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Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by tpia6: 6:44am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Another offshoot of the broken home thread, emotions are running a bit high there. Have you been unable to form friendships with people you like because of your background or status? Were they prevented from or were they not interested in befriending you because you're not suitable? How did you cope with the rejection? Note, friends, not relationships or dating. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by coogar: 11:02am On Nov 15, 2014 |
tpia's mid-life crisis continues to rage. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Nobody: 11:44am On Nov 15, 2014 |
Coogar, even u? Abeg naw. ![]() |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by coogar: 11:49am On Nov 15, 2014 |
moca: moca my neighbour. i have not been seeing you at the market lately. did you travel? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Coogar, ur head needs rewiring ![]() I dey o! How ekeresimesi go be? ![]() ![]() Where will it happen? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by coogar: 12:17pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
moca: ituku of course. me & my crew are landing on the 20th. i pity the maidens in the village this year. dem go hear weeeeeeeeeeen! |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Odunharry(m): 1:05pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
coogar:chaii....abeg easy on dem |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
You don't go trying to make friends with people who don't want you. Friendship starts with discussion, like personality etc. I have never asked someone to be my friend. It just happens. Maybe I don't understand this topic 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by tpia6: 4:13pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Let's say you want to be friends with someone. You both fill all the friendship requirements for the two of you (or more). Then, for reasons such as background, etc, your friend decides they can't associate with you. That's what I mean. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Caveatemptor(m): 7:56pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
tpia6: But Tpia darl,I have been trying to be your friend for ages yet you keep giving me the cold shoulder. Why now? Is it because I am younger than you that you refuse to associate with me or is it because of my background? ![]() tpia6: But Tpia darl,I have been trying to be your friend for ages yet you keep giving me the cold shoulder. Why now? Is it because I am younger than you that you refuse to associate with me or is it because of my background? |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by coogar: 8:04pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
tpia6: what kinda human being does background checks before befriending another? in most cases, people become friends before they even get to start talking about family & other issues. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Miami11: 8:04pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
tpia6:I had this friends that would always act as if we were cool, then they hold a party and not even a word, one day I just erased them from my life. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:05pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce:abi o .friendship should come natural. Abeg this world is already complex with so many issues why complicate it in being around people where you don't feel wanted, appreciated or needed.abeg.osshh 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:08pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
So as I was saying 1 Share
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Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Caveatemptor(m): 8:10pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
The Op,is suffering a mid life crisis. That is why she opens threads by the hour to protect her insecurity. That is why she alone has over a 100 variations of the same moniker. Reeks of low self esteem to me. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:11pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Brother Tony also said
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Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:14pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Even on www.nairaland.com 1 Like
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Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 8:15pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
The same Tony said
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Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by cococandy(f): 8:15pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Caveatemptor:yet you're pursuing her from thread to thread? ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Jochebed7(f): 8:18pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
well I once a deeper life friend back in sec school. really liked her but she started avoiding me after I jokingly made some derisive comments about some of their doctrines. guess she was avoiding my 'bad influence'.anyways guess you'll flow with whoever is right for you and vice versa. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by xynerise: 8:22pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Tpia and her weird threads |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
SAMBARRY:Abeg who is bro Tony? Your erm erm erm.. * clears throat * |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Miami11: If they didn't invite you, call and find out why. They better have a good reason for that else move on. They can never be your friend. Also beware of those giving excuses only to see change in status and they start distrpurbing your phone. Good friends can come from anywhere regardless of background. You don't need a validation when you see one. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by dre11(m): 10:03pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Maybe we need to redefined the meaning of friends self |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Miami11: 10:14pm On Nov 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce:I tell you, it was a birthday, a graduation a house warming, and to make it worse my roommate would be invited and me left out. Then the mean girls(two sisters) would later call me to go places, no explanation nada. I dumped them though and seriously they acted as if they were surprised lol 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by tpia6: 4:46am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Caveatemptor: This hurt my feelings, see how you're blowing hot and cold, darn. 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by tpia6: 4:50am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Jochebed7: True. In this case, I guess you both were ok with everything except religion. Imo, I think if your background or circumstances are considered a deterrent to friendship, then perhaps its not meant to be, as per topic. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by Caveatemptor(m): 9:21am On Nov 16, 2014 |
tpia6: You see Tpia dear,that is the kind of friend I would be..always telling you the truth at all times. It is a fact that your monikers range from Tpia1-100 or Tpia@-z. What does that symbolise except insecurity? And the opening of these weird threads every hour smacks of a lonely person who is in serious need of friends. Just my tuppence. |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by crackhaus: 5:21pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Caveatemptor:Misery, maybe? |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by SAMBARRY: 7:31pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Chillisauce:excuse me
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Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by tpia6: 9:24pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Caveatemptor: bro, what it symbolizes is 1270148 members. And the opening of these weird threads every hour smacks of a lonely person who is in serious need of friends. ok, thanks for volunteering. at least you downgraded from "i hereby step up to be your first toaster" to " 'i will now be your friend". thats what i call progress. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Been Considered Unsuitable As A Friend? by veave(f): 8:34am On Nov 17, 2014 |
I've had such a friend. her reasons were insecurity as i later came to understand. I think she was always scared of me out shining her 'which i would out rightly do without apologies'. So she started cytting off. But before she did, i gave her a run for her money. ![]() |
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