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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Yea it is possible, but be rest assured, the dude is changing his 'engine oil outside' , i'm a living example. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by herald9: 9:58pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Yes It's possible... I've been doing that 24/7 |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by 50calibre(m): 9:58pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Rhapsodi: You're not in a relationship my friend, you're in a friendship. I don't know how you formed this ridiculous opinion or belief, but it is pure hokum. Nature can't be cheated, a girl who has no urge to sleep with you, has no feelings for you, even the slightest. A woman can not love you completely till you've slept with her. This is simple biology, se*x triggers a release of hormones like oxytocin in women, which creates a greater feeling of love & attachment, that's why it's called a bonding hormone. Guys possess a different hormone which triggers some other reactions not necessarily love-related hence you notice guys have no qualms smashing random girls, more so the one they love. If you're not like this, then you're not normal. In a normal world, se*x is the glue that binds a relationship together, it forms the bedrock on which all other things are built. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by csbrown(m): 9:58pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
;DBefore I don't use to have sexual desires on d gal I love. Because say I love am, bt she com dey see am as if say I no b man enough, wetin com vex me pass be say she com hate me, com dey avoid me ontop... She no dey respond ma chat again, but I hv got to move on...so na wetin com make me turn to striker, I no dey miss chances. Ask ur girlfrein she go yarn u my tory 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
temigracie: I swear you be badoo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nattylad(m): 9:59pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
The answer is no It irks me when i hear people talk about lust and love like they are two different things, you can't love someone you're not physically attracted to The first thing that attracts you to a person is the persons physical attributes, then you start developing feelings 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by xynerise: 9:59pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
You guys should stop pretending jare |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by adeyiga3(m): 10:00pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Rhapsodi:den she is fuckn anoda dude 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by MadCow1: 10:00pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
temigracie: What more can I say... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Bitojoe(m): 10:01pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Some of you here are just talking as if you are saint.stop lying.you need to go and do check up,if you love someone and you dont have the desire to have sex.or having sex doesn't come to your mind at all.abeg,you realy need prayer 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Most people are not understanding the question. OP asked about desire / lust but not necessarily having sex. Is it possible not to sexually desire your future fiancé ? even though you are waiting for the wedding to consummate the union( for example ). Personally I think it is possible and acceptable that woman could love a man without believing that they are having a strong sexual desire for him. (I think women can sexually desire a man without realising it. But if a male does not have sexual desire for his fiancé, that would be very unusual and possibly he has a problem. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Pecca: 10:02pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
emusmith: the day you stop trying to live objectively, you will stop asking questions. when you stop asking questions you will stop being confused/curious and, when you stop being confused or curious (my own addition) you are dead. because the dead stay dumb |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
cc150615:As an expert in relationship matters and as a sex educator i want to bring to the attention of this Hon house that those who said is possible are potential impotents and and genuine impotents dat are looking 4 a girl to deceive and marry only 4 them to reveal their sexual makeup after the alter. We hav seen many cases in men and women too. As for me any woman i wil marry must knw my sexual strenght and weaknesses no matter the love involve. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by redcliff: 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
philantoxx: No they do not. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by MadCow1: 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
You can't be in love with someone you are not sexually attracted to... Love and last are two sides of a coin.. they must both exist to be complete else na friendship be that. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by darlenese(f): 10:03pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
It is possible if the guy is castrated! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Dammyllionaire(m): 10:05pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
temigracie: Silly thoughts? So women also have silly thoughts... So you still have time to come on nairaland despite the fact that you're in camp? Na wa for you oo |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by joshrare(m): 10:06pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
dasparrow: What if the person has already been defiled? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by sistrunk: 10:06pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
faithugo64: U should know the Difference btw LOVE & lust.! dt mks d difference! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by iluvweed(m): 10:06pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
To all my niggas, You know what I mean.....If you Bleep a girl GOOD...she dont wanna leave!......... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by PeeDaVinci: 10:07pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Love, romance, sex and marriage are 4 things which ladies mix/muddle together but are very distinctly different from a guys perspective. Without a lot of discipline, guys struggle to see them as different facets of a big bundle. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by donmalcolm21(m): 10:08pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Sex consumates love. If I love you I must sleep with you. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Marcelinho(m): 10:08pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
the two work hand in hand, because no matter what u must have the feelings, how can u love someone n then don't have the feelings for the person? please vote MARCELINHO 4 Mr nairaland, ur vote count Thanks! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by RealSleek(m): 10:09pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
evegran: this what i call being brutally honest....just reading ur post is giving hard on.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by simdam500(m): 10:09pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
one word. it not possible. errr. call upon my baby... love..... u know I love u but I want ur body and my body to join |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by nikky52(f): 10:10pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
You will definitely have the desire but it will never be a priority, every other thing comes before the desire. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ocheu(f): 10:11pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
faithugo64:he meant before marriage. Even God knows is possible. When a guy loves a lady and he has in mind of settling down with her, he will surely protect her just for fresh sake. Or why do you think that men don't like to rough handle their wives ? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by simdam500(m): 10:12pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
and by the way what is making the topic trend?? abi because it coming from a lady |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by simplisity(m): 10:13pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Naturaly, the feelings or the attraction must be there bcs is d part of ingredients of love, but moraly u should try to resist it to preserve d sacredness of ur marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by redsun(m): 10:15pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Love is desire,passion and insatiable want. Some people live their lives in books written by others,guided by conditional norms that deprives them of all the excitements,experiences,adventures,inquisitiveness and the joys of life. |
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