Cutehector4u:
The man is d head of the house..... Finish!!! And d wife must submit....

beau49:



Lmao@morning to evening church

Chei!NL peeps no go kill person.

@Op I think the best bet is dicussing and coming to an agreement during courtship.

BreezyRita:

Warris dis one saying?

Kachisbarbie:
I always hear this saying that, a woman doesn't have a church till she is married.

I think it's all about understanding and ability to compromise. I wouldn't allow this be a problem - that's why there are some denominations I would definitely not associate with their 'males' intimately -let alone talking about marriage.

babyosisi:


Some responders could be 15 or 16 yrs old
Nairaland has no age limit

hazyfm:
I had similar issue with my wife, but with prayers, patience, love and understanding, I won

beeevan:
If you chose to marry a man, you have accepted him in his entirety. You can't love him and hate his name or any other thing you chose to hate.

DestinedSharon:

Oga, who said following him to his church is part of being submissive?

Anyways as for me, I like dialogueing in a r/ship. If I love U that much I does also likes ''everyother thing about U'' and neva tries to change any for U. But that wouldn't stop me from making myself clear by telling U d things I will not accept. There should always be a mutual agreement in a r/ship which must be adhered to in a marriage.

babyosisi:



Yes
My husband eats Ogbono soup
I love him and I don't love or like Ogbono
He also likes to watch European soccer and basket ball and I don't care about those

CFCfan:

Can you name such denominations?

I can't Sir

shizzleStar:
You're right on the money....most just talk for the sake of it.

Btw being a while osisi, how have you being? i see your god work at DJOLA's thread

MrHighSea:
Trending in NL dis days: husband, wife, bf n gf talks, or law, which university to attend, I USED TO LEARN BETTER STUFF HEAR .

tete7000:

Hmmm!, true love to me entails loving someone and learning to love and enjoy what they enjoy. Now regarding the issue of faith, it becomes more important that a woman loves her husband faith. It is the wife that is expected to give up and follow her husband not vice-versa. I am not totally ruling out the reverse case but it rarely occurs. The house needs to have a common front as regards faith as the house divided against itself cannot stand. If they don't share faith, it's the children that suffer. They are the ones who ends up not having strong faith, so on that ground the woman who loves her man and invariably her children should embrace wholeheartedly her husband's faith. In case she can't, I advise she marry a man whose faith she shares for the sake of her children.

shizzleStar:
It is whether you agree or not


an example of those things you cannot accept includes??

I agree on the part about mutual agreement thou

BreezyRita:

And?? Who said he isn't?

babyosisi:


True love to me is loving someone unconditionally,accepting them for who they are and growing with them and allowing them grow in a way that brings out the best in them for the good of the union.

I allow you to quote me

shizzleStar:
I don't understand it...did you chose redeem out of neutrality or you both weren't comfortable with the churches you attend before for two of no to have retained one of 'your' churches?

KingTom:

I know

babyosisi:


My dear I dey o
Winter wan turn person to okporoko but God won't agree
I don't know if they even have the heater on in this work place
My internal organs are even feeling cold
I don't know if they want my blood to congeal
E remain make I carry blanket come work

babyosisi:


My dear I dey o
Winter wan turn person to okporoko but God won't agree
I don't know if they even have the heater on in this work place
My internal organs are even feeling cold
I don't know if they want my blood to congeal
E remain make I carry blanket come work

Cutehector4u:
The man is d head of the house..... Finish!!! And d wife must submit....

ask4bk:
Heard of this "following the man to his church" thing first in Yoruba land. And most say that's the "ideal". Don't be myopic to think what's obtainable in ur place is the ideal worldwide. Like a Yoruba man that went to Zambia and asked the students to lie down while greeting him because that's how "Africans" do. Since when "Yoruba" don become "Africa".

As a CATHOLIC, i'll let you know that the laws of the Church doesn't allow a catholic to move to another church under the cover of marriage. Whether Man or Woman.

If a non-catholic wants to marry a catholic, he/she MUST agree in front of the Priest to not interfere with the faith of the catholic partner. And the children must be raised in the catholic faith in the hands of the catholic partner. whether na man or woman.

The non-catholic partner is free to go to his own church or religion. Such marriages are even done with Dispensations.

kzokul:

GBAM....