DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

iykedare:


you girls have been saying this and still single and buying aso ebi for other people.


ok let me get this.You women wey get size are waiting for men in skirts from mars.
Make una await o

steppin:

Yeah! Of course! Shoe get size!
Keep saying it, if it helps you to sleep at night

kaima1984:
point of correction Mr,a woman must not look for who wil marry her rather a man must look for a woman t marry,get that into ur head

Skii:
Dear all,

for a moment, let us put the attitudes of just a few female bankers aside.

what about the guys? shouldn't they take some responsibility for not raising their game enough?

rather than squirm at the sight (or actions) of some lady, i think guys should learn the art of taming, subtle taming of these seemingly untamed women. women are emotional, very, as i have come to understand and it may be that at the time whoever engaged them, they may have been under pressure hence their untoward "reaction".

I must confess, i am also in the process of learning how to deal with various types of women. the funny thing as i have found is that, once you are able to ride their initial forming or fronting attitude, they come running after you like bees chase honey!

you don't get out of life what you want, you get out of life who you are- Les Brown!

so the guy going after the cleaner in preference to the banker, that's fine, that's his choice, that's who he is.

if only the banker ladies will exercise some patience, their own guy will come and when he does, they should hope that he is man enough to teach them the manners they lack.

let's not even talk about money, again a man on top of his game will tame a lady he chooses whether or not she earns more than he does.

picture this scenario, an example someone gave in one of the replies

a lady banker snaps at the counter when you request to use her pen. rather than quiet down and retreat with tail in between legs, a gentle, friendly, subtle comment or compliment can do the trick "wow, you must be under pressure, take it easy", "even with that attitude, you are still gorgeous, what will you be like when you are smiling?"

soleexx:


Picture of you when u whr there and caught her on camera for him or idntbeliveIT

fpeter:



trust me.....shoe get size

donroxy:
I see no reason why folks keep bitching about professional and career oriented ladies .... !!

I was once looked down upon by a male teller in Oceanic bank while in 200L accounting .. I lashed @ him so much and made him feel worthless, I insulted him with everything I was taught in banking and finance and how he was so archaic not to know the ethics of being a teller !!

I have never had issue with female bankers because I usually conduct my transactions as professional as possible ....

If she goes personal, I keep straight face and keep it professional .......They love meeting big catch........ Majority of female bankers have lower IQ and poor self esteem since Banking community is of high social competition .... Some bankgirls are untouchable while some are simply ''nothing'' but trying to fit in .....

As a hapless dude, it is your fault if you allow any female banker to maltreat you !!

I love female doctors so much I'd sacrificed to marry one and infact their arrogance is simply what I love about them .... I can relate with their IQ also IQ of a lawyer and an Engineer ..... (My Ideal Girls) !!

But female banker is the least IQ I ever think of ........ When I see them I'm more of pity for them cuz only God knows the pressure she's undergoing beyond the high-heels, brazilian hair , pancakes and the suit !!!

Female Docs drive me crazy even where she think low , I could use some parameters in her field to bring her to speed !!

Guys, to relate with any member of the society even the president without feeling any complex/rejected , go and become successful without 'crime' .... Develop urself and people will find you !!


How could a lady work so hard , develop her professional career, work in a professional institution after rigorous professional competition only to settle for less unprofessional man in the name of being humble and available ..... If you can't beat her professional status please go and find your level or go get Upgraded

NobleG1:


You either fabricated this story or the lady in question is lying.

Bank customers don't even see bank cleaners because cleaners do their jobs before banks open for business.

Do Nigerian banks have messengers? If any has, do they interact with customers?

Nigerian banks do have guards but they're mostly men.

If you want to fabricate a plausible story, do better next time.

fpeter:



trust me.....shoe get size

NobleG1:


You either fabricated this story or the lady in question is lying.

Bank customers don't even see bank cleaners because cleaners do their jobs before banks open for business.

Do Nigerian banks have messengers? If any has, do they interact with customers?

Nigerian banks do have guards but they're mostly men.

If you want to fabricate a plausible story, do better next time.

Odilafta:
Tell her to stop carrying her shoulder higher than her head.

She should stop envying those cleaners(,they all have same to.to,just a difference in sizes ) rather she should learn humility from them.

Is she also a spiritualist Abi how sure is she that the money those male customers come to withdraw is theirs


Like they say,"the ugly girls are getting married every saturday while the beautiful ones are busy,buying the aso-ebi"
I'm sure she didn't tell you of the humble,hardworking bricklayer she has been turning down,simply because she's a banker...

No apologies
I just like saying it the way it is.


Nonsense and ingredient

Kimmo:


*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning outfit.

andyallor:


For some reason I can't explain, I know ST Peter will call my name

Don't mind me

Kimmo:


*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning outfit.

Lordabas:



You deserve one chilled bottle for this post

Odilafta:
Tell her to stop carrying her shoulder higher than her head.

She should stop envying those cleaners(,they all have same to.to,just a difference in sizes ) rather she should learn humility from them.

Is she also a spiritualist Abi how sure is she that the money those male customers come to withdraw is theirs


Like they say,"the ugly girls are getting married every saturday while the beautiful ones are busy,buying the aso-ebi"
I'm sure she didn't tell you of the humble,hardworking bricklayer she has been turning down,simply because she's a banker...

No apologies
I just like saying it the way it is.


Nonsense and ingredient

pweetixandy:
Maybe she should quit her job now,since it pains her to see other women getting married. Rada rada

Matttthew:

Ur own will come...
Tire boo

ojubi:










SORRY TO DISAPOINT YOU MATE. ANY FEMALE BANKER WILL DIE TO MARRY A CLEANER IN MY COMPANY. THANKS TO OUR MANAGEMENT AND THE CLEANERS THEMSELFS FOR GOING BACK TO SCHOOL TO DO PART-TIME STUDIES AND CAME OUT WITH DEGREES.
THEY WERE ALL UPGRADED AND THEY EARN UP 5 MILLION NAIRA YEARLY.
DID I TELL YOU THEIR HOUSING ALLOWANCE IS ABOUT 1.2 MILLION NAIRA YEARLY? PAYEBLE IN THE FIRST QAUTER OF THE YEAR?
NEVER LOOK DOWN ON A CLEANER MATE, MOST OF THEM GOT DEGREES.