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Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 9:58am On Nov 14, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: I don't know why___ they should have named me Pearl or Ruby or Diamond . 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by shizzleStar: 10:03am On Nov 14, 2014 |
babyosisi:lol...i can imagine how intense winter could be over there, hope you put on some thick fur-lined coat and headband for cover, and do as armyofone suggested.... |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:heheheheheheehee An Igbo parent in the early 80s giving such names U'r even lucky dey didn't give u a sentence as a name |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:LOl, so dat means u guys re still attended LWC.... U wedded dere too rite?? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by efficiencie(m): 10:05am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Qc1: Thanks bro! Even on the issue of which denomination to attend I wouldn't want my wife to worship at my denomination because i forced her to, i'd love her to choose from her heart...that way we'll worship with love and not out of subjugation... |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by shizzleStar: 10:08am On Nov 14, 2014 |
DestinedSharon:That is a logical approach you have there and it matters a lot. I agree! Issues should always be discussed prior to marriage |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 14, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: Early 80s kwa? Hian! Mbanu...young girl like me 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by shizzleStar: 10:14am On Nov 14, 2014 |
nikkyshyne:Lol...need i say that his family weren't really into the catholic (devoted)church since his siblings attend other churches @bolded, that is the essence, there's nothing lie couples doing things together in unison, cant just imagine married couples attending different churches/denominations, where then is the togetherness and oneness that marriages seeks to project? Glad thou you have a partner who isnt 'rigid'...Hurray! |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by xxgig(m): 10:19am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Trouble. Starts in a marriage when the wife begins to ask "WHAT IF" on matters regarding the authority of the husband. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by hayoakins(m): 10:19am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Cutehector4u: You can't always have it your way, always having it your way will lead you six feets below sooner than predestined. The wife is a helpMEET and not a slave who absorb all order, furthermore; the head is useless and cannot function without the neck. @Op, you guys should have discussed that before walking down the aisle as it is one of the most important issues, however; it is never too late, you guys should have a heart to heart discussion. If I cannot leave my church for yours and you yours for mine, then we sure going to a new parish/church...great deal But seriously, i find it hard leaving a church i am used to |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:young gini? Buh u sed ursef ur [size=4pt] 31[/size] in my thread |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by shizzleStar: 10:22am On Nov 14, 2014 |
PrettySpicey:You are African right? and why would you want to copy and behave like the whites in virtually everything? Of course there are exceptions to the rule. In life nothing is absolute, everything is relative. Yes dignity is personal, but losing your dignity, personality or who you are has nothing to do with your decision to follow your hubby/spouse to his church. I suggest you employ a more liberal approach to issue like this when it comes up in your life rather than this stiff approach of yours...you will need it. Just an advice Peace! |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by sunnyt1(m): 10:22am On Nov 14, 2014 |
jennykadry: Marriage is about togetherness/oneness, having a contrary opinion is a sure way of destroying a home. Destroying a marriage is a gradual thing just the way a student fails gradually right from the 1st day in school. Honestly, to have a successful marriage, you need the right mindset. The major reason for failed marriages is when a particular partner still thinks and acts like he/she is still single. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by valyzubxx(m): 10:33am On Nov 14, 2014 |
If you have been following him to Mr Biggs, Tantalizers, Crunches, KFC, Mac-Donalds, Shoprite; then I don't see any reason why you shouldn't follow him to his church 1 Like |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tete7000(m): 10:36am On Nov 14, 2014 |
beau49: Ma, you surprised me with your assertion. You mean a family where husband and wife attend different places of worship is a beautiful one? This shocked me. If I may ask where is onenesss and togetherness preached about marriage? The scripture says 'therefore a man shall leave her parents and cling to his wife; they are no longer two but one'. Jesus says ' A house divided against itself cannot stand'. So to you, there is no division when a husband and wife wake one Sunday morning, enter different cars and face different directions to different places of worship? In that case who shall the children follow and as children grow up and start asking questions, how do the parents explain the dichotomy? To you, do you think such children can really be convinced about any of the parents' faith or any faith for that matter? No wonder many children of nowadays believe nothing. How can they when they are raised in this type of home? It won't stop baffling how warp the concept of marriage has been turned in our modern world. However, in my own convinced opinion, marriage entails couples building a united family where things are done in togetherness. There can never be a family in disunity and you can't convince me otherwise. I refuse to buy your logic. Go back into your scripture and find out how God intends family to look like. Finally I don't see anything beautiful about the family you illustrated, if things look beautiful now check them out in years to come. I assure you will see bigger cracks showing up beyond that of faith. Devil, the master of tricks and deception is a long-term planner. He makes even wrong and pernicious things look good and beautiful on short term. Thanks |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by raphy(m): 10:57am On Nov 14, 2014 |
everybody have said it all....so ifshe need to obey her hubby and go to his church..if they r of different religion then can go worhip in different place.no body can force anybody #itsafreeworld |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:08am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Before u guys got married, u shuld av settled all issues of such manner... Abi didn't u knw the church he wz going when u were Dating?? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by raphy(m): 11:10am On Nov 14, 2014 |
tete7000 is surely on point.nice writeup |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by okudah(m): 11:10am On Nov 14, 2014 |
BreezyRita:what are u insinuating |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by okudah(m): 11:16am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Bibol:but if u re woman what ll u do? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tranxo(m): 11:27am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Qc1:Period! |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tranxo(m): 11:39am On Nov 14, 2014 |
akpur1:.....and what of those women who will never get married? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tranxo(m): 11:47am On Nov 14, 2014 |
lezz:Fact. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tranxo(m): 11:50am On Nov 14, 2014 |
jennykadry:So what is separation in your own dictionary? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 11:52am On Nov 14, 2014 |
barrybanbi:u c my broda, for dz kind of scenerio, Ruth case cant be left out, if a woman marries a man, she has married everytin abt d man. Ruth case is a perfect example 4 dz type of scenerio. moment she marries, she bears d name of her husband. And Remember Our Lord Jesus Christ, He Keeps Telling Us That Has He(Jesus) Is Head Of D Church So A Man The Head Of D Family. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by tranxo(m): 11:54am On Nov 14, 2014 |
lovemaths:......what a huge spiritual identity crisis for the kids. Not right for the kids. |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
barrybanbi:dz Is Nt Luring, D Woman Must Deem It Fit To Attend D Church Her Hubby Attends Moment She Bears Her Husband Name. If Nt Becos D World Is Changing Fast, I Have Series Of Examples With Me, Many Of My Elders Are Baptist, Including Me, Dy All Marry Frm Diffrnt Churches And These Women Neva Have It In Mind To Say Dy Wil Nt Atend Baptist, And They Ar Elites. Amose 3:3 |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Rapture4real(m): 12:05pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
kaybiel2u:You are very correct.However, this does not mean that the man is always right but you must submit. What you can do is to pray about it so that God can make him see reasons why you need to change the church if it is a bad church. But if your feeling is bad without any genuine reason, follow your husband to wherever he goes. I have a man in the baptist church I pastor whose wife attends a Deeper Life Church close to us. This woman is rebellious and she is deceiving herself. The first time she visited d church, she condemned all the choirs mode of dressing.I uphold holiness and modest christian dressing as a pastor but this woman does not see any dressing godly except the style of her church. What you should look for in a church is what they stand for.If they preach and practise the whole counsel of God, follow. It is not everything you see in a church which is bad that is approved by the Pastor. So follow your husband.If you have genuine reason, prayerfully and humbly talk him into it.Your marriage before your church. The order is this: God first, marriage, church. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by cbrass(m): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
hazyfm: You made it my business by commenting on this thread, you should have just worked by |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
tranxo: Where did you come from ? |
Re: Whose Church Is The Family Church?? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
sunnyt1: .....and going to different churches to serve same God is not practicing togetherness? |
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