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Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Pamcrest(f): 11:29pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Salvation is individual.....though it's good to attend d same church but if it's not conducive to both, then let each find his/her level. I have some catholic friends whose husbands are pentecostal n d marriage is going on smoothly! Let Christ (not church) reign in your family. My humble submission 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Salvation they say its personal.And church doesnt matter when you are serving the lord.Your heart thats what count. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:I'll protect you from the insults ![]() |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by swagwu(m): 11:31pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
if u are a girl and u are getting married then u hv to know that every thing hv change...ur name..family..church...house..behaviour etc except u are the 1 that married the man ![]() |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Ayatullah(m): 11:31pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
BreezyRita: NOW ITS VERY CLEAR! This type of scenerio can NEVER be imagined in Islam, because a Muslim simply bow with those who bow, BUT a Catholic cannot worship in a Baptist church, and it will be difficult for a husband who is Seventh Day Adventist to worship with a celestial wife on sunday. It is therefore very clear that Christianity is a man-made religion, associated with very serious spiritual conflict. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
DestinedSharon:are u married yet? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
beau49:wife, be submissive to your husband in all things.... I will not repeat myself again... |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:42pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
xtervaganza:my friend will you make use of your dictionary nd find out the meanin of submissive.... Did i mention anything abt being a slave..? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by NobleG1(m): 11:51pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: The wife is not a slave. The husband is her partner not her boss. This is 2014 not 1950! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by dioman: 11:55pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
There is Ɲό̲̣̣̣̥ standard rule stating that the wife should join the husband's church and vice versa, the constitution provides us with the freedom of worship. ℓ̊ strongly believe this should been settled during courtship. A lot of things are to be agreed upon during courtship wish will help eliminate all manner of arguments and misunderstanding. God bless marriage - Amen. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Vikkiboi(m): 12:04am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Aprime: abeg gimme the weed u took before posting this abeg? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by MeGaStReEt: 12:06am On Nov 14, 2014 |
YOU MUST LIKE THE CHURCH |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Descartes: 12:10am On Nov 14, 2014 |
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Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by motini(m): 12:12am On Nov 14, 2014 |
D couple should talk about dis matter and oda important issues but understanding and fortitude is key to this. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Ayo199(m): 12:26am On Nov 14, 2014 |
NobleG1:nw u mean d act of a woman submitting to her husband is old fashioned..hmm,is der hope 4 dz generation? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by armyofone(m): 12:35am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Osisi buy thermal under wear (top and pant). Not sure if you can find it at Ross (your fav place) but try Target/Wal-Mart. Thought winter is warm over there. Global warming is spreading. No long thing over church...on Sunday, go youtube for hillsong and turn on Joel Osteen in bed. babyosisi: 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by musiwa95: 1:09am On Nov 14, 2014 |
The bible want you to go to your husband church. It is a child of the devil woman that will not go to her husband church. If you are about to marry a woman. Who does not want to go to your church. Don't marry her. Wedding parent church is where wedding take place. Wife parent church |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by NobleG1(m): 1:17am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Br[b][/b]eezyRita: A wife has the right to attend any church she likes and the same applies to the husband. Even though going to the same as a couple would be great but it shouldn't be under duress. And it shouldn't always be the wife who must leave her church to join her husband. A husband can also leave his church to join his wife's. This is a decision both of them should make together, mutually, not only the man. The man and woman are partners in the marraige and they have equal right. None of them should be enslaved in it. She has been going to her church all her life and the f*ool wants to force her out of it simply because she agreed to marry an a*sshole? That she's married to a jerk doesn't mean the i*diot owns her. She can dump his a*ss any time, any day. A woman supposed to have the same right as a man whether in marraige or not. Unfortunately it is not the case in Nigeria. Most Nigerian men still have that st*upid and primitive mentality that forces a woman to do whatever her husband wants whether shes likes it or not, while the woman's wishes are most times totally ignored. This is 2014 NOT 1940. 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by nickz(m): 1:19am On Nov 14, 2014 |
my dad-jehovah. witness ![]() my mum- any church she feels she can get family protection from ![]() my youngest sister -RCCG (around our area) younger sister- (Ada)my mums handbag ![]() me-catholic/christ embassy(if i ever get the urge to attend) my eldest brother- ![]() ![]() we don't do that family church shit over here the only influence my dad ever had was we were not baptised as kids ![]() |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by otokx(m): 1:23am On Nov 14, 2014 |
It is a pity but we Africans are fast destroying our culture. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by PrettySpicey(f): 1:42am On Nov 14, 2014 |
shizzleStar: Indeed ignorance is bliss as the ignorant remains unaware. I have become matured and I'm not talking about my usual bf and gf. Actually I am talking about hubby and wifey. And for one in a mixed marriage, I repeat it is only in African that the 'woman no get church' notion exists and thrives. But thankfully there are always exceptions to the rule. And the two becoming one has absolutely nothing to do with personalities... they are one, yet they are individuals and will remain so. And dignity is personal. I hope this makes sense to you. 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by NobleG1(m): 1:42am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Ayo199: If you mean enslaving her then, yes, it's old fashion. Your bible told you about the woman submission thing. Do you know that the same bible placed women as second class humans. In the same bible, men owned women as properties. I could go on and on. Not everything in your bible is morally right. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by musiwa95: 1:58am On Nov 14, 2014 |
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Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by deniyor: 2:45am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Another unimportant thing couples fight about. Who cares? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by ddeola: 3:20am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Then you are not spiritually compatible. Why marry a man you are not ready to follow to his church? Or maybe you are hoping to change him abi when you are not ready to change? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by ddeola: 3:24am On Nov 14, 2014 |
NobleG1: You are 100% incorrect. Am sure you are NOT a Christian and you are trying to bring in religious discrimination. If you are truly a Christian, go and meet your pastor for a clear explanation and teaching. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by iyantuo: 3:31am On Nov 14, 2014 |
BreezyRita:the wife goes to her husband's church |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by NobleG1(m): 3:48am On Nov 14, 2014 |
ddeola: What a crap! Prove me wrong or be silent. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Ilekeh(f): 4:02am On Nov 14, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: You're wasting your time on typical Nigerian mentality. Upon all their "follow husband jump bridge" mentality, most Nigerian marriages are unhappy and full of fraud. I don't understand how following ones husband to church (while you have a church that you like) sustains a happy home. I'm guessing a fraudulent "happy home" is better than "the message". (I hope to never understand) I've been to several churches and many, I didn't visit twice because the pastor/the church atmosphere didn't resonate with me. So why should I force myself to attend a church (just because my husband does) that's not sending me the right message just to play the "happy wife"? I have tried every Christian denomination out there, and I will find the right church for me, not my husband. Anyway, my plan is not to have a typical Nigerian home anyway. God forbid such awful bondage. Y'all on Nl keep pretending......you'll be free someday ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by KingTom(m): 4:10am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Seun:Thats the witty Seun I remember! ![]() |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Ilekeh(f): 4:11am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Anyway, I was an atheist for a year or so.....I'm going back to that to save my sanity. Even Christians can't decide which denomination is the true one. What a hoax. And trust me, I've been a protestant, Seven-day advent, jehovah witness, catholic, and many more. They ALL differ in ideology, in how to obtain grace into the kingdom of heaven, in christianity practice, in how a true christian should dress etc. One religion that is so diverse in belief is a divided religion. It's a hoax. Look at NL. Full of religious freaks, yet its full of ungodly behavior. Just like the world we live in. It's easy to claim the title and easier to not practice it. |
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