striktlymi:





Jolly good one..

I'm in a really good mood today

troy20:

well since its building up value here i might as well charge you for that lock.then you can give me your full spec.

How much are we looking at?

ceo003:


.........

This is for you

Ishilove:

Very reasonable specs. Wonder whats taking so long

Its taking this long because I don't propose to ladies who's preoccupation is marriage.

Don't get my wrong, I do want to get married as soon as possible but I don't want to marry someone who is only in love with the concept of marriage.

Currently there are at least 4 ladies who would not hesitate to say "YES I WILL" to me but I can't propose to them.

They are simply not people I can comfortably give my life for. Why have a wife I can't die for?

Mizchief:

I'm in a really good mood today

Ride on pastress...

Your blend of no insults and a touch of comedy is a beauty to read.

I am learning a thing or two about the perfect response to some trolls we have in the religion section.

striktlymi:


Ride on pastress...

Your blend of no insults and a touch of comedy is a beauty to read.

I am learning a thing or two about the perfect response to some trolls we have in the religion section.

If everyone would stop feeding the trolls, they'd have to find a new hobby

Mizchief:

If everyone would stop feeding the trolls, they'd have to find a new hobby

Mizchief:

How much are we looking at?

what are you willing to part with?

I wish I would have grey hair before I reach 30 self….. its cool

Grey Hair is totally Cool.. Started havinq them at aqe 5.. Yeah 5! Now i'm 19 and its much n0w.

killercute16:
Sorry for that...but the way you generalize all of them makes me kind of angry.

I get you but I did since it applies to most.

Onyi42:
I wish I would have grey hair before I reach 30 self….. its cool

Hmmmm.... Careful what u wish for o, U don't mess with nature. She might just decide to serve u a cold dish

striktlymi:


I believe her fear is that its not difficult for me to make a decision to remain single for the rest of my life.

I think babes should be able to tell when a guy is single, especially when the guy does not wear a ring and lives alone.

Anyways, I am quite open to letting ladies know that I am single and searching.

Problem is that I have seen soooooo many ladies who care only for marriage. I need more than that.

Define 'more'....


And why must it be a catholic girl?

urheme:
I actually find young men with a little bit of grey hair very attractive, the grey kind of add a spicy character,
I love it, love it, love it.

Would,t mind marrying one if he can love me and at least respect his grey hair, and not fool arround knowing he is a small boy

I thought you're married

rationalmind:


I thought you're married

Ok, if i was'nt married i would'nt mind.
Better now?

Back in my primary school days, there was this dude we used to call Baba, had almost half of his hair grey, so if ur worried at 35 dt u got grey hair, dunno what u want dt kinda guy to do he was probably 18yrs back then . .. Lol

corisande:
Grey hair on a young handsome dude looks so cool
to me


And Yes! Why would grey hair stop me from marrying a person I like

#Teamgreyhair!

It is part of nature and the most beautiful aspect of it is the fact that it does not alter your handsomeness. I ve stopped worry about my own. In late 30

urheme:


Ok, if i was'nt married i would'nt mind.
Better now?

Yea

striktlymi:


I believe her fear is that its not difficult for me to make a decision to remain single for the rest of my life.

I think babes should be able to tell when a guy is single, especially when the guy does not wear a ring and lives alone.

Anyways, I am quite open to letting ladies know that I am single and searching.

Problem is that I have seen soooooo many ladies who care only for marriage. I need more than that.

I'm not sure I quite agree with you there. I want to believe that the bolded line above applies to people who stay in same locality and must have known each other, albeit separately. Otherwise, that line doesn't apply cos much to my knowledge, more married men meet those criteria as do single men(in some places tho').

It's funny though... I noticed my first grey strand when I was about 18... Hot loads of them now... Funny part is it only gets worse after u try to dye it... Tried it all... Na Small remain I for even use black paint... But heck... Really can't be bothered anymore... It carries quite an air with it... Grey is the new fad.... We all get it someday, some earlier than others .... So I think its just better u let it grow...

I do have grey hair too, I first noticed it wen I was a teeneger..pple use to tink is a dirt on my hair n will alwayz attempt to pick it out..I was alwayz feel Embarrassed..so I form d habit of visiting d saloon on a weekly basis to barb my hair...now I'm older n in my late twenties n I hv a lot of grey hair , I still try to bury dem....bt from d testimonies I read here I tink is time to accept my faith n let nature take it place...I jst started liking me cos I'm special n nt alone #teamgreyhair#

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rationalmind:


Yea

Reading all the updates of striktiymi, as a married person, i am force to laugh.

If he values his freedom and want more than just marriage then he should not marry, marriage itself is too much,

It sucks!!!

It takes a lot of sacrifice, patient, perseverance self denial, faithfulness and emotional trauma for a man to hold his marriage together,

A man is expected to give 100 percent love and expect nothing in return.
To have a happy marriage is not beans atall

urheme:



Reading all the updates of striktiymi, as a married person, i am force to laugh.

If he values his freedom and want more than just marriage then he should not marry, marriage itself is too much,

It sucks!!!

It takes a lot of sacrifice, patient, perseverance self denial, faithfulness and emotional trauma for a man to hold his marriage together,

A man is expected to give 100 percent love and expect nothing in return.
To have a happy marriage is not beans atall

Lol... I'm waiting to read his response to ujsizzle's request that he defines the 'more' in his earlier post. I'm sure that will answer some of your 'questions'. #Really learning a lot tonight#

krispycash:
It's funny though... I noticed my first grey strand when I was about 18... Hot loads of them now... Funny part is it only gets worse after u try to dye it... Tried it all... Na Small remain I for even use black paint... But heck... Really can't be bothered anymore... It carries quite an air with it... Grey is the new fad.... We all get it someday, some earlier than others .... So I think its just better u let it grow...

I bn dy reason to use coal tar o...lolz...Anywy I tot I ws in ds alone...a relief tho...Strtd greyin wen I ws around 23-MY BEARDS ONLY...nt a straand on ma head..7 years on wt no smol patches here and there only on ma beards still....Soyinka surely got marked!

You guys should start a club already

to be sincere i kinda like the attention i get cos of my grey hair..

urheme:



Reading all the updates of striktiymi, as a married person, i am force to laugh.

If he values his freedom and want more than just marriage then he should not marry, marriage itself is too much,

It sucks!!!

It takes a lot of sacrifice, patient, perseverance self denial, faithfulness and emotional trauma for a man to hold his marriage together,

A man is expected to give 100 percent love and expect nothing in return.
To have a happy marriage is not beans atall

Ok, so I had to go through strictkymi's posts to get a clear picture...even stumbled across diary, twas quite interesting and highly motivating.

This marriage of a thing barely fascinates me. I usually joke in the midst of friends I'm getting married by 2035.

The sacrifice that comes with marriage seems like a burden to me. I so much enjoy the freedom of being a bachelor.

In strictlymi's case, I don't think it's an issue of enjoying the freedom. He's just yet to find the one he wants.

Who knows, he might eventually find her on this thread