Imagine when she says stuff like "i wish your my man " to her EX

Then u'll know how it feels...


she sef na Human Being

Guy I undastnd yur point, it was a mare. Compliment but yu rily shudn't av said it, nt in her presence na,haba!

Yu shud b happy she angry about it cuzif she is nt den knw she aint yur GF.

Guy I undastnd yur point, it was a mare Compliment but yu rily shudn't av said it, at least nt in her presence na,haba!

On a mur serious note, Yu shud b happy she angry about it, cuz if she is nt den knw she aint yur GF.

Oga are you a learner

For heaven's sake you were openly flirting with your ex and to make matters worse you actually said that you wish you were the man in her life. And you expect her NOT to be MAD?? Are you for real??

Bros go and beg your girlfriend. Buy her something VERY expensive and tell her that you are very sorry!

You Goofed... Big Time!

Saying such words, in her presence?

Your compliment (which I see as more of an open confession) was not subtle. And you weren't discreet about it.

You girl is probably shopping for your replacement already.

op you effed up big time.

iceberylin:
Imagine when she says stuff like "i wish your my man " to her EX

Then u'll know how it feels...


she sef na Human Being

I'm not the jealous type jare...... I know its kinda insultive but why can't she just forget about it

Greyworld:
Guy I undastnd yur point, it was a mare Compliment but yu rily shudn't av said it, at least nt in her presence na,haba!

On a mur serious note, Yu shud b happy she angry about it, cuz if she is nt den knw she aint yur GF.

I already admitted my mistake and apologised but don't you think her attitude is overbearing

sevule:
Oga are you a learner

For heaven's sake you were openly flirting with your ex and to make matters worse you actually said that you wish you were the man in her life. And you expect her NOT to be MAD?? Are you for real??

Bros go and beg your girlfriend. Buy her something VERY expensive and tell her that you are very sorry!

I'm not a flirt. My remark was truly off-course but its almost a month ago. Can't she just forgive and forget

Don't worry brother, She will soon forgive and forget but wen u catch her on another guys bed.

mehnnnn...u r really wrong to say that in d presence of ur girl..hw cud u say somtin lyk dat to her hearing..if i was a girl(tnk God am not)i wud hv start my burst~up right that moment.
u wouldn't take dat if say had said dat to a guy.
Respect ur woman small..

Dats not longer a compliment bro.....yuh have take dat too far by saying such........come to tink of it, if she said dat to her ex right infront of yuh wat will be yur reaction....use yurself to judge too naah....

So u babe does the same to you,won't you react worse than that?

aristocrazzy:
So u babe does the same to you,won't you react worse than that?

Nope I won't over-react.

Etetejake:
Don't worry brother, She will soon forgive and forget but wen u catch her on another guys bed.

Texykool:
You Goofed... Big Time!

Saying such words, in her presence?

Your compliment (which I see as more of an open confession) was not subtle. And you weren't discreet about it.

You girl is probably shopping for your replacement already.

You two actually believe that getting involved with another guy is the best way to revenge. Its not as if I cheated on her.

Sheenor:
Dats not longer a compliment bro.....yuh have take dat too far by saying such........come to tink of it, if she said dat to her ex right infront of yuh wat will be yur reaction....use yurself to judge too naah....

I was just joking....... Though I agree its an expensive one

Swizdoe:
It all happened recently when I was invited to a get-together dinner party organised by my class set in secondary school way back. It was an avenue to meet some of my long lost classmates and friends but the biggest mistake I made was bringing my girl along.
I met my sec. school gf at the party. I've not set my eyes on her since we passed out and I must confess she had metamorphosed from the girl next door to an adorable young woman. I couldn't hide my admiration which I suspect that my babe noticed.
The final straw that broke the camels back was when I was exchanging pleasantries with her, we both got emotional and I said " I wished you were still in my life, your man is damn lucky" right in my girl's presence.
She curtailed her anger throughout the party until when we got home when she busted up to the ceilings and all effort to calm her proved abortive. She eventually calmed down but ever since at the slightest opportunity she will say " Go and meet your dreamgirl" which I found very annoying.
I don't know why she took an harmless statement that was suppose to be a compliment so personal and getting worked up over it. I've tried all my possible best to show her that I didn't mean it that way but she likes reminding me in an attempt to spite me and its really pissing me off.

u r an idiottt from capital I. who does such thing? i don't know if could continue relationship with u after such statement

Swizdoe:

I'm not the jealous type jare...... I know its kinda insultive but why can't she just forget about it

You call her response over sensitivity. .?

Not only did you severely disrespect her. You did it infront of the world. You actually humilated and belittled her. Except if she has self esteem issues would she not take offense at such

Put yourself in her shoes here and let her mutter those word to her ex in your presence that "I wish you were in my life". I guess you would just smile over it and make a joke of it.

Swizdoe:

Nope I won't over-react.

ok lets say it would be different statement. like she would say to her ex : oh u looking so good, i wish i would be still having sex with u. u wouldn't over react? because its exactly what i hear from your statement about your ex!

Swizdoe:

I'm not the jealous type jare...... I know its kinda insultive but why can't she just forget about it

because we r all different people and we react differently. what is normal for it normal for others. am surprised i have to explain this to u

you humiliated her... made her feel like she ain't shi-t.

voodoo85:


u r an idiottt from capital I. who does such thing? i don't know if could continue relationship with u after such statement

Calm down please, you are really taking it personal. Thank God she's not you anyway

Swizdoe:

Calm down please, you are really taking it personal. Thank God she's not you anyway

she should be me with such your remarks. u r not worth of her

voodoo85:


ok lets say it would be different statement. like she would say to her ex : oh u looking so good, i wish i would be still having sex with u. u wouldn't over react? because its exactly what i hear from your statement about your ex!

I still won't over react. We're not married yet for christ-sake

voodoo85:


because we r all different people and we react differently. what is normal for it normal for others. am surprised i have to explain this to u

Thanks for the explanation..... But don't you think she misunderstood me

voodoo85:


she should be me with such your remarks. u r not worth of her

Stop being judgmental. No matter what you think, she knows me more than you do.

Swizdoe:

That's what you think but she knows me more than you.

but still gives u comments about your statement :DDD

Swizdoe:

Thanks for the explanation..... But don't you think she misunderstood me

no i don't think so. that was great insult from your side. my last words would be if she is so great go and be with her

Arrrgggh! You said that?
And still think it was nothing? Op, you need help!
I dont know how I'd handle that but definitely not calmly. You made her look like trash before your ex!

You should go meet her. Jux saying