They love been pampers. Em ladies

men deserve to be pampered juz d way my grl pampers me...

Something like this

it must be vice versa and not one sided

padeolu:
No they don't, they end up over estimating there value thinking they are an irreplaceable demigod .

Keep thinking this way, I bet you will remain single till 40.... No offence

Why is this on FP??

These females want gender equality......so why should I pamper them.
We are partners in crime

To pamper a lady is not an act but nature.
Therefore, its very hurting when you break such man s heart.At the same time;not bad is not bad.

It depends on those involved though. No general standards.

Over Pampering is not good, it is dangerous..

What's ur defination of "pampering" in dis context?

its a two sided coin>>>in a true relationship i believe everything should be done equally and accordingly.
just as men deserves to be pampered, same as the women. just don't over-do it.
IMO, pampering your lover should not in any way be an hindrance towards being truthful.
when you unable to tell your lover how you feel about anything be it pleasant or not, it simply implies *FEAR*. and that shouldn't be so.
With a touch or Love, Pamper, Romance, Care and trust and many more, you should be able stand the tests and challenges that threatens a relationship.
TOO MUCH OF EVERYTHING IS NOT GOOD AT ALL...
BUT NOT GIVING AT ALL DESTROYS.....

smaddly:
Do girls need so much pampering in relationships-isnt it disastrous?
why pamper them so much..is it dat we guys ar afraid of loosin them...we guys just need to limit that and be absolutely truthful with them>>tell them their flaws then proffer solutions>>hopefully they would change.

I don't pamper women.

3cycle:

Keep thinking this way, I bet you will remain single till 40.... No offence

No offense taken. But I said what I felt right as a result of the numerous experience I've had.

Pampering at all is bad, talk less of over pampering.

Over-pamapering is unhealthy for a relationship. I find myself in a situation where I over-pampered a girl initially and now seeing as it's made her immature in her thinking and actions and fucking things up I wanna clamp down on the pampering but now to her I've changed and don't love her anymore. But I'm not going back to pampering her though the relationship is on the brink of collapsing.


Moral of post. Don't over-pamper a girl, both of you will be hurt eventually.

Op, if you hv ever loved then you would know that you can't help pampering your lover...Its a painful experince but you jxt can't help it. Somtyms you need courage to look him/her and sta$p your feet on the ground on a matter. Truth? Love is Pain. Not for d weak hearts but in the end you will be happy you gave it your best shot! **winks*****

AfricanApple:
it can be disastrous. I hate when some is over pampering me, d irony of it all is u can't pamper me forever, so why start now

That's the mistake many of us guys make.

I am a delicate being so I need all the pamper in the world in a relationship.I deserve to be pampered,it is not a crime

smaddly:
Do girls need so much pampering in relationships-isnt it disastrous?
why pamper them so much..is it dat we guys ar afraid of loosin them...we guys just need to limit that and be absolutely truthful with them>>tell them their flaws then proffer solutions>>hopefully they would change.

Like some guys would try so hard to impress ladies.

A guy went and gave his fiancee N1m gift and after wedding, things are hard now. Meanwhile he has no car.

if am pamper a girl, that means i never see wetin i dey look for , after collaborating with u na to change remain o ....
cos all this ladies aint loyal also,
i will be like.........

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InwehAkpevwe:
They deserve it o bt! Most of them don't appreciate it! They c d carin 1 as mugu! Bt dat shuldnt stop u frm caring 4 dem o!

So we should keep been mugu ba

tebirim:
No point. I will pamper my girl, yes i will pamper her, what did you say? Yes i will pamper her She is my baby and deserves all the pamper in the whole world. Baby i will pamper you till we grow old...

Dem don get dis guy I swear

Ladies should be pampered all d time!!

spiceemman:
Over-pamapering is unhealthy for a relationship. I find myself in a situation where I over-pampered a girl initially and now seeing as it's made her immature in her thinking and actions and fucking things up I wanna clamp down on the pampering but now to her I've changed and don't love her anymore. But I'm not going back to pampering her though the relationship is on the brink of collapsing.


Moral of post. Don't over-pamper a girl, both of you will be hurt eventually.

My situuation is same as urs and i thank God its abouut to end. At least i now know whom am dealing wif

I've not learnt how to pamper anyone. I think maturity needs no pampering. Don't misunderstand me, being romantic is different from being a 'pamperer'.

The over pampering of ma ex made her lazy kai
I gat wash for her, cook for her buy sometin for her even bath her
Honestly I spoilt dat gal
Truout her stay with me she no even sweep huz even to cook common indomie na war
She go be like
Baby amu hungry****goan cook nah
No do it for me kai imagine
All she does is lyn down and press fone
But na one kind bad prayer warrior oh

padeolu:
No offense taken. But I said what I felt right as a result of the numerous experience I've had.

Pampering at all is bad, talk less of over pampering.

You pampered your woman yet she left?
Hmmmm may be you were doing somethings wrongly.

exthar87:
I am a delicate being so I need all the pamper in the world in a relationship.I deserve to be pampered,it is not a crime

The way u gals use d word deserve sef, whats makes you deserve it, What r u giving back in retuurns. Gals are just selfish beings

Why would I pamper a girl?For what reason??