| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by OmoEziokwu: 2:52am On Nov 12, 2014 |
That was silly of you. I hope you've learnt your lessons. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by tiswell(m): 5:30am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Op,u seem to be too nice,instead of being nice,and that is wat most categorize as FRIENDZONE...MEN are not emotional by nature,dey r logical,become less emotional with ladies and save ya self from further *stories that touches*** |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by tiswell(m): 5:31am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Op,u seem to be too nice,instead of being nice,and that is wat most ladies categorize as FRIENDZONE...MEN are not emotional by nature,dey r logical,become less emotional with ladies and save ya self from further *stories that touches*** |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 9:23am On Nov 12, 2014 |
cooljoe:
o babes, u must forgive me, I sent d mail only to discover t got stuckk somwhere in limbo. I luv u too much to leave u hanging Its fine. No problemo. Sure thing |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Thavik(m): 9:46am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Shiiit, this is the reason why i amrude, confident, charming, I make girls feel like they are replaceable, cos they are..@ op, don't be sad, from you previous posts, it seems you still believe in the traditional ways or should I say the Hollywood induced ways of wooing girls, bro its all not true, just being a confident guy with stuff to do is good enough..i don't ask girls out, I talk to them like normal human beings, tell them I like their body, and make them give me a reason to like them for their personality, if u want to learn, reply, I will guide u through. You don't have to be a player, just when you learn these stuffs,you can get a girlfriend. P.s. I'm not selling any product, I just feel for the op, its really annoying how girls behave 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by cooljoe(m): 10:06am On Nov 12, 2014 |
MrsBreezy:
Its fine. No problemo. Sure thing my baby, good morning. How r u today, hoe ur good. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 10:50am On Nov 12, 2014 |
I'm also bold and assertive.. I've never been shy in the presence of a girl... I've always been clear on what I want and I've never initiated 'friends with benefits' with any girl cus I hate wasting my time.. I must confess I do play around most times but when am serious,, am serious! This chick in particular just acted a perfect wife material towards me and I fell for it......... Thavik:
Shiiit, this is the reason why i amrude, confident, charming, I make girls feel like they are replaceable, cos they are..@ op, don't be sad, from you previous posts, it seems you still believe in the traditional ways or should I say the Hollywood induced ways of wooing girls, bro its all not true, just being a confident guy with stuff to do is good enough..i don't ask girls out, I talk to them like normal human beings, tell them I like their body, and make them give me a reason to like them for their personality, if u want to learn, reply, I will guide u through. You don't have to be a player, just when you learn these stuffs,you can get a girlfriend. P.s. I'm not selling any product, I just feel for the op, its really annoying how girls behave |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 11:05am On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.
Wailing like Bob marley's wailers. A girl occupied the deepest part of your heart and you played a game with her?hehehehe You lost the game and want to blame the girl, which fuji musician did you plan to hire? Serenade for how naw? Why didn't you drop your ego and tell your player friend to back off look who is wailing now  When you play with what you want, this is what you get. You even allowed your player friend to use something you claim you treasure abeg stop the joke. A good story to pass along the message that girls love players and good guys are mugus. They deceive una sef. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by 100Cents: 11:06am On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
say whatever you want... We're like brothers.. I've got no ish with him, we've spoken and we cool.
I was just so into this girl and am sad he's just using her for pleasure when she could be getting assurance with me....... Her decision though.
And concerning being a player............. Its never been my thing!
But have learnt my lesson.
So what are you gonna do now ? Be a player ? |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 11:27am On Nov 12, 2014 |
tiswell:
Op,u seem to be too nice,instead of being nice,and that is wat most ladies categorize as FRIENDZONE...MEN are not emotional by nature,dey r logical,become less emotional with ladies and save ya self from further *stories that touches*** it appears that being NICE to a lady has become a sin.. But have always avoided it......... Am only nice to girls I like and hardly pay attention to those I have no interest in.. That explains the the reason I keep getting advances from girls I don't like.. I've learnt my lesson! |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by arimahoseloka(m): 11:35am On Nov 12, 2014 |
My guy women are not worth the stress. Stop working so hard 2 please them. they don't value men that fall over themselves to have them 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 11:42am On Nov 12, 2014 |
andromida:
Wailing like Bob marley's wailers. A girl occupied the deepest part of your heart and you played a game with her?hehehehe
You lost the game and want to blame the girl, which fuji musician did you plan to hire? Serenade for how naw? Why didn't you drop your ego and tell your player friend to back off look who is wailing now When you play with what you want, this is what you get. You even allowed your player friend to use something you claim you treasure abeg stop the joke.
A good story to pass along the message that girls love players and good guys are mugus. They deceive una sef. look here.. There's something we guys don't beg for.. And asking a pal to free a girl for you is part of the DON'ts! Do you know how degrading it is? Especially if its a girl you wanna get serious with.. If after you succeed in winning the girl, he's not gonno respect your relationship,, he'll be like '' you got her because I allowed you to''.. You're a girl and I don't expect you to understand this......... We can ask for anything, but definitely not matters involving a relationship with a girl.. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by agrovick(m): 11:46am On Nov 12, 2014 |
girls ehnnnnn. enough said |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by agrovick(m): 11:51am On Nov 12, 2014 |
Thavik:
baba, make I learn some things frm u na |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 11:58am On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
look here..
There's something we guys don't beg for.. And asking a pal to free a girl for you is part of the DON'ts!
Do you know how degrading it is?
Especially if its a girl you wanna get serious with..
If after you succeed in winning the girl, he's not gonno respect your relationship,, he'll be like '' you got her because I allowed you to''..
You're a girl and I don't expect you to understand this.........
We can ask for anything, but definitely not matters involving a relationship with a girl..
OK learning just a gal so don't get all this macho stuff. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 12:25pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
this is the fundamental problem with christianity...
I for one am permanently releasing myself from these judeo christian injunctions!
What women respond to is bad boy, sex before marriage, hard to get, already married and non of the courting non-sense prescribed by religion.
Stories like this are self evident assurance of my non belief in monogamy, marriage, sex before marriage avoidance (im not too keen on sex anyway), replaceability of women at all times once they no longer serve my purpose. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Obalende:
this is the fundamental problem with christianity...
I for one am permanently releasing myself from these judeo christian injunctions!
What women respond to is bad boy, sex before marriage, hard to get, already married and non of the courting non-sense prescribed by religion.
Stories like this are self evident assurance of my non belief in monogamy, marriage, sex before marriage avoidance (im not too keen on sex anyway), replaceability of women at all times once they no longer serve my purpose.
this has nothing to do with Christianity nor religion.. And it seems you're so stressed on se+x and multiple satisfaction.. There are more important things than those.. And besides, you've got the right to choose your religion so do not castigate a religion because you're unable to abide by its precepts. The end is all that tells. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 12:44pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
this has nothing to do with Christianity nor religion.. And it seems you're so stressed on se+x and multiple satisfaction..
There are more important things than those..
And besides, you've got the right to choose your religion so do not castigate a religion because you're unable to abide by its precepts.
The end is all that tells. I am not castigating religion. I am just saying that if you have Mr John a Christian who reads his bible etc. the bible is all for no sex before marriage, monogamy, courting, one man to one woman, treat women like angels, do not replace women etc. All I am saying is a guy going into the dating world with this mindset is doomed because women respond positively only to the opposite traits you must display to succeed. Go and chase women with marriage intent and see what will happen. Then go and chase them with a take it or leave it attitude with a bit of harshness and they respond much better. My take is women should be dealt with a religious compass (but not religion alone as you WILL get burnt), a biological compass (understanding what really works with women and the biological and hormonal activities involved in mating, natural selection, darwinism) and a sociological compass (dominance, alpha traits etc) 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
cooljoe:
my baby, good morning. How r u today, hoe ur good. Good afternoon to you... Yeah I'm good thanks and you? |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by mikolo80: 1:24pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
I really feel sad posting this..
months ago I met this girl which seemed to be worth my time.. She was good looking, intelligent and decent.- basic criterias I needed to settle down with a lady.
I approached her and stated my intention,, she didn't give me a yes/no..
She said she would consider it......... Cool! As a gentle guy, I didn't dispute her decision but neither did I give up effort to convince her to accept my proposal.
weeks into wooing and tryna win the heart of this girl, my very close friend visited me at my apartment and we started gisting.
The dude naturally is a player, and he lives somewhat promiscously..
We talking about someone that changes girls like sanitary pad!
As we started talking I asked him about his latest conquest and he told me he told me he's planning to run a girl he met on Facebook days ago..
He further went ahead to show me her photos.. Talking a glance at the picture of the girl, I went mute! This is the same girl have been wooing since for 'weeks'!..
He asked why I seemed shocked and I told him am also interest in the same girl. He laughed, but I wasn't laughing... Believe me guys,, I really liked this girl, I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.
Each time my friend came over to visit, and the subject about the girl ensueds, he just laughs and tell me he can still leave the girl for me if I ask him to.. Seriously, if not for the fact we've been friends for ages, I would smatch his face..
I know for certain this guy wasn't making any effort to win this girl, he has never spent more than 5K for a chick before bedding her.. Sometimes the girl in question would call him and he would ignore, he would show me over 15 of her missed calls yet this girl never called me one day or else when she needs help with her school work or money..
I once lied I was sick and all she said was 'sorry'.. And visited me for 30 minutes and told me she didn't wanna contract my flu and she zoomed off!
To cut the story short, just some hours ago my Friend called and said he has bleeped the girl!
I didn't believe what he said..
Then he sent me voice notes of his conversation with the girl and also gave me his password to check his chat with the girl on Facebook..
This girl is a bleep+in piece of sh+t!
What made me angry was their s.ex chats, this girl gat no shame.. Her nude photos were all over my friend's PM's and yet i thought she was decent...
You can't imagine how angry I am right now.. I really feel like heading to the girl's house and give her a piece of my mind..
She left me (who was willing to love truly) and went for a player..........................
Infuriating enough, this my useless friend is cute, but am cute as well!
Are girls really so into players than those who really wanna take them seriously?
Honestly, I'm pissed!
yea its science sorry but bad guys always get the girl |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by mayorkyzo: 1:30pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Don't be sad man..you ain't got game..lols 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Booty4me: 1:46pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Op am sorry to say this .. But you are a dullard for spending your money on a girl..
Girls don't respect guys who spend on them.. Stop this act.. They will think ur not responsible
That ur friend is the #man of the year 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by lekropasky(m): 1:50pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
I smell fp here.... |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Booty4me:
Op am sorry to say this .. But you are a dullard for spending your money on a girl..
Girls don't respect guys who spend on them.. Stop this act.. They will think ur not responsible
That ur friend is the #man of the year Buh he's only gonno play with her.. How's that an achievement? |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 3:00pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins
You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).
It may help you to recall that humans are primates.
hope this helps. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 3:18pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Obalende:
sosalekins
You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).
It may help you to recall that humans are primates.
hope this helps. not really but thanks anyway.. I've never dated a girl out of sex cus I don't think its fair.. Am just gonno move on concerning the girl. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Obalende:
sosalekins
You are being logical while the woman is responding to attractive triggers for mating (biology).
It may help you to recall that humans are primates.
hope this helps. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Obalende: 3:25pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
not really but thanks anyway.. I've never dated a girl out of sex cus I don't think its fair.. Am just gonno move on concerning the girl. Herein lies the problem. I have had a girl tell me before she was looking for a "sex activity partner"... i dont judge because sex is natural and desirable to most females. they want a good bang! The biggest mistake guys make is not realize that babes also desire sex strongly, you are doing the women a great disservice if you just want a "fair relationship". Women sometimes cheat in marriage too because they are not getting good sex. Bottom line, forget fairness, even just kiss the babe initially (they will appreciate this more than your initial gifts) to show sexual interest then extend it to long term relationship. this has always worked for many guys. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Fkhalifa(m): 3:27pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
op, most of the players you see out there including your friend started with this type of your story...
when you hear the ladies say i want a cool,nice,good man etc listen to them not,its a different ball game out there...
hope you have learnt one or two things from this experience. |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
sosalekins:
I really feel sad posting this..
months ago I met this girl which seemed to be worth my time.. She was good looking, intelligent and decent.- basic criterias I needed to settle down with a lady.
I approached her and stated my intention,, she didn't give me a yes/no..
She said she would consider it......... Cool! As a gentle guy, I didn't dispute her decision but neither did I give up effort to convince her to accept my proposal.
weeks into wooing and tryna win the heart of this girl, my very close friend visited me at my apartment and we started gisting.
The dude naturally is a player, and he lives somewhat promiscously..
We talking about someone that changes girls like sanitary pad!
As we started talking I asked him about his latest conquest and he told me he told me he's planning to run a girl he met on Facebook days ago..
He further went ahead to show me her photos.. Talking a glance at the picture of the girl, I went mute! This is the same girl have been wooing since for 'weeks'!..
He asked why I seemed shocked and I told him am also interest in the same girl. He laughed, but I wasn't laughing... Believe me guys,, I really liked this girl, I made up my mind the moment I saw her that she was the one for me.. I was ready to be with only her alone.
I asked if he really liked the girl and he told me bluntly that he only wants her #kini. ... He further asked if he should leave the girl for me,, his statement actually angered me.. I've never begged to have a girl neither would I stoop so low to beg my friend to free a girl for me.. What crap!
I told him its gonno be a fair try though I was the first to meet her,, I told him he's free to make advances at the girl and whosoever she chooses, the other just has to let go.. He laughed and agreed and we both insisted not to mention that we are both friends to the girl!
Honestly speaking I've never been a womanizer, if am real about a girl, am real! Is her and no one else.. And this particular girl had occupied the deepest part of my heart.. I officially became a mugu.. I would buy her presents, subscribe her BIS even if my MTN internet bundle is remaining 5mb.. At a point I was thinking about hiring a musicIan to Serenade her (yeah, I liked her like that).. I wasn't really doing this because I feared loosing her to my friend, but plainly because I like her so much.
Each time my friend came over to visit, and the subject about the girl ensueds, he just laughs and tell me he can still leave the girl for me if I ask him to.. Seriously, if not for the fact we've been friends for ages, I would smatch his face..
I know for certain this guy wasn't making any effort to win this girl, he has never spent more than 5K for a chick before bedding her.. Sometimes the girl in question would call him and he would ignore, he would show me over 15 of her missed calls yet this girl never called me one day or else when she needs help with her school work or money..
I once lied I was sick and all she said was 'sorry'.. And visited me for 30 minutes and told me she didn't wanna contract my flu and she zoomed off!
To cut the story short, just some hours ago my Friend called and said he has bleeped the girl!
I didn't believe what he said..
Then he sent me voice notes of his conversation with the girl and also gave me his password to check his chat with the girl on Facebook..
This girl is a bleep+in piece of sh+t!
What made me angry was their s.ex chats, this girl gat no shame.. Her nude photos were all over my friend's PM's and yet i thought she was decent...
You can't imagine how angry I am right now.. I really feel like heading to the girl's house and give her a piece of my mind..
She left me (who was willing to love truly) and went for a player..........................
Infuriating enough, this my useless friend is cute, but am cute as well!
Are girls really so into players than those who really wanna take them seriously?
Honestly, I'm pissed!
Our first father Adam fell too deep in love with our first mother Eve so much so that he lost his position in paradise and look what that brought on us.. .Why did u fall in love...why 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Fkhalifa:
op, most of the players you see out there including your friend started with this type of your story...
when you hear the ladies say i want a cool,nice,good man etc listen to them not,its a different ball game out there...
hope you have learnt one or two things from this experience. Women simply want a good guy who isn't boring the problem is the use of good as synonym with a doormat/a man with no voice of his own, leads men to believe that women want emotionally abusive jerks as partners. Just because you like a woman does not mean you cannot be firm or you must agree with whatever she wants this is when the attraction dies but if you are being your real self its always refreshing. The idea that women want bad boys is reinforced when the so called bad boys hook up with a good woman who does not understand the difference between dominance and domineering, being assertive and being aggressive, she ends up being abused and everyone thinks the jerk formula works but it does not because the woman in most cases is miserable and i can't imagine any man worth his salt being happy when his woman is miserable. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Are Girls So Mean? by Thavik(m): 7:50pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
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