chimerase2:
The over pampering of ma ex made her lazy kai
I gat wash for her, cook for her buy sometin for her even bath her
Honestly I spoilt dat gal
Truout her stay with me she no even sweep huz even to cook common indomie na war
She go be like
Baby amu hungry****goan cook nah
No do it for me kai imagine
All she does is lyn down and press fone
But na one kind bad prayer warrior oh

3cycle:

You pampered your woman yet she left?
Hmmmm may be you were doing somethings wrongly.

smaddly:
Do girls need so much pampering in relationships-isnt it disastrous?
why pamper them so much..is it dat we guys ar afraid of loosin them...we guys just need to limit that and be absolutely truthful with them>>tell them their flaws then proffer solutions>>hopefully they would change.

Kachisbarbie:


__ I can't categorically say it's good or bad, I think a lot depends on the PAMPERED/PAMPERER , and the level of pampering, a little - not too much - and as @ when due is recommended...lol

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It could make the pampered lazy/dependent.
It can also make the 'PAMPERED' egoistic i.e, she might take undue advantage of it and start making illicit demands , this wouldn't be good for your(Pamperer) health...because you would start to bother too much,
__ what can I do to please her?
__would she prefer Iphone 6 or BB-passport?
__she said she wants a jeep, but I can only afford an EOD now : do I borrow to make it up?

@this point, you start loosing it__ not good @all.

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OR
It could totally irk the pampered, this is where I fall into. If I fall, tell me sorry and move on __ the moment you say that sorry thrice - you might see my bad character that I try so hard to package. ...but I'm used to being mega-pampered now___ I'm stuck with that kinda man, I just had to adapt.

padeolu:
..or maybe they don't deserve to be pampered.

Being blunt has been working for me ever since then.

3cycle:

Calm down....
Its obvious you haven't found the one yet, but being blunt and harsh won't get you a girl either.
So retrace your step bck to where you got it wrong and start making efforts to keep a girl by learning the basics of pampering.

hadunihade:

Dem don get dis guy I swear

3cycle:

Nawao Chime also get girlfriend.
Smh

laroux:
@op girls actually vary. If you're talking about Caucasians, Latinos and Asians then yes you should pamper them cos they know what love and relationships entails. They know what it means to live someone and they will make your life very easy and worth living. But on the other hand, their Nigerian counterparts are nothing but pile of faeces. Nigerian girls will make your life very miserable cos they are all hoes, ex prostitutes and potential prostitutes. All they know is free food, recharge cards, Brazilian hair, blackberry and the front sit of a man's car cos that's their life worth. While some of the sensible ones amongst these harlots are getting engagement and wedding rings, the others are busy getting recharge cards. Do yourself and don't try pampering a Nigerian girl. The only thing they understand is a good whopping. A very good beating if she goes out of line. If you pamper her she will see you as a fool. If you pamper her she will call you a weak man in the midst of her friends. But on the other hand, if you beat her whenever she misbehave, she will adore you. She will see you as a demigod and will worship the ground you walk.

Obinoscopy:
You are an exception hun. I will not only over-pamper you, I'd super-pamper you .

3cycle:

Calm down....
Its obvious you haven't found the one yet, but being blunt and harsh won't get you a girl either.
So retrace your step bck to where you got it wrong and start making efforts to keep a girl by learning the basics of pampering.

padeolu:
...then you have to be my tutor.

laroux:
@op girls actually vary. If you're talking about Caucasians, Latinos and Asians then yes you should pamper them cos they know what love and relationships entails. They know what it means to live someone and they will make your life very easy and worth living. But on the other hand, their Nigerian counterparts are nothing but pile of faeces. Nigerian girls will make your life very miserable cos they are all hoes, ex prostitutes and potential prostitutes. All they know is free food, recharge cards, Brazilian hair, blackberry and the front sit of a man's car cos that's their life worth. While some of the sensible ones amongst these harlots are getting engagement and wedding rings, the others are busy getting recharge cards. Do yourself and don't try pampering a Nigerian girl. The only thing they understand is a good whopping. A very good beating if she goes out of line. If you pamper her she will see you as a fool. If you pamper her she will call you a weak man in the midst of her friends. But on the other hand, if you beat her whenever she misbehave, she will adore you. She will see you as a demigod and will worship the ground you walk.

Smartiegurl:
please do well to lecture him.

Dr2great:
i don't like slim ladies

3cycle:

No please, I have enough students already.

chimerase2:
height of insult
I dn die chai bicyle
U way get boi frnds u fit allow me way de babeless rest?
Mind u ma name is not chima

3cycle:

Padeolu I got you a new teacher, smartie sweet pls do the needful

carlos1:


The way u gals use d word deserve sef, whats makes you deserve it, What r u giving back in retuurns. Gals are just selfish beings

3cycle:

Padeolu I got you a new teacher, smartie sweet pls do the needful

padeolu:
lol.. Thanks sis.

Smartiegurl: hi, I hope 3cycle has brief u on you job description. :d

3cycle:

Sorry, I just found your comments amusing.
So u get girlfriend before?
Nawao

Kachisbarbie:


Aii...Why exactly are you telling me, Sir

laroux:
@op girls actually vary. If you're talking about Caucasians, Latinos and Asians then yes you should pamper them cos they know what love and relationships entails. They know what it means to live someone and they will make your life very easy and worth living. But on the other hand, their Nigerian counterparts are nothing but pile of faeces. Nigerian girls will make your life very miserable cos they are all hoes, ex prostitutes and potential prostitutes. All they know is free food, recharge cards, Brazilian hair, blackberry and the front sit of a man's car cos that's their life worth. While some of the sensible ones amongst these harlots are getting engagement and wedding rings, the others are busy getting recharge cards. Do yourself and don't try pampering a Nigerian girl. The only thing they understand is a good whopping. A very good beating if she goes out of line. If you pamper her she will see you as a fool. If you pamper her she will call you a weak man in the midst of her friends. But on the other hand, if you beat her whenever she misbehave, she will adore you. She will see you as a demigod and will worship the ground you walk.

tranxo:
lol