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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
mydex93: Literally on point!!! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Blakyclyde(m): 11:46pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Annypie: Well, according to the Oxford Advanced Learners Dictionary (Warri version), they are all the same. Just semanics. Anyways, good evening, ma'am. Its been long since we saw (professionally). How market? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by basille(m): 11:46pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Yes, it's possible! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 11:49pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
dovelike: which books what are their names ?? hehehe she wont.....so whats your opinion on the topic anyway? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by electrosuru: 11:50pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
eko la ku ro ni eko, eko o ko la. Both sex and love work together depending on d intention of both party. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Pamcrest(f): 11:53pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Op, it's not possible to love someone (as in relationship) and not DESIRE him/her.. U express yr love by doing those things - kisses, hugs, cuddles, d whole hog! Unless u are frigid or u are deliberately suppressing d emotions. If u don't feel those desires n experience those stirrings, then that's not a love relationship.....more like brotherly love......u don't view each other as a couple.....then it's ok. But having those desires is one thing, how u act on them is another! My humble submission |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by satowind(m): 11:55pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
temigracie:I know u hv received plenty faya in ur kpekus |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by onila(f): 11:55pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
possible |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ocheu(f): 11:55pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
austelright:yes u are right, but is good that she was the one that requested for it, she will always respect u for keeping your word. Secondly, she will understand how much u love her and also she will believe that u have control over yourself. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bidexmat(m): 11:56pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
Na wa oooo! Dis 1 Is categorically a question for di gods! Hian! quote me any where, No man will love a lady who has no breast nor the perfurated burns downstairs! the ladies are jst clamouring for chop and stay. U taste the food, abeg finish am oo. We men are naturally born dogs. Make guy dey on top hole dey dig am like say in dey find diamond, oloun if another woman pass the bedside in go whistle " woaw! See the mother to ma unborn children. Na our hormones dey do us dis strong thing. If u ask me y, hu I go ask |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 11:56pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
bosun11:Romantic books. My opinion is that I think it comes hand in hand. Though there are different kinds of love. If you mean the kind of love that is meant to have intimacy,then intimacy should be felt.At least the thought of it with that person should not sound replusive and without excitement. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 11:57pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
evegran: this is a real babe talking...that urge must be there...gbam!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by satowind(m): 11:57pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
izaray:Rare |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 11:58pm On Nov 12, 2014 |
dovelike: alright miss...i concur |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 12:00am On Nov 13, 2014 |
bidexmat: bros wetin u take this night ?? na question i ask oooo......................................... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bosun11(m): 12:06am On Nov 13, 2014 |
if i wanna touch her and she doesn't want sex ...well i can withdraw because sex aint love..its just a means of expressing it...but if she's not a virgin , then its mandatory i enjoy the intimacy with her and dig deep till i find my diamond !!!................y would i care for my lady and take care of her and wont have that extra intimacy...i got blood running through my veins mehn................ BTW:SEX IS NOT LOVE BECAUSE A MAN COULD TOUCH A LADY HE LOVES NOT, WHEREAS LOVE MAKING INVOLVES LOVERS ONLY...My Opinion Though so my answer is YES |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by canItalk(m): 12:14am On Nov 13, 2014 |
[s][/s] funny |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 12:17am On Nov 13, 2014 |
@OP.......Is it possible for a girl to love and not ask for money? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by koolg: 12:21am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Many hypocrites with useless philosophies here. How will u love someone and then you don't have the desire to be intimate with that person HOW? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by profayita: 12:28am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Yeah it's possible because sex and love are two different things. You see! The question raises another jurisprudential issue. Can you love without giving? Or can you give without love? The answer is in the negative. You can't love without giving for the later is inherent in the the former. But What you give is dependent on your thought. If you are deeply in love, no matter your religious apostasy and moral heritage, canal imagine and feelings as human will eventually come up. How you manage it is dependent on your spiritual maturity, self control. Temptation can't But come! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Boyooosa(m): 12:37am On Nov 13, 2014 |
chibwike:i can neva vote you for dis ur SILENT comment.... you did not communicate at all. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by NobleG1(m): 12:39am On Nov 13, 2014 |
faithugo64: There are different types of love. (I won't go into that now) A man can’t love a woman and not hope to have sex with her. The only women a man will not have romantic feelings for are his blood relatives, while other women are on the menu. Some women can possibly love (not romantic one) a man without romance attached. It’s easier for a woman to keep a man in friend zone and still don’t feel like f*ucking him. But what women don’t realize is that the men in the friend zone will jump at any slightest opportunity to f*uck them. It’s a secret that I’m reveal to you ladies now. Men don’t like being placed in friend zone with women. They dread it. For him, it’s either you’re his girlfriend or wife or a secret lover or a one night stand. A friend zone relationship can possibly develop into a full-blown romantic one, but only if the woman wants, because the man has been inboard since he set his eyes on you. To answer your question directly; For a woman the answer is, Yes. But for a man, the answer is, NO. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by beatsarena: 12:41am On Nov 13, 2014 |
it is not possible o. because, when you love someone truly, you are will be ready to do anything for that somebody. so when that somebody wants sex, my dear, you can't resist, cos u just can't say NO. Wassup guys... I'm a music producer and music enthusiast, i want you all to please check my site at beatsarena.com I have just created a platform for fellow music enthusiasts. A place where we can discuss about music production, mixing and mastering, song writing and Nigerian music in general. The site is virtually empty that is why i'm reaching out to you guys so we can fill it up with great contents. You are free to send your articles/write ups about music production, music reviews, gist in the music industry, news about producers and other stuffs like that. You can also submit write ups like: How to make an RnB song How to write a rap music or you share your experiences with various music production softwares. it's just a place where people of like minds can meet and talk about new ideas in naija music industry. Guys, let's make history by creating the biggest music forum in Africa. You can send your write ups/videos/ beats/photos of studio sessions/ photos of you playing any musical instrument to beatsarena@gmail.com i will be glad to post it online asap. Please visit the site and check out the various pages we have there. You can also catch me on instagram and twitter: www.instagram.com/BeatsArena www.twitter.com/BeatsArena Tag me to any relevant post and i will surely regram and retweet BEAT IT IF YOU CAN See you guys soon... *winks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by obiZEAL(m): 12:43am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Gay men be keeping girlfriends to cover their gay a.s.s since 1946 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by tintingz(m): 12:49am On Nov 13, 2014 |
You love someone because the feelings is there and the "attraction" why wont they desire to have sex with each other. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bichikay(m): 12:50am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Ana akogheri dasparrow: |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by criuze(m): 12:56am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Love means selfless giving, you loose up your defences if you really love. And se.x is there to smooth it. So why can't it happen if the need be. A lover that denies you se.x dosent love, because you need it, except you are an eunuch |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by bidexmat(m): 12:59am On Nov 13, 2014 |
bosun11:bosun11, If I should give u a constructive answer, u won't be able to take it so beta I make it sound or look mild by making a funny buh true joke out of it. Ur question is glaringly a rhetorical question. N pls u dn't need that question u asked me above. That's demeaning and very rude sire. Bosun ti o je ni o. Ose |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by DaBullIT(m): 1:05am On Nov 13, 2014 |
eph12: Sex is the ritual that solidifies feelings of love. Love is I complete without sex |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by manutdadex(m): 1:15am On Nov 13, 2014 |
Etetejake:romeo and julliet actully bleeped countless times |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by priscillawill(m): 1:20am On Nov 13, 2014 |
It is possible, it happened with my first love, Never had the urge for her. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by manutdadex(m): 1:24am On Nov 13, 2014 |
3cycle:that sexual urge is instinctive! If you love someone and u re nt sexually attracted to dat personi s either both of u are chronic S.Us or una be virgin wey neva f**k b4 experiencin first love! If you want to see tru love, u see dem in older married couple...but early birds av passion and youthfulness |
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