEVA:
poverty is a disease

Sorry for my first post, I just couldn't wrap my head round your story, but u seem cool... Good luck.

freecocoa:
This thread has gone a long way to show that women are really their own worst enemies, one of the reasons why some men will keep disrespecting the f00lish ones, just imagine ganging up on a fellow woman just to save face/gain favor with the men folk when in reality most of the ones talking crap can't pay a guy a visit without requesting for transport fare, tufiakwa! inferiority complex laced with jealousy is a killer disease.

The day some women will grow some balls and stop seeking approval from online touts who parade their miserable selves as men, that day the men will start respecting you, shediots.

OH SHUT THE FREAKING HELL UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK SMH!

was it only women who commented on this post?
The post was goddamn silly for petes sakes even a toddler will not think in the way she thought.

don't even exclude your name from those list of ladies
who are their worst enemies. this post alone will make guys who read this to think that ladies are materialistic


you really need to work on yourself first before coming here to give advise to others. cause you are not any better

EMEzzy:
Sorry for my first post, I just couldn't wrap my head round your story, but u seem cool... Good luck.

wow, a gentleman, sorry too.

Olaone1:

STOP COMMENTING PLEASE.

STOP!

tell her oh.

she just dey blab since morning

I think this topic begs the question of where to draw the line between what you are entitled to and what you shouldn't demand in a relationship. If both the boyfriend and girlfriend are not entitled to each other's possesions just because they are not married then what about loyalty and fidelity in relationships? Why do people feel they are entitled to faithfulness from their partners before marriage? You are not entitled to take each other's property but you fully expect them to remain faithful and loyal to you alone and not date/have sex with others as if you two are already married......ironic isn't it.

2sexi:
I dey gbadun all ur post for nairaland since mormor.

I wont disagree with you on that BUT nurturing the thought alone is wrong.

I am not the selfish kind of person and I enjoy sharing BUT do not / never act like it's your right to get a car.

Well, I will just be mild on here. If na d days when I still dey vex for u women eh... I for attack the OP like wounded lion.

Let examine the case:

Sex- don't they both enjoy and contribute?

Time- isn't it same as above?

Energy- same as above

Body-- Same as above.

Car-- please mathematically table the proportion biko. I dey wait.

People just misunderstood my post, I only mean that if people in a relationship get to share all the aforementioned, which I believe is way more important than material things, why make an exception for a car?

You used to trek around,wetin U dey trek around for, you dey sells buns?