my girlfriend that I'm dating for almost two years though v not been around said I'm selfish because I told her she can do her project even if she doesn't have a laptop,she wants a new laptop by force nd this is a girl I send money too lik every two mnth,sometimes 20k,15k for almost a year now,,I'm i really selfish? Please guys help me wit an answer I'm Jst an haustler tryin to make it in life.

15/20 k per month? u must b her uncle or brother. oh! u mean she is still ur gf?

<if the story is true>

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permit me to call you a big fool

a young hustling niqqa paying a girl (not even wifey) 20k /month

how do you expect to make it in life??

confirm maga

Op

It's a true story o,i dnt mean monthly anyway I mean every two months I give her dt amount cos I knw she needs money to take care of herself nd her parents are not dt rich but I love her so much nd intend to marry her .but was confused hearing this from her today.

He said he wants to make it in life,well oyo lo wa.

op, she is using u. dump her.

btw, why are guys like this how will u be paying one hungry girl salary?

Yes u are very selfish. U should buy her apple laptop, If she still says u are selfish buy iphone 6, give her 99% of your monthly allowance and ask if she wants more. IDIOT.

She is using u

Op she said U are selfish because u've taken it upon urself to be her father or parents and now U wanna slow down? U must finish what U started . People like U makes Some ladies to think that their guys are their atm, coz after her parents gives her pocket money as a student, u'll still pay her salary. Even some workers don't earn up to 15-20k.

Thank God for U coz U must buy her the laptop .

well,this is one of ur life's experience that u gona use in future,so ride on,if ur eye open,u go advice yourself,,,them no dey tell adult to comot from the sun

U no deserve advice

*faints*

Yes you are really a selfish dude, why can't you give her about 150k per month and see if she will say that you are selfish.

kelpat581:
my girlfriend that I'm dating for almost two years though v not been around said I'm selfish because I told her she can do her project even if she doesn't have a laptop,she wants a new laptop by force nd this is a girl I send money too lik every two mnth,sometimes 20k,15k for almost a year now,,I'm i really selfish? Please guys help me wit an answer I'm Jst an haustler tryin to make it in life.

my brother I see nothing wrong with giving that babe money($)if you have it. But what I would find wrong is if you don't get what you're paying for.

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She doesn't love u. She's in for ur money and ur money alone.

you have shown her that you have enough money so continue to show her...
the day you stop it becomes an issue...

you caused the problem for youself

Thanks buddy's for all your comments...ladies can be funny,I'm just a person Dt care so much nd my intention was to make tinz a bit easy for her but now I knw better...

OP, u did nothing wrong, some guys here do more than that but they will come here and act/talk tough. If you love a woman, it should be expressed in every area of your relationship. You said you love her, i'm sure there are certain qualities you saw in her that has kept you guys together for 2long years. Have a heart to heart talk with her and know why she thinks you are selfish. Don't take all these "yeye" advices here hook, line and sinker, before them pour sand for your garri.

hwudey:
OP, u did nothing wrong, some guys here do more than that but they will come here and act/talk tough. If you love a woman, it should be expressed in every area of your relationship. You said you love her, i'm sure there are certain qualities you saw in her that has kept you guys together for 2long years. Have a heart to heart talk with her and know why she thinks you are selfish. Don't take all these "yeye" advices here hook, line and sinker, before them pour sand for your garri.

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hwudey:
OP, u did nothing wrong, some guys here do more than that but they will come here and act/talk tough. If you love a woman, it should be expressed in every area of your relationship. You said you love her, i'm sure there are certain qualities you saw in her that has kept you guys together for 2long years. Have a heart to heart talk with her and know why she thinks you are selfish. Don't take all these "yeye" advices here hook, line and sinker, before them pour sand for your garri.

sand sand don dey him garri already na make dem no spoil the girl runs

God bless your foolishness chairman.

God bless your foolishness chairman. Shine your dull eyes and look well.

Go check which name that girl use save your phone number,sey na 'mugu'.
She nd her parents dey laugh you.

My brother baddestguyp thank you for spoting that yeye sister who spoil every thing by saying we here voiced yeye comment

People like una, your fellow guy go ask u money u go say u no get .

You dey spend money for one quench wey other guy man dey straff

As u done start am ,she done see u as ATM .....U come here dey complain like bricklayer wey dey pay with savannah bank cheque

I sure u no know wetin time dey talk

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Cholls:
My brother baddestguyp thank you for spoting that yeye sister who spoil every thing by saying we here voiced yeye comment

no mind am, na her fellow runs girl

Baddestguyp:
no mind am, na her fellow runs girl

You know what I don't exchange words on forums like these. But for the records i'm a happily married woman with 2 lovely kids n expecting the third. It is wrong for you to just open your mouth n call people all sort of names 'cause you are trying to impress your fellow "never do wells". My comment wasn't directed to any person in particular, so if you checked your comment and it qualifies to be categorised under the ones I called "yeye" advice, well na your problem be that, not mine.