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Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by teenagetalks(f): 7:32pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Alway pamper your babe,nothing is wrong with that. Visit#www.teenagerta..com |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by freecocoa(f): 7:34pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Everyone deserves some pampering here and there, not only women get pampered you know. |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by TheGreyKnight(m): 7:43pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Dont Pamper! Worse,never overpamper.Do it once in a blue moon,like when she does something for you that you appreciate(this will make her do more).In all relationships,one person is more invested than the other.The less interested one has more power,and that SHOULD be the man,for a healthy relationship.But when a woman has more power in the relationship,she gradually loses her respect for her man;this makes the man try to compensate by overpampering her,thus making things worse. Hence only pamper her if she sees you as dominant,full of value and above her.Dont pamper her at the dawn of the relationship,but gradually.This will make her say the relationship is just getting better and better.But if you start at once,you will definitely burn out eventually,and she will say:"He is not like he was at the beginning.This relationship is dying." 4 Likes |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Freest(m): 7:44pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
laroux:I actually thought men like this had gone extinct! So men like this still exist ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Nwedy(f): 7:47pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
I like to be pampered but I don't have a pamperer ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by StealthyMe(m): 7:49pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
On a lighter note, why all this talk about pampers naa? Are they new borns that need to be pampered ![]() ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Freest(m): 7:53pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Nwedy:Hope you wouldn't mind if i pamper you ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by darlenese(f): 8:04pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
This Op does not know the worth of a woman! I do not blame him because it seems he didn't grow up in an enviroment where a woman is being maltreated ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
smaddly:losing...everyone should modify. |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by simdam500(m): 8:08pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
who cares ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Guardianangel: 8:09pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
mesoade:correct guy! all you guys saying no pampering...i bet you, for your own very eyes ur woman will slip away. if you as her man cannot do it then let real men help you do the job. To pamper is a sign of love and datz what the Holy book enjoins the man to do. period! 1 Like |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Zaikon(m): 8:09pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
It realy ok but 4 d galz who deservd 2 be pampard, coz most galz abuse it. |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by YourCrush: 8:09pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Maturity! U r matured dear. 94% of nigerian ladies r nt tinking dis way. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by piagetskinner(m): 8:11pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
I don't pamper u, u don't pamper me....EVERYBODYs happy #das all |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by bukatyne(f): 8:16pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
I thought the OP talked of pampering both ways: when did it suddenly become a man to a woman thingy? ![]() @Topic: pampering both ways is good for a healthy relationship. This is however dependent on both parties Study your man; study your woman and know what they like ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by nomabeeee(f): 8:18pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
mesoade:plss tell them o ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Sunymoore(m): 8:31pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
3cycle:If and only if he's a broke assss nigga. Hoes are cheap. |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Freest(m): 8:32pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Sunymoore:What are you saying sef ![]() |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Sunymoore(m): 8:42pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Freest:I'm basically saying, if the dude got cash, hoes will be all over him even if he do not a fuvk about 'pampering' as opposed to what the lady said. Kapish? |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by dolphinshelters(m): 8:46pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Yemisi pls let me pamper you. you look pamperable.... |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Kasieze(m): 8:48pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
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Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Spidermon: 8:50pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
If I carry babe go restaurant and I ask her what she would take and she come dey form dey talk say she no dey hungry and she expects me to beg her to eat on top my money?? The hunger wey go fire her don dey take steroids dey gym join. The only time I pamper women is during pre-intimacy |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Sunymoore:Well bleep as many as you can and please don't quote me next time to spew thrash. |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Tymax(m): 9:02pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
3cycle:I know u will always support the woman. No matter what. Keep it up |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by kandiikane(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
MizMyColi: I agree except the going out of his way. When I love/care for someone I will go out of my way to make them happy that's just how I am naturally and that is just how i see it and I expect the same in return. Now, everyone is different, I have been with someone who loves but has never been the one to make that 'effort' and I have been with someone who loves and goes all out for me. There is nothing wrong with a man who has his limits to what he would do for someone he loves but he just has to do that with someone who doesn't mind. You shouldn't go off at those who believe that a loved one should go out of their way to make them happy. I knew someone who liked to be treated like a 'king', I gladly met his needs because he would never hesitate to do the same for me. We all should treat people how we want to be treated. It's not just women who like being pampered, any sane human with emotions does. If your statement is talking about women who take take take but never give then I agree with everything. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Pamper your babe o oo, why Else do you call her baby!! 2 Likes |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
That you pamper your babe dosen't make u insecure, it just goes to show u value her, but it doesn't mean you shouldn't tell her when she's flawed, that would contradict the whole point* |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by holatin(m): 9:28pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
at least it better than beating or nagging |
Re: Pampering Of Guys/Ladies In Relationships-isnt It Disastrous? by laykhorn(m): 9:38pm On Nov 11, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: you just cant help but to love this lady for her intelligent contributions and even her overall intellect. Too bad she is taken ready |
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